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    It doesn’t depend on fediverse software.

    Whatever is the fediverse software, your credential will only work on your instance, your fediverse home server.

    More exactly, your credentials are stored in the database of a server. If you have created an account on lemmy.world, you can’t login on lemmy.zip (another server), nor mastodon.social (another server…), nor peertube.org, loops.xyz…

    Because they are different server, they don’t share the same database, they have their own database. Your credentials are only on lemmy.world, so other servers don’t know who you are.

    However, there are several technical solutions, that allow cross-platform login. They are not easy to set up :


    LADP

    We could create a LADP, that’s a huge database with users credentials. For example, yunohost. When you install several apps with yunohost, you don’t have to create another account for each installed apps because those apps share the same database where your credentials are stored.


    OAuth

    There is another method : OAuth. I guess it talks with severs but i can’t explain how it works. Piefed use it for login with already existing account elsewhere as mastodon (?). We could log in to piefed with a mastodon account, or google.


  • see if you can improve your interactions

    Are you sure it improves interaction ?

    • This post is the proof that it don’t improve interaction. From my experience, they don’t understand. It didn’t improve their understanding nor invited them to introspect themselve.
    • I don’t think that everyone has the same sensibility. That also tell if users are empathic or unkind.
    • You asume downvoter are always right and we should accept the result with dignity. What if we complained about downvote because we told people that our world isn’t flat but round ?





  • I would start with the most boring topic, i think we undersestimate them how spicy they can be :

    • The weather is sunny.
    • yes it is.
    • i love sunny day.
    • mee too.
    • just enjoy quietly the sun and sip your beer.

    Joke aside, i don’t have any good advice, but i love imagining boring conversation. 🥹

    I believe, it depend on the flow. Some people like bold statement, other prefer the long game. Some hate spicy, some love spicy…but what matter is listening to them and that’s the most difficult part because we don’t tell things directly. Like you do for spicy thing. That’s a mess. I like telling them wild things, i also enjoy those kind of conversation.

    However, it depends on the mood and how open at the moment they are, their background, personalities. It can completly destroy the dating experience and our ego.

    I think you would have highter chance in some place. For example, people on tinder or okcupid or bubble or wyld don’t have the same profil. They are quite different and the cashgrab algorithm work differently.

    Same for coffee, bar, restorant, voluntering work, hobbies…we go to certain place where we fell the most comfortable. What i’m trying to say, maybe it depends on where you meet them or contact them. At least, that’s what i understood. maybe i’m wrong, dunno.

    Honnestly, you should tell them directly, we have only one life, so let’s play :

    “Would you be confortable if i tell you a story like that ? I love those kind of conversation.”

    Or, maybe you are tied to a past experience and finding the same kind of interaction will be very hard. So you will be never sastified and later you will enjoy other side that you haven’t noticed before.














  • I’m doing a course of french sign language.

    i’m very happy because most of sign language lesson are for hearing and i’m Deaf. So most of course couldn’t accept me.

    However, finally, after nine years (2017), i found a good place to improve my sign language.

    And there i learn so much about french deaf culture. Three Deaf teachers, very different and they have their own way to teach us.

    My group is very cool, fun, and we laught a lot. So i’m happy. Sadly it will end soon at 17 April but that was an amazing experience. :)