90 Day Fiance- Before the 90 Days - Season 8 Episode 04- It's Going To Be A Bumpy Ride
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00:00:00It's so embarrassing. I'm sorry. This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:00:05For the past 21 years, I have been with women only.
00:00:08But Daniel has no idea about this aspect of my life.
00:00:12I'm terrified to tell him because a couple of months ago,
00:00:16I told him I had a fling with a woman.
00:00:20And he was disgusted.
00:00:23He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:00:25I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:00:29Don't make jokes.
00:00:31He doesn't love you. That's not what love is.
00:00:34He wants a ticket to America.
00:00:36There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face.
00:00:40But if I'm not willing to take a risk for love,
00:00:43then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:00:48We can't make more than hugs or kiss and check until we get married.
00:00:54But that's just not what you said.
00:00:55A couple of weeks ago, I realized that he followed thousands of women.
00:01:00And it turns out that he was talking to one of the girls.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:05Now seeing how he's acting in person, it's making me question things.
00:01:10Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other.
00:01:21And I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:24But my mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
00:01:28Apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed.
00:01:41I'm scared that I'm going to pee all over the floor because every time I get nervous, I pee.
00:01:56I'm going to see his face and it's just going to flow out of me, drip down my legs.
00:01:59And what an impression that's going to be.
00:02:09I am nervous and I am excited and I'm scared to death because things can be different when he meets you in person.
00:02:18What if he hides?
00:02:19What if he changes his mind once I get there?
00:02:21I don't know what he's going to think about me.
00:02:23I don't know if he's going to be like, wow, she's a lot older than I thought.
00:02:27But I don't know.
00:02:29Today, I'm leaving for Nigeria to go see Daniel for the first time.
00:02:36And I'm feeling overwhelmed and excited and nervous.
00:02:42My daughter, Faith, brought up some serious concerns at dinner the other night that Daniel could be scamming me and I'm not ignoring them.
00:02:50But all I can think about is how I just want to touch his face and feel the dimples in his cheeks and feel his beard.
00:02:57I want to pull him in and just kiss him.
00:02:59These are the wigs I am taking with me.
00:03:04They're brand new.
00:03:05I have three because they get ruined very fast.
00:03:08I will not be wearing the wig on the plane.
00:03:13My plan is to put it on in the bathroom once I land.
00:03:16It just needs to go on my carry-on bag.
00:03:21Wearing a wig, it's a process and it's not fun.
00:03:25It sticks to your hair.
00:03:27It sticks to your skin.
00:03:28You have rashes.
00:03:29You have all kinds of sores.
00:03:31It's going to be stressful to deal with in Nigeria.
00:03:34But it makes him so happy.
00:03:38I want to look beautiful for Daniel.
00:03:40So I will be keeping it on all day and all night.
00:03:42I'm sleeping in my wig.
00:03:43So today, Mom is going to Nigeria.
00:03:51I'm pretty nervous.
00:03:55Not sure how it's going to go.
00:03:58She's horrible with directions.
00:04:00I am hopeful she gets the answers and the relationship she's hoping for.
00:04:08But honestly, there's still a lot of concerns for me.
00:04:12Hi, Faith.
00:04:14I have some toast and coffee for you.
00:04:17Oh, wonderful.
00:04:19Yeah, especially brood.
00:04:21That's the first thing I want.
00:04:23I know.
00:04:24All right, listen.
00:04:25Here's something really important.
00:04:27The certified letter is coming for the divorce.
00:04:29Yeah.
00:04:30So you have to go to the post office to mail it.
00:04:33That has to be done.
00:04:35Like immediately?
00:04:36Yes.
00:04:37Because the court hearing date that the judge signs the paper is on the 29th.
00:04:41So that the divorce becomes finalized on the 29th.
00:04:44I want to come clean and tell him that not only I was still married, but the divorce is there.
00:04:50And I want to show him the papers of the divorce.
00:04:53I'm just, Mom, you not only lied about the fact that, oh, you didn't just have a fling
00:04:59with a woman, no, you've been married to women several times, but you also told him you're
00:05:06not married.
00:05:07Not only does he not know that I've been with women for the past 21 years, Daniel doesn't
00:05:15know that I am technically still married to a woman.
00:05:18He asked me if I was free to marry when he first started talking to me, and I said, yeah, I'm
00:05:27free to marry.
00:05:28Because in my heart, I have been free to marry because my ex-wife and I have been separated
00:05:32for over nine years.
00:05:34We just never got around to signing the divorce papers until now.
00:05:38If that happened to me, I would be devastated.
00:05:42I wouldn't be able to trust that person.
00:05:44Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip and tell him everything.
00:05:48I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:05:51He's going to know about it beforehand.
00:05:57Just trust me.
00:05:58I'm just worried.
00:05:59Don't worry.
00:06:00Don't worry.
00:06:01I got this.
00:06:02Let's get going.
00:06:03We need to get to the airport.
00:06:05It is getting late, and we don't have a flight going.
00:06:08I do have a flight.
00:06:10I struggle trusting my mom that she's not going to somehow try and get married in there.
00:06:16Please do not ruin your life for getting married to somebody before you're ready.
00:06:21I need to grab my phone.
00:06:23That's the last thing I need.
00:06:28So if Daniel was asking you to get married while you were in that area, would you keep
00:06:31your hands to faith?
00:06:32Would I go against faith's wishes?
00:06:39I want to say no.
00:06:43But my heart says, hold on to Daniel and do it.
00:06:48Jump with both feet in.
00:06:52I want to be Mrs. Daniel.
00:06:55I want to be with him.
00:06:57I want to be a part of him.
00:06:59I want to be his wife.
00:07:02So I don't know what I'll do.
00:07:04I really don't know.
00:07:07Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:07:09Yeah, I can do that.
00:07:11Woo, here we go.
00:07:22Here we go.
00:07:22Oh, 61.
00:07:25Oh, 61.
00:07:28What?
00:07:29Oh, 61.
00:07:31I got three.
00:07:32Oh, you done good.
00:07:34Oh, 70.
00:07:35I met my husband when I was in high school.
00:07:40I was married to a soldier.
00:07:43He lived up the street.
00:07:46My husband and I met in junior college.
00:07:49We loved to skate.
00:07:50So our first date was going skating.
00:07:53The first date, we went to a fair.
00:07:57And I sort of thought, you know, I like him.
00:08:05I didn't want to be with anybody else.
00:08:08That was just, that was it.
00:08:12He said, I wanted you to have a heart ring.
00:08:19And here it is.
00:08:20I've done waiting.
00:08:27No more.
00:08:28Can't sit in.
00:08:30There's nothing more to once more.
00:08:34You got to feel it.
00:08:36You got to believe it.
00:08:39There's a whole new world you're looking for.
00:08:43Babe.
00:08:44Oh, what?
00:08:45Good afternoon.
00:08:48Good afternoon.
00:08:49Oh, boy.
00:08:50My name is Javon.
00:08:52I'm 38 years old.
00:08:53And I grew up in Jacksonville, Alabama.
00:08:57Who's winning?
00:08:58Who has a bingo?
00:08:59I've got several bingos.
00:09:01Oh, nice.
00:09:03I work at a nursing home.
00:09:05And I like my job.
00:09:09You know, old people, they just say some of the first things that come to their mind.
00:09:14They have no filters.
00:09:15And it's just pure comedy.
00:09:17What did you bring us today?
00:09:18We have grapes, crackers, cheese, salami.
00:09:23Ooh.
00:09:24Look at all that cheese.
00:09:26But it's just a low-paying job.
00:09:28Anybody else need any silverware?
00:09:30I think that's where I fall short when it comes to women.
00:09:34American women, they want six-pack, six figures, six inches.
00:09:41I call them the three sixes.
00:09:43And it's not me.
00:09:48That's good.
00:09:49We hear you're going to the Philippines.
00:09:53Oh, yeah.
00:09:55Yeah, it's a trip way overdue.
00:09:56I'm going to see my wife.
00:09:59When was the last time you saw her?
00:10:03Uh, actually, I've never even met my wife yet.
00:10:06So, this would be actually our first meet.
00:10:14Oh, okay.
00:10:17Really?
00:10:18Yeah.
00:10:20Aw.
00:10:21My wife is Anna Lynn.
00:10:23She's 38 years old.
00:10:25And she's from the Philippines, Cavite.
00:10:28Hey, boo, it's your wife.
00:10:30I hope you're having a great day.
00:10:31We connected online about five years ago.
00:10:40And we've been married for about two years.
00:10:45He said that?
00:10:47No, that's wrong.
00:10:49We have been in a relationship for six years.
00:10:51And we have been married for almost three years.
00:10:55Okay?
00:10:58Hello, boo-boo.
00:10:59I love you, and I appreciate you.
00:11:02Mwah!
00:11:03Boy, the moment I saw him, he's so good to look at.
00:11:08Yummers.
00:11:14Even though we were on the opposite sides of the world,
00:11:17we would talk for hours every day,
00:11:19and he just made me feel like the happiest that I've ever been.
00:11:23Maybe a year after, we started talking online.
00:11:29I wanted to meet Anna Lynn in person.
00:11:32But when COVID hit, I couldn't no longer travel.
00:11:36There were flight restrictions.
00:11:37I was kind of feeling hopeless,
00:11:41and I was afraid that I'm going to lose him.
00:11:44And then I was scrolling on social media,
00:11:47and I saw these couples getting married online.
00:11:52And I thought if we were married legally,
00:11:54he would be able to enter the Philippine border
00:11:57because they allow family,
00:11:59which means blood or your spouse.
00:12:02When Anna Lynn first brought up online marriages,
00:12:08I was just like, what the hell?
00:12:13I had doubts, of course, because it's unorthodox,
00:12:18but I just had a lot of faith.
00:12:21When you meet the one that you're supposed to spend
00:12:23the rest of your life with,
00:12:24you can't even actually put it into words.
00:12:25It's like, that's what they say.
00:12:27When you know, you know.
00:12:28It's kind of like that.
00:12:29All right.
00:12:32Place the rings on your fingers
00:12:34as a symbol of the love that you share
00:12:36and the commitment that you're making.
00:12:39How I envisioned my wedding was not a Zoom call.
00:12:43Absolutely not.
00:12:44But it was still the happiest day of my life.
00:12:47It is now my privilege to pronounce you
00:12:49lawfully wed as husband and wife.
00:12:54I finally had my perfect wife.
00:13:00I just need to meet her in person.
00:13:03How could you be married for years
00:13:05and never go to the Philippines to see your wife?
00:13:09Uh, the whole thing is very expensive.
00:13:12So, you know, and then I have to save up for it.
00:13:14So that's mostly the reason why.
00:13:18Over the years, me and Anna Lynn
00:13:20have tried to meet up several times,
00:13:22but work and finances got in the way.
00:13:26And having a marriage online has been challenging.
00:13:31Especially because Anna Lynn has changed.
00:13:34When I first met Anna, she was more patient, sweeter.
00:13:41She just had more positive vibes about her.
00:13:44I'm like, hold on, what's going on here?
00:13:46I've always been feisty.
00:13:50He knows that.
00:13:52And I'm not the typical Filipina.
00:13:54I don't like being told what to do.
00:13:56I don't like being controlled.
00:13:59After a period of time,
00:14:00I had to fight to actually speak,
00:14:03to be heard.
00:14:04Lately, it feels like we're fighting
00:14:06more than we're getting along.
00:14:08I know we're already committed as man and wife.
00:14:10But before I apply for that spousal visa
00:14:13and move Anna Lynn to the U.S.,
00:14:16we need to spend physical time with one another
00:14:18to make sure I made the right choice.
00:14:22I'm going out there because I love her.
00:14:25I'm going to give it everything I got.
00:14:27But I'm worried that our problems
00:14:29are maybe a little bit too big to resolve.
00:14:32And if we can't,
00:14:34I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:14:40Yeah, you're so excited, huh?
00:14:42Oh, yeah.
00:14:43Oh, yeah.
00:14:45You're so handsome, always.
00:14:46I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:14:48I've been waiting seven years
00:14:50to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:14:53I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off,
00:14:55but I'm kind of still nervous
00:14:58about what it's going to do.
00:15:02I don't like that we were fighting yesterday,
00:15:04but there's something else I wanted to talk to you about
00:15:07that I didn't tell you yet.
00:15:09What? What is this? What's happening?
00:15:15Hello.
00:15:46I wanted to get out for a bit this morning and clear my mind because my night with Emma
00:16:00was horrible.
00:16:02I want to be her husband, but we need some time to know each other.
00:16:07I hope things better today.
00:16:08I pictured my first morning here a lot differently.
00:16:16Like I thought I'd be waking up next to him and he would be like bringing me coffee in
00:16:20the morning and cuddling with me.
00:16:22And that's not how it went at all.
00:16:25We've actually just been completely separate.
00:16:28See that behavior last night, it's making me a little suspicious, but I'm trying not
00:16:35to just be in my head and overthink things.
00:16:38I want this to be fun and I want us to just focus on the positive.
00:16:44I'm really determined to turn things around.
00:16:46I want this to be fun and I want this to be fun and I want this to be fun.
00:17:16That's it.
00:17:17This is your place.
00:17:18I hope you will like it.
00:17:19Thanks, babe.
00:17:26Really?
00:17:26Hello.
00:17:32She's adorable.
00:17:35My favorite.
00:17:36Eggs.
00:17:37I don't like eggs, but I'll eat it because she cooked it.
00:17:42Do you want to talk about yesterday?
00:17:45What do you want to start for what?
00:17:47I mean, it wasn't really like a good start to my trip.
00:17:51I don't like that we were fighting all day.
00:17:53Yeah.
00:17:54That's not how I expected like my first night to go.
00:17:58Can you pour me some more tea, please?
00:18:01Yeah.
00:18:01Oh, you drink that all quickly?
00:18:04I love the tea here.
00:18:05Okay.
00:18:06Um, but yes, I did want to say sorry to you.
00:18:09I don't hear you.
00:18:11I don't hear you.
00:18:12I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:13Can you repeat?
00:18:14I don't hear what you say.
00:18:15I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:16For what?
00:18:19For running away from your kiss.
00:18:22And?
00:18:24Walking away from you when you were talking.
00:18:27I mean, I'm sorry, yesterday got like really dramatic, but I think it was just a long day
00:18:33for me because I was traveling for like 20 hours.
00:18:36I know it's difficult.
00:18:38And it was just like a lot going on.
00:18:39There was like a lot in my mind.
00:18:42Actually, there's something else I wanted to like talk to you about that like I didn't
00:18:46tell you yet.
00:18:47I was just like upset the past couple days because you know how much I love my job.
00:19:07Like I've been there for five years and well, I got fired.
00:19:12I don't know if I want to talk about it because I'm going to cry.
00:19:21No, no, you don't need this.
00:19:24Listen, listen.
00:19:27I just need a minute.
00:19:30Emma.
00:19:38Sorry.
00:19:39No, no.
00:19:40Don't cry.
00:19:42It's, uh, I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:19:44It's all right.
00:19:45It's just a walk.
00:19:47It's perfect.
00:19:49And you don't need to cry for it.
00:19:52So just enjoy your moments.
00:19:54No, don't cry.
00:19:55Don't cry.
00:19:55Okay.
00:19:56Don't cry.
00:19:57Okay.
00:20:04I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:20:06I don't have any like options right now.
00:20:09It's difficult and it's hard.
00:20:11But at the end, there is a lot of jobs.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:14You will find another one more better than you last.
00:20:18Right now, I want you to enjoy here in Marrakesh.
00:20:22We are together and everything will be good.
00:20:26I think we definitely started this trip, like, on the wrong foot.
00:20:35It was like a tornado.
00:20:37But right now, he is showing me that he cares about what I'm going through.
00:20:41I love you, babe.
00:20:42Yeah, he is.
00:20:42I love you more.
00:20:44But what's the mean tornado?
00:20:46Like an earthquake.
00:20:48Like a natural disaster.
00:20:50So, like, when I got off the plane, what happened between us was like an earthquake.
00:20:53Yeah, yeah, that's an amazing example.
00:20:56My future hubby.
00:21:02Do you know what that means?
00:21:05No, in your space?
00:21:06What's the meaning?
00:21:07It's short for husband.
00:21:08Really?
00:21:09Yeah.
00:21:10Where's hubby?
00:21:12One feet.
00:21:13Yeah.
00:21:15Exactly.
00:21:16Exactly.
00:21:16God, I can't believe the trees, how beautiful they are.
00:21:42I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:43I'm probably going to...
00:21:43I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:45I'm going to have a sunburn in about 10 seconds.
00:21:47Locked away your soul.
00:21:52My heart is racing now.
00:21:55All right, see you later, Deb.
00:21:57Where are we going?
00:21:58See you later.
00:22:00I don't know.
00:22:01I just arrived in the Philippines with my parents and finally met the girl of my dreams after seven years.
00:22:09Just being able to touch and hold her hand, it was so amazing.
00:22:14Did a little more than hold hands, I'd say.
00:22:17Laka, laka.
00:22:19Yeah.
00:22:20Oh, this is incredible.
00:22:25Yeah, there's a lot to take in here.
00:22:28Crazy.
00:22:29This is definitely controlled chaos.
00:22:31If I could describe the Philippines in one word, it'd be hectic.
00:22:38It's got people, like, almost running into each other or running each other over constantly.
00:22:42Oh, man.
00:22:43Glad I'm not driving.
00:22:45But it's got its own, like, charm to it.
00:22:50Look at that.
00:22:51That thing is pretty good.
00:22:52Yes, this is the jeepney.
00:22:54This is locally here in my country.
00:22:56They have converted old jeepneys from the World War II who have been left with Americans, so they converted for, like, taxis.
00:23:03Incredible.
00:23:04You can see the big building there.
00:23:07That's the condo we're going to stay.
00:23:10I wish I could stay at your place.
00:23:12Yeah.
00:23:13Sheena's parents own her apartment in Manila, but we're not staying there because her parents said we had to pay for it if we did stay.
00:23:23When Sheena told me that, it made me really upset because I'm planning on marrying their daughter, and I would be their son, and to charge family to come stay at their house is just up to me.
00:23:34It's absurd, especially because we have been saving for the last seven years just to afford the plane ticket to actually just meet her.
00:23:42Sheena said, I know it doesn't make sense, but it's what my parents want.
00:23:45It's their wishes.
00:23:45I can't really go around that, but I'm not paying them money.
00:23:53This is the place.
00:23:55All right.
00:23:55All right.
00:23:55We are here.
00:24:00Here you go, mama.
00:24:01That's it.
00:24:02The jackpot.
00:24:03Oh, .
00:24:04I got it.
00:24:05All right.
00:24:05Charge.
00:24:08Sheena is an extreme foodie, and she likes to make sure that I'm well fed.
00:24:14Well, that's a cultural thing in my country.
00:24:18Whoa.
00:24:18I'd sure like to open him up and see what he's about.
00:24:21Oh, my goodness.
00:24:21I can definitely smell him.
00:24:23Oh.
00:24:23Yeah, you know.
00:24:25Yeah, he's a little excited at the top.
00:24:27Don't go for that.
00:24:28Yeah, okay.
00:24:29So, sorry, baby.
00:24:34This is all I could get for you guys.
00:24:37You can see that we have two bedrooms here.
00:24:40It's like a simple home, but comfy.
00:24:42So, the place is nice, it's pretty, but it could have been a little bit bigger.
00:24:51I state this claim in the name of Forrest.
00:24:54It feels good.
00:24:56You're big, too.
00:24:57Here, I'll throw these in here for you.
00:24:58It's not exactly the ideal place to be sharing with my parents.
00:25:03If me and Sheena, you know, decide to get down, I really just hope my parents don't hear us.
00:25:11Sheena.
00:25:12What?
00:25:13This feels more than online right now.
00:25:17Oh.
00:25:17It's making me even more nervous.
00:25:21Oh, you don't have to be.
00:25:22I'm here right with you.
00:25:23Oh, I know.
00:25:24I can see.
00:25:25Yeah, you're so excited, huh?
00:25:27Oh, yeah.
00:25:27Oh, yeah.
00:25:28Because I got some good stuff here.
00:25:32Excuse me, baby.
00:25:34Boom.
00:25:35What is that?
00:25:36This is something amazing, and I want you to try it on for me if you want.
00:25:43Whoa, what's that thing?
00:25:46I think it is a cloth that goes on your body.
00:25:51It accentuates your sexuality.
00:25:56Oh, that's nice.
00:25:57I love the color.
00:25:59Oh, yeah.
00:26:00That's cool.
00:26:00I guess, guess what?
00:26:01There's even more.
00:26:03What?
00:26:03You have more?
00:26:04I have more.
00:26:06Oh, wow.
00:26:07I got you a pretty thong.
00:26:10Wow.
00:26:11To be honest, I feel quite nervous because I am a virgin, but Forrest makes me feel confident
00:26:21of my body.
00:26:22This is another one for you in case you want to.
00:26:25Hey, that's cool.
00:26:26That's beautiful.
00:26:27Oh, okay.
00:26:29Oh, okay.
00:26:36You're so handsome always.
00:26:38I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:26:40Okay.
00:26:40Go for it, my love.
00:26:41Debrush.
00:26:42All right.
00:26:43Everything, my love.
00:26:46You know, when I was making, like, sexy talk with her, I was really just trying to, like,
00:26:51put her at ease, make her laugh, you know, just calm the mood.
00:26:57I've been waiting seven years to be alone with Sheena like this, but to be honest, I'm
00:27:03actually kind of still nervous about what is my heart to do.
00:27:08I mean, I'm not saying I can't pull her socks off, but having sex with Sheena, I feel like
00:27:16it's an important thing for the both of us to be in the right mindset.
00:27:22It's just a big deal.
00:27:24I love you.
00:27:25I love you.
00:27:25Do you want the lights on or off?
00:27:27Well, turn off the lights, babe.
00:27:35It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:27:40I still have flaws and imperfections, and so I am nervous that BeerCon won't be as attracted
00:27:48to me in person.
00:27:49Oh, my God.
00:27:50Here we go.
00:27:55We are in the process of landing, and I don't know if it was the cheese sandwich or BeerCon,
00:28:02but I'm excited.
00:28:03So this is the most important day, actually, in my life.
00:28:18I'm trying to look good, you know, for our big meeting, for the first time.
00:28:24Everything has to go perfect.
00:28:26So I will iron it until it's perfect, or it's burned.
00:28:32Laura is arriving tricky today, and today might be the first day of my rest of my life.
00:28:39Laura rented this Airbnb for us.
00:28:44I never saw this big of place.
00:28:49It just chills me.
00:28:50Right now, I'm staying with different friends.
00:28:57Sometimes Izmir, sometimes Istanbul.
00:29:00That's why Laura couldn't stay with me.
00:29:03But the privacy of our place is going to be nice, because we have a lot of things to discuss
00:29:10face to face.
00:29:11It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:29:28I'm so excited now.
00:29:30I just want to run out of this airport and leave all my luggage here.
00:29:40Oh.
00:29:41Oh, my God.
00:29:44She come early.
00:29:54It's slightly cold that I am having a heart attack, or I am excited.
00:29:59Yeah, we will see.
00:30:03I am going to wear a dress to meet this man.
00:30:06I think that will be a lot cuter than the hot mess that I'm currently wearing.
00:30:12I'm really proud of the progress that I've made over the last 14 months, but I still
00:30:18have flaws and imperfections, and so I am nervous that Birkan won't be as attracted
00:30:25to me in person.
00:30:27And I think that's a cute dress.
00:30:30All right.
00:30:31The woman I love is coming, so I'm thrilled.
00:30:40My hopes are we will get engaged and go to America, live together, and get married.
00:30:47All right.
00:30:48But maybe she will hate me.
00:30:49But maybe she will hate me.
00:30:51Nobody knows.
00:30:52I love you.
00:30:53I love you.
00:30:54I love you.
00:30:55I love you.
00:30:56I love you.
00:30:57This is it?
00:30:58I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
00:31:08Oh, my God.
00:31:09Here we go.
00:31:10I love you.
00:31:11I love you.
00:31:12I love you.
00:31:13I love you.
00:31:14How are you?
00:31:16Good.
00:31:17How are you?
00:31:18Good.
00:31:19How are you?
00:31:20Good.
00:31:21How are you?
00:31:23Good.
00:31:24How are you doing?
00:31:25It was so long.
00:31:26Yeah, I know. I am still thinking about, oh, my God, America, you know?
00:31:31Yeah.
00:31:41I think everything's perfect right now, yeah.
00:31:45That's really sweet.
00:31:46Yeah, it was. I know. I know. Yeah.
00:31:52So let's go this way.
00:31:55Okay. These bumps are a pain with suitcases.
00:31:58He looks amazing.
00:31:59Exactly the aesthetic that I've been describing,
00:32:03which is that dark romance male main character.
00:32:07When you look at her, what do you think?
00:32:08She's perfect.
00:32:09I don't need to look at her. I don't need, because I feel it, you know?
00:32:13I'm complete, so we don't need to see.
00:32:16That's probably the best answer ever.
00:32:18That was, like, the best flight I've ever taken.
00:32:21Yeah.
00:32:22Seriously.
00:32:23I'm glad. I'm really glad. Yeah.
00:32:28Yeah.
00:32:29It's good to see you.
00:32:30You too.
00:32:31I don't know what's happening.
00:32:38It's very awkward right now.
00:32:39I really wasn't expecting that, because, you know, it was, like, great when we first met. He hugged me, he kissed me. And then we sit on this train, and we're going to see him.
00:32:49I don't know what's happening.
00:32:56It's very awkward right now.
00:33:01I really wasn't expecting that because, you know, it was, like, great when we first met.
00:33:06He hugged me, he kissed me, and then we sit on this train, and it's like he doesn't know who I am.
00:33:11And I don't know who he is.
00:33:13I think we're close.
00:33:22I'm hoping that as time moves forward, that this will turn around, and it will feel more like it did when we were online.
00:33:31But right now, something is off, and it's freaking me out.
00:33:43Anna called me like it were, talking about your brother, your brother.
00:33:48I know that Anna is 1,000% unhinged, like, kind of off her rocker a little bit.
00:33:53She was just talking about that woman.
00:33:58Uh, yeah.
00:34:00Who is the woman?
00:34:01Hey, y'all, I'm ready to roll.
00:34:11Fully loaded, y'all, I'm ready for whoa.
00:34:14Straight up out of the bunker, might jump ya.
00:34:17Zombies out here to hunt ya.
00:34:19This is nice.
00:34:22Really?
00:34:23This is screaming, I failed a pottery class.
00:34:27No, but she doesn't like how you dress, so you gotta do something else.
00:34:29Ugh.
00:34:30I think you got some good purchases.
00:34:43Ugh.
00:34:44Yeah, I don't have a lot of faith in that shirt.
00:34:47It'll be fine.
00:34:49It's gonna be fine.
00:34:51I'm running some last-minute errands with my sister Ashley,
00:34:54because I'm flying to the Philippines in a couple of days
00:34:57to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:35:01I'm excited, and I'm super nervous, because we've been married for three years.
00:35:06But we've never been in the same room or even the same continent with each other.
00:35:10So, are you all packed up?
00:35:15You ready?
00:35:15Uh, I think I'm as ready as I'm ever gonna be.
00:35:20And, you know, me and Anna's relationship, it's just been this spiraling, like, up-and-down,
00:35:25loop-de-loop rollercoaster ride.
00:35:27But when things are good, I'm, like, really happy to be in a relationship.
00:35:30I think Anna's very funny.
00:35:32Yeah.
00:35:32Like, Anna seems like she's a good time.
00:35:36She's just a lot.
00:35:40Javon, marrying somebody online was actually wild to me.
00:35:45I do think they love each other, but I don't know, like,
00:35:48I wouldn't just call this, like, a normal marriage.
00:35:51This is something I've never seen or heard of before.
00:35:56You know, like, Anna actually called me.
00:36:00You spoke to her?
00:36:01Mm-hmm.
00:36:04When she called me, like, at work, I'm working, I'm with customers,
00:36:09and she's just, you know, talking about your brother, your brother,
00:36:12I don't know what to do with him.
00:36:13Rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah.
00:36:17And I was like, can't even get her off the phone.
00:36:19Yeah.
00:36:20She was just talking about that woman.
00:36:26Uh, yeah.
00:36:28So who, who is the woman?
00:36:32So the woman is just, like, a friend of mine that I've, that I've known for a long time.
00:36:46We communicate so well, and we can stay on the phone for hours.
00:36:50Whereas I think because we're both having problems in our, you know, relationship, it's, it's, it's definitely more easygoing and it's more positive.
00:36:58So, but what is it that, that Anna's so, like, threatened and bothered by her?
00:37:07Like, what, what is it?
00:37:09Because I feel like I'm missing something.
00:37:11Yeah, I mean, there used to be this, this, this, this, this small thing between us, but we're better.
00:37:20Also, that, so, so, Javon, that's not okay.
00:37:25That is no good.
00:37:26I, I know, you know, and I'm not.
00:37:28So, so that's why she's so upset then.
00:37:30Yeah.
00:37:30Me and my friend, we never officially dated, but there was feelings for one another.
00:37:37We lost touch for a while, but I reached out to her because I was going through a rough time in my marriage and I needed someone that knew me and that understood me.
00:37:51I wasn't trying to hide anything.
00:37:54So I just came out and told Annalena I was talking to this other person.
00:37:58I don't think it's a big deal, but obviously she does because she's extremely pissed off and upset.
00:38:07I'm not saying she don't have a valid reason to be upset, but it's just completely platonic, you know, and she don't have to worry about that.
00:38:17Have you tried to call her?
00:38:20I have, but, you know, she, she blocked me.
00:38:25For real?
00:38:28She gets so aggressive.
00:38:30See, this is the problem.
00:38:31Like, this is how, this is why I had to go outside of our marriage to talk to somebody else about our marriage.
00:38:40And it shouldn't be that way.
00:38:43Obviously, Annalena feels disrespected.
00:38:46And I do get that.
00:38:48I know that she's 1,000% unhinged, like, kind of off her rocker a little bit.
00:38:53But I do feel like he presses her buttons.
00:38:56Javon just needs to say sorry and try and talk to her.
00:39:00And if they don't know how to talk, then they don't need to be married.
00:39:03You're about to see your wife for the first time.
00:39:06You all don't need to be in the middle of a fight.
00:39:08I don't know what the f*** to do.
00:39:12I don't know what to do.
00:39:17I heard some interesting things from your guys' bedroom last night.
00:39:23Did you guys do the old knockin' knockin'?
00:39:27I just want to prefer, like, a privacy between us, you know?
00:39:32Now, now you're kind of, now you're kind of being really disrespectful.
00:39:34Hey, guys, we're gonna go down and have some coffee
00:40:04by the pool, so, uh, we'll be up in a little while.
00:40:07Talk to you in a bit.
00:40:09Later.
00:40:16Staring content.
00:40:17I arrived in the Philippines yesterday, and the first night with the woman of my dream,
00:40:40Sheena, was amazing.
00:40:42Oh, man, you're strong.
00:40:44I gotta walk you down.
00:40:44Oh, yeah?
00:40:45I'm a strong beard.
00:40:46Oh, God.
00:40:51I'm gonna tickle you crazy, baby.
00:40:55There's a lot of new and fun things on finding out being with Sheena physically.
00:41:00I found out there's a night Sheena.
00:41:02What?
00:41:02And, uh, she's kind of grabby.
00:41:04Oh, really?
00:41:05You're very, uh, you're very, uh, into being physical, night Sheena.
00:41:10Ram, ram, ram.
00:41:13You know, just finally being able to hold you and be with you and kiss you, it just felt
00:41:19awesome.
00:41:20And I know that I talked of a big game last night about sex and everything like that,
00:41:26but I really believe that we should, um, wait, you know, till we know each other a bit more,
00:41:34you know, in person.
00:41:37I understand my love.
00:41:40I really feel like after seven years, me coming here to the Philippines and just having sex
00:41:46with Sheena straight up, it's not what I want to do.
00:41:49Yeah, I agree with that.
00:41:51I just want to get to know you much better.
00:41:54We all know when the time is right.
00:41:56I agree to that.
00:41:58Also, probably when my mom's not around.
00:42:00Yeah.
00:42:07We'll see you later.
00:42:09I don't need a coach, that's for sure.
00:42:12Ooh, nice and cool in here.
00:42:16I'm excited.
00:42:17So where exactly are we, you're taking us again?
00:42:27So it's a Chinatown here, Manila.
00:42:30Actually, one of the oldest Chinatown here in the whole world, because Chinese people have
00:42:36been trading with the Filipinos before Spanish people arrived.
00:42:41Wow.
00:42:41So there's a lot of historical sites around and good foods.
00:42:46I'm ready to eat it all.
00:42:51So I got a little curiosity question to ask you guys.
00:42:56Uh, I heard some interesting things, you know, coming from your guys' bedroom last night, the
00:43:03little giggles.
00:43:05So, uh, did, uh, you guys, uh, do the old, uh, knockin' knockin'?
00:43:12No.
00:43:12No.
00:43:13No.
00:43:13No.
00:43:14No.
00:43:14No.
00:43:15No.
00:43:15No.
00:43:16No.
00:43:16No.
00:43:17No.
00:43:17No.
00:43:18So, well, why, why didn't you guys?
00:43:22Well, it just wasn't the right time or place to do that.
00:43:27Oh, okay.
00:43:28Well.
00:43:29You guys can always come and talk to us if you have questions.
00:43:33It's not an embarrassing subject to me.
00:43:34It's interesting.
00:43:35It's life.
00:43:36It takes practice to be good at it.
00:43:38Yeah.
00:43:39My parents are just, it's a little too much.
00:43:42It's a little bit rude and awkward for me.
00:43:45I just want to prefer, like, a privacy between us, you know?
00:43:50I respect you guys for, for waiting, and there's nothing wrong with that.
00:43:54There's nothing wrong with that.
00:43:56There's nothing wrong with that.
00:43:58You know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know,
00:44:02that there are other things that you can do if you guys didn't want to do the nookie nookie.
00:44:08There's oral sex.
00:44:10Mm-hmm.
00:44:11There's fondling.
00:44:12Yeah.
00:44:13Now, now you're kind of being really disrespectful here, Mom.
00:44:16I get it.
00:44:17You're trying to be helpful, but you're pushing too far.
00:44:19You know, if we want to talk about sex with you, we'll come up and ask about it.
00:44:25Okay.
00:44:27Excuse me.
00:44:30I thought it was nice that he was defending her honor.
00:44:36That's admirable.
00:44:37But I was very shocked by Forrest's reaction.
00:44:41Thank you very much.
00:44:43Well, Forrest, why is this a, you know, a total of 180 from our normal discussions,
00:44:49where you're right in there using the same language, the same talk, saying,
00:44:52Yeah, I'm going to get into that, do that.
00:44:54It's drastic night and day.
00:44:56I see where this is headed.
00:44:58Oh, my God.
00:44:59I miss this place.
00:45:00See us at home.
00:45:01Sheena already has that control, that thumb on him.
00:45:06Let's not forget, she was lying to him for years, giving all of her money to her parents,
00:45:11instead of saving for their future.
00:45:13And I don't know if Forrest will actually hold her accountable.
00:45:17But we need to get some answers.
00:45:29You don't need to talk about your past.
00:45:31I know, I know everything about your life.
00:45:34You don't know everything.
00:45:36I really want to tell Zied about my last engagement, because I think it's the only way that we could move forward.
00:45:57Ooh, look at the mirrors.
00:45:59Wait, I want to check my outfit.
00:46:02Here, hold that.
00:46:04We look cute.
00:46:06I can see you.
00:46:09Can you see yourself?
00:46:10I can see you.
00:46:11I'm excited to go shopping.
00:46:25It's always crowded.
00:46:27Yeah, I can go out.
00:46:29This is an easy place to get lost.
00:46:30Yep.
00:46:31Today, I want to take Emma to Old Medina.
00:46:34I feel so bad because Emma, she loves her job.
00:46:38I want to make her feel so better, and she loves shopping, so.
00:46:43Oh, look at those bags.
00:46:45Those are cute.
00:46:46The market place in the Midina, they have a thousand stores there.
00:46:52Oh my gosh, I love all of these clothes.
00:46:55You can find anything you want.
00:46:58Ooh, look at these rugs.
00:46:59Those are nice.
00:47:00Yes.
00:47:01Oh wait, there's bags.
00:47:02Let's go look at the bags.
00:47:03Let's see what you want.
00:47:05Oh, this is so cute.
00:47:06Can you hold this?
00:47:07I want to look at everything.
00:47:08Hey, look for anything you want.
00:47:09I think I like these little wallets.
00:47:11These are cute.
00:47:12I think I'm going to buy these three.
00:47:13Not you, me.
00:47:14You're going to get them?
00:47:15Yeah.
00:47:16Hey.
00:47:17It's like my gift to you.
00:47:18Can I give you a kiss?
00:47:19Not hair.
00:47:20Air kiss?
00:47:21Maybe.
00:47:22Is that okay?
00:47:23Yeah, that's okay.
00:47:24Can I do that from now on?
00:47:25Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:47:26I'll just give you air kisses whenever I want to kiss you.
00:47:28Yeah.
00:47:30Okay.
00:47:31Can I give you air kisses whenever I want to kiss you?
00:47:34Yeah.
00:47:35Can I give you air kisses whenever I want to kiss you?
00:47:37Yeah.
00:47:38It's really nice to have Ziad offer to buy me things and buy gifts for me.
00:47:46That was so romantic.
00:47:48Because that's never something I've had in the past.
00:47:51It's making me feel a little bit more hopeful than I was feeling yesterday.
00:47:55Where are you taking me, babe?
00:47:57This, it's popular here in Marrakesh.
00:48:01What is this?
00:48:03What is that?
00:48:08What do we call them in English?
00:48:10Snails.
00:48:11Snails.
00:48:12I, like, don't want that.
00:48:13Really?
00:48:14No.
00:48:15It's like traditional.
00:48:16I'm not trying.
00:48:17Tisted.
00:48:18No.
00:48:19I literally would throw up.
00:48:21It's so delicious.
00:48:26That is the grossest thing I've ever seen in my whole life.
00:48:29It's a slimy snail.
00:48:31And you just stuck it down.
00:48:34For me, it's delicious.
00:48:39That's, like, really gross.
00:48:41What's, like, the weirdest food you've ever tried?
00:48:44Mm-hmm.
00:48:45Like, snails would be weird.
00:48:46For you, for me, no.
00:48:48So, for me, sushi, for example.
00:48:50I love sushi.
00:48:51Yeah, it's...
00:48:52We are different.
00:48:54It's...
00:48:55Are we compatible?
00:48:58Mm-hmm.
00:49:04Can you hold my other bag, actually?
00:49:05Uh-huh.
00:49:06What else can we do, like, while we're here?
00:49:08Did you like horses?
00:49:10I love horses.
00:49:11I think we have to choose this one.
00:49:14I like the white one.
00:49:15You heard?
00:49:18Just one by one.
00:49:19One by one.
00:49:23Oh, my God.
00:49:24This is so romantic.
00:49:25Yeah.
00:49:26This is, like, a romantic love ride.
00:49:35This is twin kisses.
00:49:36You kiss me today.
00:49:37Okay.
00:49:41I'm happy that we had a better day today.
00:49:43Yeah, me too.
00:49:44It was a big difference between this day and last day.
00:49:49Yesterday was, like, really hard for me.
00:49:51It, like, brought up old feelings.
00:49:53Because, you know, I've, like, been lied to a lot.
00:49:56Like, in my past, like, with past boyfriends.
00:49:59Uh-huh.
00:50:00So when, when you kind of lied to me, it was, like, a trigger for me.
00:50:03Yeah.
00:50:04So you don't need to talk about your past.
00:50:07It's bad, your bad experience.
00:50:09Do you not care about my past?
00:50:10No.
00:50:11I know you right now.
00:50:12Not in past.
00:50:13So...
00:50:14Yeah, but don't you want to know about my life?
00:50:15Just, like, things I've been through.
00:50:17It's like, don't you want to know about me?
00:50:19Yeah.
00:50:20I know, I know everything about your life.
00:50:21Everything.
00:50:22You don't know everything.
00:50:23No, I know everything.
00:50:24No, you don't.
00:50:25I know your family.
00:50:26I know where you live.
00:50:28I know...
00:50:29I know, but there are things that, like, I...
00:50:31That have happened in my life that you don't know about.
00:50:36Like, I thought.
00:50:37We can leave the impasse.
00:50:38If something passes, it passes.
00:50:44I want to be vulnerable.
00:50:45I want to share, you know, details about who I am and my past.
00:50:49And I really want to be able to tell Ziad about my last engagement
00:50:54because I think it's the only way that we could move forward.
00:50:58But for him to shut me down, it does make me wonder if Ziad just doesn't want to talk about the past
00:51:04because maybe he has something that he's hiding or that he doesn't want to tell me.
00:51:12Since I've gotten to Morocco, I've just felt really rejected by him.
00:51:17And so now I'm just feeling a little concerned about everything.
00:51:27I need you to be able to look me in the eye.
00:51:29Why have you lied to us all along?
00:51:32I was so fearful of my parents.
00:51:35They would say bad things to me.
00:51:37They would say bad things to other people.
00:51:38Okay.
00:51:39And it affects me emotionally, mentally, drains me every day.
00:51:43No, I need that direct answer as to why you continue to hide it.
00:52:02I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet with my wife, Anna, for the first time.
00:52:03But me and Anna, we haven't spoken to her before.
00:52:04I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet with my wife, Anna, for the first time.
00:52:05But me and Anna, we haven't spoken to each other in about a week.
00:52:08My sister talked to Anna Lynn, and she actually unblocked me.
00:52:11I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet with my wife, Anna, for the first time.
00:52:15But me and Anna, we haven't spoken to each other in about a week.
00:52:18My sister talked to Anna Lynn, and she actually unblocked me.
00:52:22But she's still really upset that I'm back in touch with a friend I once had feelings for.
00:52:29There's so much riding on this trip.
00:52:31Anna being as angry, it's just not good.
00:52:34I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet with my wife, Anna, for the first time.
00:52:39But me and Anna, we haven't spoken to each other in about a week.
00:52:42My sister talked to Anna Lynn, and she actually unblocked me.
00:52:45But she's still really upset that I'm back in touch with a friend I once had feelings for.
00:52:51Not good.
00:52:54Hey, what's going on?
00:52:56What's going on?
00:52:57Ask yourself what's going on, Javon.
00:53:01I mean, you know, Anna, don't be so aggressive.
00:53:05Not being aggressive.
00:53:08You told me yourself if we're going to be married, we can't be keeping anyone special from the past.
00:53:17But you're doing it.
00:53:20And I'm not saying that you're cheating on me, but it's like a baby step for any temptation.
00:53:30I'm dealing with so much over here by myself.
00:53:33I'm dealing with your problems. I'm dealing with my problems.
00:53:36And sometimes I don't feel like I'm being emotionally supported by you.
00:53:41So, you know, I kind of felt like I was just a little bit desperate just to be understood and just heard.
00:53:52If you feel like sometimes you can't talk to me, you have siblings, you have a dad, you have a mom.
00:54:01But if your big circle is still not enough, you're American. Get the therapy.
00:54:09I mean, but like, who can afford therapy right now?
00:54:18She's not taking any accountability that, you know, she played a part in why I reached out to a friend.
00:54:26I need to be able to rely on my wife, but she makes it impossible.
00:54:32Even when I'm like at work and you're going through something, I always try to be there for you emotionally.
00:54:37You know?
00:54:38Okay, okay.
00:54:39Okay, listen.
00:54:40I try, but I don't see you trying for me.
00:54:43When do you show up for me in that way?
00:54:45Oh, God.
00:54:50Like, hello, I've been waiting for you for six years.
00:54:54I have devoted, invested so much love.
00:54:59If you don't feel like that's understanding enough, waiting for you for that long.
00:55:11I don't know what is.
00:55:20I know you've made, you know, some sacrifice by waiting for me for this long.
00:55:26And I do apologize, and I do take accountability for what I've done.
00:55:34Okay.
00:55:35Okay.
00:55:38So you're going to stop talking to her?
00:55:43I can stop, but can we at least work on our communication?
00:55:49Okay.
00:55:51Okay.
00:55:52That's all I want, boo.
00:55:53That's it.
00:55:56With Javon coming out to the Philippines, I do feel like I could let go of some negative feelings about this situation.
00:56:06But even though he agreed that he's not going to talk to that woman anymore, do I believe it?
00:56:16No, not really.
00:56:17So I will definitely talk about this again in person.
00:56:24Do you think we can, like, move past it?
00:56:27Like, when we see each other?
00:56:29I don't know.
00:56:31Maybe.
00:56:32No, not really.
00:56:33I don't know.
00:56:47Like, I do not.
00:56:48Fuck.
00:56:49Well, look at this place.
00:56:52This was a church.
00:56:54Oh.
00:56:55Oh, it's old.
00:56:56Here, we got some rings here.
00:56:58Dad, what's this, you guys?
00:57:02Yes.
00:57:07Yeah, it's precision.
00:57:09Oh, my goodness.
00:57:10We call that fiesta.
00:57:12Oh, yes.
00:57:13That's a ghost over Catholics here in my country.
00:57:15Goodness.
00:57:17Yes.
00:57:18Oh, my God.
00:57:18Yeah, it's really cool.
00:57:20Look at this.
00:57:20I decided to take Boris and his family to Chinatown
00:57:27because I'm a Chinese mix.
00:57:29My mom is Chinese descent,
00:57:32so I wanted to show how Chinese culture
00:57:35interbonded with Filipino culture.
00:57:39Smell that?
00:57:40Oh, that smells so good.
00:57:41So this is a place that they make hand-made noodles.
00:57:45I eat that air.
00:57:46Hello.
00:57:47Oh.
00:57:48Yesterday, I was quite a little nervous
00:57:51to meet Boris's parents, especially Molly.
00:57:54Okay, thank you.
00:57:56There's been a problem between me and Molly,
00:57:59but I'm so glad that she happened to accept me.
00:58:03And I wanted to provide them the best first day
00:58:06here in the Philippines.
00:58:09Yum.
00:58:10Oh, thank you.
00:58:11Slurps up.
00:58:12Soups up and slurps up, huh?
00:58:14Yeah, actually, that's here.
00:58:16If you're the culture here and want to slurp,
00:58:17it means you're eating the good noodles.
00:58:19So that's a good sign.
00:58:20So the loud are the best, right?
00:58:21Yeah, yes.
00:58:22Here I go.
00:58:25Yeah, you are the king of slurps, Forrest.
00:58:27I made sure to get on my glasses.
00:58:29That's the key.
00:58:30This is all good.
00:58:31Yeah.
00:58:33Well, Sheena,
00:58:34I wanted to thank you for your apology yesterday.
00:58:39I mean, that really showed a lot to me.
00:58:44But I did want to ask you about a few things.
00:58:53Okay?
00:58:54Okay, Mom.
00:58:55I'm listening.
00:58:56You're going to be able to look me in the eye.
00:58:57And I need you to be truthful with me 100%.
00:59:05You lied to us about giving your parents the money.
00:59:11This was supposed to be you saving up money so you could come to America to be a family with us.
00:59:17These were the plans all of these years.
00:59:21And then for it to just find out now, before we come here, that hasn't been happening.
00:59:31Why have you lied to us all along?
00:59:38I really owe you millions and thousands of explanations.
00:59:42I hope you can listen to my situation.
00:59:44The reason why that I happen to give my money to my parents is because being a breadwinner, it's a cultural thing in my country that we are obligated to help our parents around.
00:59:59I mean, I completely understand giving your parents money, needing to help your family.
01:00:03That's what family does.
01:00:05But my issue with it is that you lie.
01:00:14To be honest, the reason also, that's the other reason that I was so scared because my parents, my mom happened to guilt tripping me from time to time.
01:00:27If I don't give them money, she makes me feel that I'm such a selfish person and it hurts me a lot.
01:00:33Okay, but if I'm asking you a direct question, I need that direct answer. And even now, you haven't given me a direct answer as to why you continue to hide it.
01:00:47Watching Sheena under my mom's pressure is just awful.
01:00:54I'm wanting to step in and defend her and protect Sheena, but at the same time, I don't understand what fears she had of telling me.
01:01:04I was so fearful of my parents. They would say bad things to me. They would say bad things to other people.
01:01:13And it affects me emotionally, mentally, drains me. And it makes me feel so bad.
01:01:19No, no. Sheena, I'm not asking you that. I'm asking you why you did not tell us.
01:01:26I couldn't handle myself anymore because I don't know.
01:01:34Sheena, I can't understand what you're saying.
01:01:37I am sorry. Oh, my God. I don't know.
01:01:39See, there's your manipulation. Put the tears. Please put your tissue down.
01:01:43Please put your tissue down. I'm trying to have Sheena acknowledge actions that she did that weren't acceptable.
01:01:51So even if she did have good reason to give it all to her parents, what's the motivation for hiding it?
01:01:59They got to get answers.
01:02:01Oh, my God. This is really happening.
01:02:09Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:02:13I love this, but I am worried about some things. She was physical with a woman.
01:02:20My jaw, leg and walk. How did you? Mm-hmm.
01:02:25My jaw, leg and walk. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
01:02:43Here he is. Awesome. Here we go. Yeah. Here goes everything.
01:02:55Thank you. Oh, my gosh.
01:02:59I'm finally on my way to meet the love of my life, Daniel, in Nigeria for the very first time.
01:03:05What am I doing?
01:03:07I don't know, Mom. What are you doing?
01:03:08Certainly not what I would be doing.
01:03:10It still feels surreal to me that after 21 years of only being with women, I'm traveling across the world to meet a man. And I love him.
01:03:21I love him.
01:03:22You're going to see when I come home how excited and happy I am. You're going to see when I talk to you there how happy I am. And you're going to be happy for me.
01:03:31I just, I don't want it to ruin your heart.
01:03:38Don't get into my pants. Oh, God, please don't.
01:03:44Here we go.
01:03:46Okay.
01:03:47All right.
01:03:48You remember the rules. Don't get married on the trip even when the divorce comes through.
01:03:57Yes.
01:03:58And I will come clean about everything. It'll be a foundation.
01:04:01And if you have questions.
01:04:02I will ask them.
01:04:03I will ask them.
01:04:07I love you.
01:04:08I love you too.
01:04:09I'm going to miss you so much.
01:04:12Stay safe.
01:04:13Oh, God.
01:04:15This is the biggest risk I've ever taken.
01:04:17Flying across the world to another country, to Nigeria, Africa, to be with a man I have never met before.
01:04:24I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:04:26Oh, my God.
01:04:27This is really happening.
01:04:28Oh, my God.
01:04:29Oh, my God.
01:04:30Oh, my God.
01:04:31Oh, my God.
01:04:32Oh, my God.
01:04:33Oh, my God.
01:04:34I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:04:35Happy dance.
01:04:36Happy dance.
01:04:37I hope Daniel will accept me for everything that I am and who I am and that he will become
01:04:45my sixth and final spouse.
01:04:47Daniel is coming.
01:04:50Daniel is coming.
01:04:51Daniel is coming.
01:05:20Yeah, no, I be.
01:05:45Baby, my name is Daniel.
01:05:46i am 39 years old i am a christian from the hebrew tribe we have traditions and we believe in
01:05:55traditions as an able man we love competition we work hard and we have to be honest
01:06:11i grew up very poor sometimes we eat once in a day because there's no food
01:06:16my family do the best they can do and i am really close to my family but some years ago i lost my
01:06:25mom before she she died she told me that during war she nearly be killed that a white woman protected
01:06:32her and i have to make sure that i get married to a white woman so i decided i will do it and that's
01:06:39how i found lisa it's like burning up this size is 52 years old she lives in pennsylvania she's a
01:06:48beautiful woman she has um she has a good body structure she's thick she has bops she has what i
01:06:56want she don't hide anything she supports me financially she makes me feel loved that's why
01:07:05i i fell in love with her
01:07:16Yeah, I didn't work here.
01:07:46In our tribe, we do see spiritual leaders to consult the ancestors.
01:08:08I love this, but I am worried about some things.
01:08:12One, she vaped. Two, she told me that she had gotten married twice.
01:08:19And three, she was physical with a woman, one time.
01:08:24This is the worst.
01:08:33We don't believe that same sex exists in our culture.
01:08:38Anyone caught in the arts will be banished or killed.
01:08:42So we don't do it, we don't accept it here.
01:08:46She gave me her promise that she have stopped it.
01:08:49But I'm nervous.
01:08:50He called me the same thing.
01:08:51I'm nervous.
01:08:52That's amazing.
01:08:53We are so proud of that.
01:08:54We all got married.
01:08:56There's a lot of people who had錢 to stay a little.
01:08:57They didn't hear it.
01:08:58They don't care this.
01:08:59We get married.
01:09:00They don't care.
01:09:01They don't care.
01:09:02They don't care.
01:09:03We all get married.
01:09:07We have a life.
01:09:08We are so proud of them.
01:09:10Now that the ancestors are approved, I want you to move forward on this relationship.
01:09:28I'm planning a big surprise for Nisa when I meet her at the airport.
01:09:34I've been talking to God Almighty to take me away from Nigeria.
01:09:38If I marry Nisa, it will make me change the story of my family.
01:09:43And if I should make it to America, this will change my life to good.
01:09:49They will.
01:10:01I feel so bad you're dragging my suitcases.
01:10:03Yes.
01:10:05Oh, it feels like it got colder.
01:10:06It gets cold or gets hot.
01:10:10No straight weather.
01:10:14Wow.
01:10:24Here we are.
01:10:26Oh, we're here?
01:10:29Here you go.
01:10:30I will take this.
01:10:32You're welcome.
01:10:32After all of this excitement, anticipation, and buildup of coming to Turkey and meeting
01:10:39Birkan face to face, it's starting off a little bit awkward.
01:10:44But I'm still so happy to be finally standing here with him.
01:10:49It just feels so right.
01:10:52I'm excited to see this.
01:10:56Here you go.
01:10:57Oh, you want me to go first?
01:10:58Yeah, of course.
01:10:59Okay.
01:11:01Oh my God, this is huge.
01:11:04Oh yeah.
01:11:05This is way bigger than it looked in pictures.
01:11:09This is amazing.
01:11:10This kitchen is bigger than almost my every house, so.
01:11:17This is incredible.
01:11:20You like this?
01:11:21Oh my God, I love this.
01:11:23I'm going to move here.
01:11:25You can see the sea.
01:11:28Everything?
01:11:29Oh my God.
01:11:31Wow.
01:11:31This is amazing.
01:11:35I'm so excited to finally be here and to finally be doing this.
01:11:39Is it worth it?
01:11:42All the trip?
01:11:44Yeah.
01:11:45I don't know if it's worth it.
01:11:46Yeah, I know.
01:11:48So, how about you change and we will see the cost?
01:11:56That sounds awesome.
01:11:57Let's do that.
01:11:58Let's do that.
01:11:59All right.
01:11:59Okay.
01:12:01This is the best part of Izmir.
01:12:08This is incredible.
01:12:10I would love to like live right there, like with this view every day.
01:12:15Yeah.
01:12:16I like these old buildings.
01:12:17I do too.
01:12:19Yeah.
01:12:21Architecture is the art we live in.
01:12:26I love that.
01:12:27Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:28That's like really profound.
01:12:29Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:30Birkan has so many like random comments for things and he has a way of taking things that
01:12:37are just very simple and creating this like giant philosophical discussion around it.
01:12:43It's really pretty now that the sun's gone down.
01:12:45When the darkness comes, the light shines out.
01:12:52Sometimes it's a little exhausting because I'm like, oh my God, it's just the sunset.
01:12:56I guess we gotta go this way.
01:12:58Go back this way?
01:12:58Yeah.
01:12:59I feel like a walking zombie right now.
01:13:02Actually, not you.
01:13:03The people are.
01:13:05They have no idea where everything is going.
01:13:08I don't know where he comes up with all of this.
01:13:12I mean, it can feel a little ridiculous sometimes, but ultimately I like it and I wouldn't change it.
01:13:17How was your day?
01:13:23Yeah, it was good.
01:13:25I enjoyed it.
01:13:27How about you?
01:13:28I mean, I'm exhausted.
01:13:29I traveled a time to get here, but it was really fun to see some of the sights and...
01:13:35I'm exhausted and I have got to get some sleep.
01:13:46Okay.
01:13:47You want to go to bed?
01:13:52Actually, it's just nine o'clock and I have no sleep.
01:13:57So, why don't you go some sleep and I will watch some TV and join you after?
01:14:08Good night.
01:14:08Have a nice night.
01:14:09All right. Good night.
01:14:10Good night.
01:14:10Good night.
01:14:27Michael just has been blowing up my phone since I got here.
01:14:39He tracked my flight, texted me, like, as soon as I landed to say, I saw you landed.
01:14:45And then he just kind of checked up on me.
01:14:48I said, everything's good.
01:14:51And then he was like, your tone is less than excited, my dear.
01:14:56So, I think it's interesting that he can pick up on that.
01:15:02But I just have a lot of things to process right now.
01:15:09Him just staying out there watching TV.
01:15:12It's just, I don't know, different maybe than what I was expecting.
01:15:16I feel like it's not this, like, super great magical moment.
01:15:21Just feels off.
01:15:23I don't know how to explain it.
01:15:24Just feels off.
01:15:26It is so ironic and kind of concerning that I'm getting more attention from Michael than I am from the man that I flew halfway around the world to meet.
01:15:38And so, I feel like there's something really wrong.
01:15:42And I don't know, maybe he's hiding something.
01:15:46Or maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
01:15:51But either way, I'm just kind of questioning why I'm even here at this point.
01:15:55Thank you, Bear Cones.
01:16:08Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:16:11I can't handle it anymore.
01:16:13It doesn't make any sense to me.
01:16:15Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:16:17I want to end this now.
01:16:19You're acting all hostile.
01:16:20I'm not.
01:16:21Yeah, you are.
01:16:22Forrest.
01:16:22My family had been the one who had been influenced since I was a kid.
01:16:37Forrest, they should be helping me around.
01:16:39They kept always promising to me that they would do anything.
01:16:42We can't understand you.
01:16:43You have to speak.
01:16:47You have to be strong and you got to speak clearly.
01:16:52I need you to really, please, point blank.
01:16:57You were giving your parents money.
01:17:00Why did you feel it was so necessary to not tell us?
01:17:05Because I feel so scared that if I happened not to give them money, they would say bad things.
01:17:22They say so many big things that I don't want to accept it.
01:17:26And I was afraid that I was running back, running back.
01:17:30Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:17:33Honestly, when you try to look at it and without the tears and without...
01:17:38I didn't have love anymore.
01:17:40It doesn't make any sense to me at all.
01:17:43The pieces aren't just lining up.
01:17:45I'm sorry, but they're not lining up.
01:17:47It's very concerning because how do I even know that your feelings and plans are actually genuine?
01:18:02Oh, you were scared.
01:18:05Forrest would have come to me and said, Mom, I got to get it on a freaking plane right now.
01:18:11I got to go over there and save her.
01:18:13But it sounds to me you obviously weren't that scared that you couldn't tell him and that you could put up with it all that years and hide it.
01:18:22Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:18:24A lot of it, yeah.
01:18:32I understand that if you love your parents and you want to have love from them, you would try to do anything to make them love you.
01:18:42Forrest?
01:18:42It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
01:18:46That still didn't answer the question as...
01:18:49It's hard for me to say no to you.
01:18:50It's hard for me to stick up for her against you.
01:18:57I believe Sheena's not trying to lie or use things as excuses.
01:19:02I think Sheena honestly doesn't know what to say.
01:19:06And she gets so overwhelmed, all she can get is, you know, diarrhea of the mouth.
01:19:12I wouldn't be being a good boyfriend to Sheena if I just sat there and watched her flounder.
01:19:24Obviously, she knows she did wrong.
01:19:27What's your goal here?
01:19:28Just to sit here and keep beating her down?
01:19:31I think what we have to do is we need to get Sheena away from her parents.
01:19:38Because ultimately, the root of this nasty tree is the parents.
01:19:46Sheena, we need to hear from you that you're ready to move forward and confront your parents about what we're going to do from now on.
01:19:55I'm willing to take the risk to confront my parents.
01:20:01It is the only way to end this kind of problem.
01:20:04Which is what she should have done to set up with you years and years ago.
01:20:09We could sit there and we could talk about the past and he said, she said he could do that, she could not do that.
01:20:14It's time to move forward now.
01:20:16Forrest?
01:20:17I want to add this now.
01:20:22I don't even want to talk about the parents anymore.
01:20:24I don't want to talk about anything.
01:20:26You're acting all hostile.
01:20:28I'm not hostile.
01:20:28Yeah, you are.
01:20:30And you're causing Sheena a lot of stress.
01:20:33You're causing me a lot of stress.
01:20:35We tried to have a nice dinner and our nice dinner turned into...
01:20:39Suspense.
01:20:42It's okay, babe.
01:20:47I now see that Forrest is too deep.
01:20:50He's just got the blinders on, only wanting to believe her.
01:20:55Now he sees us as the big, fat, bad nasties that attacked his poor Sheena.
01:21:02But still, I have to always protect Forrest because I know that he really loves her.
01:21:09And I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
01:21:19Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:22I'm about to be my wife for the first time.
01:21:24This is so surreal.
01:21:26Come on.
01:21:28Where are you?
01:21:29This is like ordering something online and we're just excited to unpack the package.
01:21:37Are you nervous?
01:21:40A little bit, yeah, actually.
01:21:42Before I came to Turkey, I did make an appointment with a plastic surgeon.
01:21:47I have some, like, loose skin in places that I am looking to have removed.
01:21:53This card is best as possible.
01:21:55But I'm immediately regretting having Fear Calm come with me.
01:21:59I will just show you some pictures.
01:22:00I've been looking at your page.
01:22:07Every day, you follow new girls.
01:22:11Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:22:13No, there's no support.
01:22:14I downloaded this extension on my laptop and it shows you who people follow.
01:22:21This morning, I saw that he was still following thousands of women.
01:22:24So, since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:22:30She and I had a discussion about going by ourselves to meet your parents and how it's
01:22:34important that I meet them before mom and dad meet them.
01:22:38I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
01:22:42I need to be there with Forrest.
01:22:46Sheena, your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along.
01:22:52Well, my family isn't a bad people.
01:22:54Now the story changes again.
01:22:57I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:23:03What the heck?
01:23:07I can't go down that road.
01:23:08I love him with everything I am, but he doesn't know that I've been married five times
01:23:16and I'm still married to a woman.
01:23:19What are you doing?
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