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  • Eq0@literature.cafetoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldMake Art
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    Making art is just a part of being human. Who doesn’t doodle? Arrange something in a nice pattern? Sing a new tune under the shower?

    We have been told that only “good” art is worth making, but that’s a lie! Any art in any form is worth it because it’s worth it to the creator. Art doesn’t need an audience, at just is.




  • You met three days ago? And you are “basically living together”?

    Considering the length, it’s a fling. Considering you haven’t talked about it, it’s a situationship.

    My unwanted and unasked advice is to take some distance for at least a day before calling it anything at all. And then talk about expectations.

    Honestly (anecdote time!), when I started going out with my partner, I had some weird and totally personal hang ups with the word “boyfriend”. So for a couple of months they were “the person I am seeing” then became my “partner”. We had the conversation about exclusivity and such, talked about where we saw stuff going and so on, but wording was difficult. A word is just a word, as long as you both agree on the rest it doesn’t really matter much.






  • I never traveled solo, and don’t regret it at all. I enjoy more spending time with friends and acquaintances than doing things “my way”. I still had smaller trips on my own, arriving earlier than the rest of the group, but never enjoyed it much. So, I don’t think it’s dumb, do what you feel you will like.





  • My personal pet peeve about Duolingo;”: it doesn’t teach you a new language, it teaches you to translate to your main language. That’s absolutely not how you want to learn a language! You want the target language to stand on its own, not be piece-by-piece translated back at any interaction.

    I can magnanimously appreciate Duolingo for the purpose of giving a rough base of a new language, maybe even a little but of vocabulary. I hate everything else about it.






  • The main road arteries of Italy were already developed at the peak of the Roman Empire, with postal stations along them at “best” intervals to support travelers, so you could sustain an almost optimal speed. 8h/day is a reasonable maintainable schedule over long hikes, assuming mostly flat tracks - and that is the case for the Roman roads. Still, would take an optimal month, so likely one and a half months to cross Italy on foot.