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00:00:02I'm leaving a six-figure job to move to Aruba because I fell in love with the man on a pirate ship
00:00:12Madeleine
00:00:14Look finally moving to Colombia
00:00:21She said you need to move or else
00:00:23I'm 58, and I'm so shaking
00:00:31But now I'm moving to Tasmania to be with John
00:00:35Welcome home beautiful
00:00:49We are going to France
00:00:52The American dream is actually killing me, so we are moving to France to save our marriage
00:00:59Oh the smell
00:01:01Oh
00:01:03I was thinking I was going on a shoot date
00:01:07I'm going back to LA
00:01:11Baby, let's pack
00:01:13We are in a financial crisis, and we decide to move in with the family
00:01:22I have no plans of staying with the family permanently
00:01:28No
00:01:31Do you see him?
00:01:33I really want to trust Jonathan, but it's hard when he's a booze-cruze host
00:01:39My trust issues come from your actions
00:01:43You work with him. I want to go out my friend, okay? You can't control me like that
00:01:48Respect me respect what I say
00:01:53You touch her I didn't touch her I mean what I didn't
00:01:57Think I'm super
00:02:01I
00:02:07Oh
00:02:09I'm
00:02:11Chloe has no idea what she is doing.
00:02:32My friend is about to make the biggest mistake of her life, and I really need to stop her.
00:02:41This is probably the most iconic photo of me.
00:02:57This is my personality in one photo.
00:03:00That's it right there.
00:03:01I mean, nothing's changed.
00:03:04Okay.
00:03:21I don't really know where to start, actually, with all this stuff.
00:03:25It's really overwhelming.
00:03:28My name is Chloe.
00:03:30I am 23 years old, and I live in Boxford, Massachusetts.
00:03:342008.
00:03:35What is that, first grade?
00:03:36First grade already winning trophies.
00:03:38I mean, we're doing something right.
00:03:40I'm very competitive in anything I do.
00:03:43These are some accomplishments.
00:03:45Of course, these aren't all, but there was a few.
00:03:48I started cheerleading when I was four or five.
00:03:53I did, like, a club team with my school, and then I also did competitive cheerleading for years.
00:04:01Growing up, my mom was able to give me the most amazing life.
00:04:07Total spoiled princess.
00:04:10I got everything I wanted.
00:04:12Now, I work with my mom as a sales rep, and it's always been my mom's dream that I would take over her shipping and logistics business.
00:04:20My life was already set on a path.
00:04:23Money, security, comfortability, on a silver platter.
00:04:28And then on vacation in Aruba, I fell in love with a man on a pirate ship.
00:04:35It's true, though.
00:04:37Jonathan is 32 years old.
00:04:48He's from Aruba, and he's an entertainer on a pirate ship party boat.
00:04:53We first met when I was on a girls trip, and I saw him on the boat, shirtless.
00:04:59I just thought he was gorgeous, and that was it.
00:05:02But my first impression was, I don't want to say kind of he was, like, cocky, but he definitely knew, like, what he had going on.
00:05:16And I was like, oh, no. Like, no.
00:05:19You're not going to do that with me. Like, don't give me that, you know, energy.
00:05:24But we later met him at a bar, and he was really funny and actually really sweet.
00:05:31And I remember him just saying, like, oh, like, you'll have to come back.
00:05:34He, like, looked at me. I'm like, you're looking through my soul.
00:05:37I was like, uh, I don't, I don't know.
00:05:39And I'm not a shy person, but I was like, he, yeah, like, I'm going to come back.
00:05:46A few days after I got back to Boston, I had already booked my flight back to Aruba.
00:05:50I went back another time, and another time, and another time.
00:05:57And now, after 11 months of long distance, I'm packing up my entire life in Boston and moving to Aruba.
00:06:05I know that if I don't make the move to Aruba, we would not last long distance.
00:06:11And it's not a risk that I am willing to take.
00:06:15This isn't going to all fit.
00:06:20Are you really going to wear high heels on the beach?
00:06:22I mean, not on the beach, but...
00:06:24Jeans?
00:06:25Well, look, a cute tank top. Some little heels.
00:06:29I've been there five times, and I've never once even put on a pair of pants.
00:06:32You know, not all superheroes wear capes.
00:06:37Not all people can wear jeans in Aruba.
00:06:40My parents divorced when I was two or three, and I lived with my mom predominantly.
00:06:47She is truly my best friend.
00:06:51She was like my rock, basically, growing up.
00:06:56Did you remember to pack all my makeup stuff?
00:06:59I think so.
00:07:00I think I did. I'll double check, honey.
00:07:02I need that eye cream.
00:07:03Right. If you need this eye cream, you probably shouldn't be living in Aruba, because you can't get it there.
00:07:07That's why you're going to come visit me and deliver it to me.
00:07:09Oh, really? So that's what I am. I'm going to be your delivery person, huh?
00:07:12I think living in Aruba will be challenging, to say the least.
00:07:18I have always grown up.
00:07:20When I want something, I kind of get it type mindset.
00:07:23And now I'm going to be in the middle of nowhere, in this tiny little, like, sandbox.
00:07:31I actually don't even know what I'm going to do.
00:07:33I can't believe that you're going to go living in, you know, another country.
00:07:39Packing you away to school was one thing.
00:07:41This is, um, this is really hard.
00:07:46I'm not going, like, to prison. Like, I can also just, you can come visit.
00:07:50And, like, I can come see you. You can come see me.
00:07:55When we really look at it, Chloe, you are moving to another country for a pirate.
00:08:01I mean, not everyone wants to work a nine-to-five.
00:08:06Understood. But how sustainable is piracy?
00:08:09I'm not going to be a pirate, hopefully.
00:08:11You never know. I mean, you're not going to have a ton of options there.
00:08:15I'm just going to wing it.
00:08:18You're going to be leaving a lot behind.
00:08:21I feel like I'm getting robbed, you know, in a sense.
00:08:25I worked so hard so that she could have opportunities, and she's leaving those opportunities behind.
00:08:33She's going to have a much harder life, and that's not what I want with my daughter.
00:08:36You know, how you live here is, is, it's very different.
00:08:44At the end of the day, are you going to be happy not having your $80 face wash and having cold showers every day?
00:08:51I'm leaving a six-figure job with my mom to move to Aruba, which is obviously insane, but love does make you do crazy things.
00:09:02Johnny has a laundry list of girls behind him, and he's not the guy that you start your life with.
00:09:16My husband has grown up with this guy, and I know a lot of things about him.
00:09:21Not all of them are good.
00:09:23I really thought this was just going to be a fling.
00:09:25But now that she's really serious about moving there, I feel like I have to stop her before she just goes to another country, and she doesn't even know what she's getting herself into.
00:09:35I just want to get there already, so I can talk Chloe out of making this decision.
00:09:40Let's go!
00:09:53When I walk in the room, everybody's got a light, doom, doom, doom.
00:09:58With a bang and a boom, a little bit dramatic, but I'm coming for you.
00:10:02To the danger, to the danger, to the danger.
00:10:09Love that, love that.
00:10:11Looking good.
00:10:13My name is Manon, I'm 32, and I am from Marseille, south of France, baby!
00:10:19But I live in Los Angeles.
00:10:22Vogue!
00:10:23Today I'm having a special photo shoot with my fat babes to showcase we can be plus-sized, curvy, fat, but loving ourselves.
00:10:33Let's do it here on the pavement.
00:10:35In France, everyone is so judgmental about your weight.
00:10:39If you dare to wear a bright outfit, but you have a little bit of, like, curves, you're going to be stared down all day long.
00:10:47So, 12 years ago, I actually started a social media page about being plus-sized and living in France.
00:10:54Je suis la fille, dis pas, c'qui ne s'arrête pas.
00:10:58It started becoming, actually, really popular.
00:11:01And then, one day, I just got a phone call, and it was a plus-sized denim brand.
00:11:07I said, hey, I'm the CEO, and I want to invite you to come to LA for a plus-sized photoshoot.
00:11:13I went, and I never came back again.
00:11:15Three, two...
00:11:21Once I was here, I was able to meet so many other girls just like me.
00:11:28Chassidy! Yes! Swin!
00:11:31These women were not afraid of being who they want to be and afraid of wearing beautiful outfits.
00:11:38They were just, like, so proud and confident.
00:11:41It really made me feel I belong.
00:11:43Scooch down a little bit to your right.
00:11:44My right?
00:11:45The whole body, yeah.
00:11:46So I can get your head right in between those two girls.
00:11:48My American dream was starting to become true, but something was missing.
00:11:54Come here, sexy.
00:11:55I'm Anthony, I'm 33 years old, and from Corona, California.
00:12:01We've been married for actually three years, and new parents of a little baby boy, Benjamin.
00:12:12We are very much opposites.
00:12:17Yes, we are like the yin and the yang.
00:12:20I'm a shy person, and she's very outgoing and passionate.
00:12:26He is the stay-at-home dad, and I am the one who works, provide.
00:12:30Guys, since I gave birth, do I have cremes in my entire body now when I pose?
00:12:36I cannot do anymore.
00:12:37Who's that chick, she a bad bitch, thick like this quick, she got all her on my neck.
00:12:43I am an executive marketing director, and I own my agency for social media and digital marketing.
00:12:51I'm all about, you know, walk, walk, walk.
00:12:56I'm going to go change my lens and grab a little one, I'll be right back with you.
00:12:59Okay.
00:13:01You did amazing, guys.
00:13:04Let me stand up.
00:13:06Well, while we are waiting for the camera, I just wanted to say something to you really quick,
00:13:12because you know me since I first moved.
00:13:14I think I need to attach my hair for this, because it's, it's going to be, it's going to be something.
00:13:19Are you pregnant?
00:13:21Girl.
00:13:23I'm struggling with one cage.
00:13:24Girl, I don't know.
00:13:25You're dropping.
00:13:26My mind around there.
00:13:27Oh my God.
00:13:28Okay.
00:13:31A few weeks ago, I came to the point where I'm like, I'm at the end of my rope,
00:13:36because I'm overwhelmed and overworked, right?
00:13:39I don't see my husband.
00:13:40I don't see my son.
00:13:41Anthony is also overworked and overwhelmed.
00:13:44The dad is staying at home full time.
00:13:46It is really hard.
00:13:47Yeah.
00:13:48And the thing is like, we both were kind of losing each other a little bit in the process.
00:13:53So, ma'am, I'm sorry, it's just I wanted to let you know something that's really, it's been on my heart for a few weeks now.
00:14:04I'm staying in my house and I'm going back to France full time.
00:14:08I'm leaving LA.
00:14:09Oh my God.
00:14:10I don't know if I should like, laugh or cry.
00:14:11But that's it.
00:14:12I'm going back home.
00:14:13For my family.
00:14:14Yeah.
00:14:15Yeah.
00:14:16Yeah.
00:14:17So, it's for my husband, for a good quality of life.
00:14:21He's going to be the one working fully now so I can focus on my son because you know me.
00:14:33Here it's like, it's a lot.
00:14:35Yeah.
00:14:36You know, it's a lot.
00:14:37I totally get it.
00:14:38The quality of life, the healthcare, like that, everything makes sense.
00:14:42But like, you're like the most American person I know.
00:14:46Ironically.
00:14:47You're a confident person that's worked so hard.
00:14:51That's a huge sacrifice.
00:14:54I'm really shocked that she's leaving because she loves LA.
00:14:58She loves working and I know the society hasn't changed as much there and isn't as accepting of curvy bodies.
00:15:06And confident women.
00:15:08So, I'm really nervous that they're not going to be ready from home back in France.
00:15:14You've been working so much, so long, that maybe this is your time to maybe relax.
00:15:21I'm scared, Cindy.
00:15:22I'm not going to be able to.
00:15:23You know me.
00:15:24I'm going to want to do something because I need to buy a house there.
00:15:26Yeah.
00:15:27So, we are going to stay with my parents for a little bit in a very tiny home.
00:15:31I support you.
00:15:32I'm just very scared for you.
00:15:34Yes, me too.
00:15:35You left France because how you were treated.
00:15:38Are you scared at all of like, that could happen again?
00:15:42Oh, I'm scared.
00:15:43Yeah.
00:15:44I've been bullied my whole life with my family.
00:15:46I love them.
00:15:47But, but, there's a big, big, big, big but.
00:15:52They've been living in France their whole life, right?
00:15:55So, I'm still worried that all of the old patterns, they haven't changed or anything.
00:16:00Anthony was meeting my family for the first time ever.
00:16:03You know when I went to see my grandpa, what happened?
00:16:06The first thing he said to me, he looked at me, and he's like, how a girl like you married a man like that?
00:16:13Wow.
00:16:14Like, excuse me?
00:16:15That's horrible.
00:16:16That's horrible.
00:16:17My grandpa and my, like even just like little things like my mom would be like, oh, did you gain some weight?
00:16:20Oh, you lost a little bit.
00:16:22Just, why is it a criteria?
00:16:24You cannot just say, hi, how are you?
00:16:26But this type of thing that makes you feel like , you know, makes you feel you're never enough.
00:16:30You're never enough.
00:16:34That's why I wanted to do that shit today.
00:16:36Because I was like, that's most probably going to be the last one.
00:16:40Because over there, there's no girls like you guys.
00:16:44Over there, people are bringing you down.
00:16:46People look at you like a freak, you know, and you're big and stuff.
00:16:50Yeah.
00:16:51And that's what I was missing in France.
00:16:53It's people like you that I could connect with.
00:16:56Because at home, I was always the fat girl.
00:16:59Like, why does she want to dream like that and go to LA?
00:17:03I've always felt like I'm a freaking weirdo.
00:17:06You know?
00:17:07My whole life.
00:17:08And being healing really saved my life.
00:17:14Growing up in France always made me feel like I was less than.
00:17:19I remember being bullied.
00:17:21All of the other kids at school were making fun of me, chewing gum in my hair, spitting on me, calling me the whale, calling me fat.
00:17:29And I know that my parents, they were trying to do their best.
00:17:32But I do have a lot of resentment on how I was raised and the things that they said to me.
00:17:39So moving back to France with my parents, it's definitely going to be a big challenge.
00:17:45And I feel very, very stressed.
00:17:47I love my husband.
00:17:48I love my son.
00:17:49I see the bigger picture.
00:17:50But on the other side, I'm scared as .
00:17:53Because I'm going to miss it a lot here, you know?
00:17:56I am Madeline, and I'm coming from Medellin, Colombia.
00:18:06Bien, recuerda tu postura.
00:18:08Look, my fiancé tricks me like hen queen.
00:18:13What do you want me to do like this?
00:18:15It's horrible.
00:18:18Baby, let's pack.
00:18:20We are in financial crisis right now, and we decide to move in with the family.
00:18:50Let's pack you up tonight, baby.
00:18:51Yeah, you need some good love and a good night.
00:18:56Baby, grab a bag.
00:18:58You should pack your life.
00:18:59Let me know you.
00:19:00Oh, sir.
00:19:01Come on, come on.
00:19:02I can't wait for you.
00:19:03Don't touch.
00:19:04Yeah, tonight you living at your best life.
00:19:07Take this, sir.
00:19:08Your work.
00:19:12Look so handsome.
00:19:14Oh, oh, oh.
00:19:16Oh.
00:19:17I'll be the real, sir.
00:19:19I'll be the best you've ever had.
00:19:25What is it putting on your face?
00:19:27These are all natural items, good for the skin.
00:19:35I'm Jenny.
00:19:36I'm 67 years old.
00:19:38I'm from Palm Springs, California.
00:19:41And this is my cute husband, Sumit.
00:19:44I'm Sumit.
00:19:45I'm 36 years old, married to this beautiful queen.
00:19:48I am Sadna.
00:19:49I am Sumit mom.
00:19:50I am Sadna.
00:19:51I am Sumit mom.
00:19:52I am so happy.
00:19:53I am so happy.
00:19:54I'm sitting in the middle of two most important women of color.
00:19:55I am so happy.
00:19:56I am so happy.
00:19:57I am so happy.
00:19:58I am so happy.
00:19:59I am so happy.
00:20:00I am so happy.
00:20:01I am standing in the middle of two most important women of my life.
00:20:02And here she loves you.
00:20:03I am so happy I am so happy, and I am so happy.
00:20:04I am so happy sitting in the middle of two most important women of my life.
00:20:29but it's been a long journey to get here we met on social media 2011 we continued in a long
00:20:43distance relationship until i finally decided to move to india to marry samit denny oh my god
00:21:00i thought samit and i were gonna live happily ever after until i found out he was already married
00:21:08that was a big shock
00:21:09why tell me you love me and talk to me every single day and still marry somebody else and not tell me
00:21:32because i don't want to lose you it's not that i want to marry it's not like that i want to be with
00:21:39my parents forced me into an unhappy arranged marriage it was one of the most difficult
00:21:45times of our relationship but he told me he was going to get a divorce and he did
00:21:52but my family was not ready to accept our relation because of 30 years of age gap
00:21:57i am not old enough to be his grandmother
00:22:15it impacted our relationship a lot there were several times that i threatened to go back to the u.s
00:22:22us you promised me we were going to get married this time so i would never have to leave india
00:22:28again but do you know the situation or not it's always because of your parents every time
00:22:34i'm not going to keep coming back and leaving every damn six months i'm not going to keep doing it
00:22:38you're not going to keep telling me you're going to marry you off that's it
00:22:42we wanted to be together we wanted to be married but we didn't have his family's approval so we decided
00:22:57to get married in secret i authorize jenny and summit as husband and wife
00:23:06when i broke the news to my family my mom gets so mad and
00:23:15they disowned me from the family
00:23:17my mother was not happy that i chose jenny over family and that was a very sad time very
00:23:36devastated time but big shocker of last year was when my mom finally accepted our relationship
00:23:47oh my mom oh what a cute little bond oh so cute little anybody got a bow my brother my sister-in-law
00:23:56and my father accepted jenny i think she realized that that like uh she's the only one who's missing
00:24:03she couldn't fight it anymore i did a good job yeah your skin looks really nice
00:24:09yeah that's such a mom
00:24:15jada time laga to abu don't know uh sumit or jenny car is there is taking a minute so we car car
00:24:22yeah don't know care is takeo jo joe joe whoo whoo yeah up night night ricasa shuduka rame look
00:24:29okay okay see you soon yeah okay bye bye how am i as a daughter-in-law good daughter-in-law yay oh my god
00:24:44we have a good time together actually but now the real test is gonna come
00:24:59baby let's back okay i have lots of clothes six months ago we moved into a nice fancy apartment
00:25:10it's a gated community and it is brand new it's everything i wanted but he lost his job
00:25:18and so now we can't afford to pay the rent anymore so we are in financial crisis right now and we
00:25:24decide to move in with the family oh boy yay i can't wait to see what happens
00:25:36this really started to feel like home for me i was comfortable here and now i'm just completely
00:25:42devastated it it's costing us a lot and you know i can't handle it by myself but the financial crisis
00:25:50is giving us a chance that i'm get to experience living with family i know how you feel about this
00:25:58i know this is what you've always wanted and that's why i'm happy for you and of course i love
00:26:03you and i'm gonna be right there with you by your side but that doesn't mean i'm not worried
00:26:09but you know living with them is a whole other thing we're not going to be able to
00:26:13live like we've been doing the job and in the in the in the hospital you see why is it
00:26:15something like it is in the hospital you know we're gonna be like what i don't want to get
00:26:24into the hospital so we're not getting out we need to get new to possibly get new
00:26:30home to your family in this hospital and we're not getting back we're getting back of the hospital
00:26:32Absolutely, but you know, living with them
00:26:34is a whole nother thing.
00:26:37We're not gonna be able to live like we've been living here.
00:26:39We've been free.
00:26:41We've been able to do whatever we want.
00:26:44And your mom's, you know, she has a lot of rules.
00:27:02I'm not used to living with parents.
00:27:07And I used to live with my parents always.
00:27:10I know.
00:27:11I lived without them only for six years.
00:27:14So, I mean, we both have a different point of view about this.
00:27:19Sumit thinks that we're all gonna live together
00:27:22and everything is gonna be great, but I have my doubts.
00:27:27The acceptance is new.
00:27:30And I would rather not rock the boat
00:27:34by us all moving in together, but we don't have a choice.
00:27:40I hope everything works out okay
00:27:42because I don't want anything to happen to our relationship.
00:27:53I get into the ceremony in the helicopter.
00:27:56We need to follow a budget.
00:27:58This is something gonna happen just one day in our life.
00:28:01You want to be happy, yes or no?
00:28:03Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful.
00:28:06Beautiful, beautiful.
00:28:10Beautiful, beautiful.
00:28:17Good night to everyone.
00:28:20I hope you're having an incredible night.
00:28:23All right.
00:28:25So, today, I want to thank you first to thank you.
00:28:26First of all, my family.
00:28:27And also, thank you,
00:28:29thanks to me,
00:28:30because it is the discipline,
00:28:31esfuerzo and dedication
00:28:33with which I have participated.
00:28:34Thank you
00:28:36and happy night all of a while.
00:28:39Wow!
00:28:40Super bien, excelente.
00:29:01Bien, recuerda tu postura.
00:29:10Y en la segunda, me gané.
00:29:16Me encanta.
00:29:19Me encanta el make-up, me encanta el pelo.
00:29:23Y todos me están mirando como...
00:29:26¡Oh, oh, oh!
00:29:33Mi motivación más grande es mostrar al mundo
00:29:37las hermosas mujeres que tenemos un cerebro.
00:29:41Y nos desearamos a ser tratadas como las mujeres que somos.
00:29:46Y así es como mi fiancé me traje.
00:29:49Soy...
00:29:51¡Hang Queen!
00:30:00Hola.
00:30:01Me encanta mi amor.
00:30:04Te amo.
00:30:05Te amo, mi amor.
00:30:07Ready to practice?
00:30:08Yes.
00:30:10Uno, dos.
00:30:12You're so cute.
00:30:14Uno, dos.
00:30:16Uno, dos.
00:30:17Is this good?
00:30:18Ay, baby.
00:30:20You want me to be honest?
00:30:21Yeah.
00:30:23Es horrible.
00:30:26My name's Luke.
00:30:27I'm 31 years old,
00:30:28and I live in the hills north of Los Angeles.
00:30:31What do you want me to do?
00:30:32Like this?
00:30:34One, two.
00:30:36You said do one, two.
00:30:38Dios,
00:30:39what are you going to do with you?
00:30:42You're going to marry me.
00:30:44I know.
00:30:45So, I met Madeleine on a boys trip to Colombia.
00:30:49What's like?
00:30:51You're the movie star.
00:30:53And I love how you act like you think you are, you know it.
00:30:57We picked Medazine because we've been told they have the hottest girls there.
00:31:00My buddies and I downloaded a couple dating apps,
00:31:03and I met Madeleine literally day one.
00:31:06I just feel my way home.
00:31:10How do you care?
00:31:11My jaw dropped.
00:31:12She was beautiful.
00:31:13She had this outfit on with a fur coat, and I was like,
00:31:16damn girl, like, who the heck is this?
00:31:18Right?
00:31:20When I met him in the party zone,
00:31:22he's so f***ing hot.
00:31:24Like...
00:31:26Touch me here, touch me there.
00:31:29Touch me everywhere, don't care.
00:31:32Cause I want you.
00:31:35He was so caballero, so, so, so special.
00:31:39We got along right away.
00:31:42Like, what?
00:31:43You know, we just met.
00:31:44How is this that easy?
00:31:47It was so weird because he told me,
00:31:49you're gonna to be my wife.
00:31:50And he told me love you and, oh my God, we even have like a week till you know me and you told me you love me.
00:31:59Are you crazy, man?
00:32:01When I got home, we talked every day.
00:32:10After three whole months, I tattooed her name next to my penis.
00:32:16I'm not the biggest tattoo person, but I wanted her to know that I was serious and she was the one.
00:32:22He was home, he told me, I really love you and I'm gonna move to Colombia.
00:32:27I already make a plan, I'm gonna to sell my house and I...
00:32:35What?
00:32:37You're one special girl, Madeline.
00:32:40Yes, I am.
00:32:43Nine months after meeting Madeline, I proposed.
00:32:46I've never felt like this with anybody else.
00:32:50Madeline is a strong and confident person.
00:32:53She calls me on my .
00:32:54Can she be a little bit controlling?
00:32:56Sure.
00:32:57But at the end of the day, I think she's like a voice of reason for me.
00:33:05And I had every intention to move down to Colombia so that we could start our life together.
00:33:10Unfortunately, that's not how it played out.
00:33:12I'm trying, baby. We were supposed to be in person and it's, it's...
00:33:21Well, don't move already.
00:33:23You promised me to move and you don't hear, so...
00:33:26I'm working on it. I'll be there soon, okay?
00:33:31Te amo.
00:33:33It's been a whole year and Madeline is pissed that I'm still in the States.
00:33:38But I keep telling Madeline that I don't have the money to make this move.
00:33:49Okay, well that's why we're practicing.
00:33:51Madeline is sick of the long distance.
00:33:54She's fed up with waiting. She's fed up with my excuses.
00:33:57And basically, she said, you need to move to Colombia so that we could be together or else.
00:34:03I don't know what would happen if I don't move to Colombia, but I don't want to find out.
00:34:08So, we're getting married in three weeks and after the wedding, I'll be staying there for good.
00:34:13You excited? For the wedding?
00:34:21Why?
00:34:22For example, the dance.
00:34:24This needs to be ready already.
00:34:25Okay.
00:34:27The helicopter.
00:34:29For what?
00:34:31I get into the ceremony in the helicopter.
00:34:37So, you want me to pay for a helicopter for you to show up to the wedding?
00:34:41Exactly.
00:34:42Oh my God.
00:34:43Amor.
00:34:45I'm about to move.
00:34:46I'm not going to have my income for my job anymore.
00:34:50So, we need to follow a budget.
00:34:53I promised Madeline the wedding of her dreams, but I'm in a lot of debt.
00:34:58I invested in sunglasses and a jewelry line, and it hasn't turned a profit yet.
00:35:03So, once I quit my job as a mining engineer, I am going to have no money coming in.
00:35:11So, yeah, that is not the best situation to be in.
00:35:22I mean, yeah, but I don't know, babe.
00:35:26Like, I'll look into it, and if I can make it happen, I'll try and make it happen.
00:35:30I mean, we'll see, right?
00:35:31You still practice dancing. I don't see you dancing.
00:35:42I'll be the first to admit that I have a very hard time telling Madelaine no.
00:35:48That's why it's probably better for me to stay here, continue to work, and save money
00:35:53so that I can fully provide the wedding and lifestyle that she wants.
00:35:58But if I stay any longer, I think Madelaine would leave me for good.
00:36:03So, I need to move, and I need to make it work. End of story.
00:36:08There's so much at stake. My whole future.
00:36:10Yeah.
00:36:11I think I'm getting the hang of this, babe.
00:36:12I don't think so.
00:36:13For the past year and a half, I've been a full-time, stay-at-home dad.
00:36:14You are definitely a very rare breed. That's why I married you.
00:36:18Look at him, like the moustache. He made my wound tingling, you know? I was like, woo!
00:36:19I feel like I'm a mom. I just can't.
00:36:23The American dream is actually killing me, and I need to let it go.
00:36:26For the past year and a half, I've been a full-time, stay-at-home dad.
00:36:30You are definitely a very rare breed. That's why I married you.
00:36:34Look at him, like the moustache. He made my wound tingling, you know? I was like, woo!
00:36:40I feel like I'm a mom. I just can't.
00:36:43The American dream is actually killing me, and I need to let it go.
00:36:46I
00:37:00I
00:37:02I
00:37:05I
00:37:07I
00:37:09I
00:37:11I
00:37:12I
00:37:13Yeah, Daddy's here.
00:37:23Okay, so you have the teaser by the 24th, right?
00:37:26Because we cannot post later than the 24th.
00:37:30For the past year and a half, I've been a full-time stay-at-home dad.
00:37:34Benjamin.
00:37:35Daycare is stupid expensive,
00:37:38so I quit my job in security to stay at home with Ben.
00:37:42Antoni is an amazing, loving husband,
00:37:45but what he does the best and who is the best is a baby daddy.
00:37:50You are definitely a very rare breed.
00:37:53That's why I married you.
00:37:55We met about four years ago.
00:37:58She actually swiped left on me at first.
00:38:04He's terrible at taking pictures of himself.
00:38:07You could not see his face at first.
00:38:09I'm like, oh, that's probably a creep, right?
00:38:10But we never know.
00:38:12I shake the phone.
00:38:13He goes back on the profile.
00:38:14And I'm like, oh, actually kind of cute.
00:38:17Cute dog or so.
00:38:20And then we had our first date in Malibu.
00:38:23And I think she kind of did a double take when she first saw me.
00:38:27Look at him.
00:38:28Like the moustache.
00:38:29Mr. Moustache.
00:38:30He made my tingling, you know.
00:38:32I was like, ooh, I didn't expect that.
00:38:34You know, keep it.
00:38:35You better keep it.
00:38:36Ooh.
00:38:39Look at you.
00:38:40I already knew after our first date that I wanted to marry her.
00:38:44And then actually, he wrote me a handwriting letter as well in my mail a few days after.
00:38:50How freaking cool is that?
00:38:51And I was like, okay, well, he's not going anywhere.
00:38:53And then everything went back to back with him.
00:38:56One month later, we moved with each other.
00:39:00Six months after, he proposed.
00:39:03Nine months after we dated, we eloped in Las Vegas.
00:39:07Seven months.
00:39:08Seven months later, yes.
00:39:11A year later, we bought the house.
00:39:14And then right after, bam, the baby.
00:39:17All of that in less than three years.
00:39:30Okay.
00:39:31Finished my meeting.
00:39:32Come here, moment baby.
00:39:35Oh.
00:39:36Come with my mom.
00:39:37Come with a, come here.
00:39:40I think come with me.
00:39:41yeah okay I had to go back to work after eight weeks after giving birth eight
00:39:54weeks later because how are we going to pay our bills and it was not just a nine
00:39:59to five or at five I'm done I can shut off my phone I was running my agency I
00:40:03had my social media business and on top of that I had a corporate job babies
00:40:09thrive on routines but his entire routines for everything within Tony and
00:40:17sometimes he makes me feel like the biggest failure in the world I do want to
00:40:23have that bond with that baby that it took me nine months to create to carry he's
00:40:30my my pride and joy good job good job and it is also so mom was going to be there
00:40:37for him I really cannot stand that you know he's just always into you into you
00:40:46every time I try to play or something it just goes straight back at you Ina with
00:40:52Manon working and me taking care of Ben there have been a lot of days where we
00:40:57at each other's throats I felt a lot of resentment coming from her for me spending so much time with
00:41:05Ben building this incredible bond you know and everything was always falling on me with Ben both
00:41:12of us were actually starting to resent each other I feel like I'm mom I just can't do not because you provide
00:41:21for us yeah but I should be there for him though and you will be in France and
00:41:27that's why we're going see how excited he is about France yeah our marriage was falling apart so I said
00:41:40why don't we sell our house and move to France and really focus on us as a family and the quality of
00:41:47life that can be there I thought it's saying I'm like you know what he's right the American dream is
00:41:53actually killing me and I need to let it go it's gonna be better for us you're gonna spend more time
00:42:00with him yeah and he's gonna be more attached to you than he is me I am looking forward to it but
00:42:08it's not gonna be completely easy it may save our marriage and also make me have a good relationship
00:42:16with my son that's why I'm doing it you're asking me to go back to a country that I used to hate and I
00:42:23wanted to escape you asked me to not be a business entrepreneur girlie that I am like
00:42:29it's a lot so what if it's actually a bit too much Antony what if it's too much change for me
00:42:36you want to go with that yeah go to daddy okay I gotta go to my next meeting
00:42:46she thinks I'm coming just to say bye but I'm really coming to tell her not to move there
00:42:54I think you're making a mistake the only thing that he's shown is that he's not even faithful to
00:43:01you I'm so happy that finally we all can live together I'm afraid you're afraid
00:43:10there are a lot of expectations from the daughter-in-law she can't expect us to be
00:43:17there always cleaning and cooking I don't want to scare you you are scaring me
00:43:23Chloe is living in like the Lulu land she's moving to another country for the wrong man
00:43:35he is not the one she thinks I'm coming just to say bye and to wish her luck but
00:43:40I'm really coming to tell her not to move there Aruba is where you go to have fun on vacation not
00:43:58where you move to be with someone they don't want to break her heart but I think she's making a mistake
00:44:06hey hey god I missed you so cold I know it's freezing all right you don't really have to wipe
00:44:21your feet it's fine Jen's husband grew up on the same street as Jonathan and they met when Jen was
00:44:27on vacation Darren moved to the States about a year ago and they just got married you want a snack or
00:44:33like tea or something yeah I'll take some tea I met Jen before they moved to the States Jen is like my
00:44:40friendship mom she'll tell me whether I'm insane or I'm not insane but I don't always want Jen's
00:44:46advice because 99% of the time she's probably right and that's what I try to avoid at all costs
00:44:52how are you good yeah drive is a little long how long is that four and a half hours oh gosh
00:44:59so I know I was coming to say goodbye but I really came to try to talk to you there is so much more to
00:45:10life than Aruba which I love as a vacation home but to live there is a completely different commitment
00:45:18I need to explain to you how crazy it is there with how that culture is there's just thousands of
00:45:27these girls that literally come to Aruba for one reason and that is to party and hook up with the
00:45:32locals I've been going there for such a long time I've seen it so many times and I think you're making
00:45:38a mistake I'm so worried that you are literally leaving your life here for him and the only thing
00:45:48that he's shown is that he's not even faithful to you after a few months of Jonathan and I being
00:45:57together I thought we were exclusive we were going to be boyfriend and girlfriend and then Jonathan was
00:46:05on a boy's trip to Florida one day I'm on social media and I see that he was actually taking another
00:46:13girl on a trip to Florida for her birthday you know we talked about it he told me he was in an open
00:46:25relationship quote-unquote with the girl and I just said I honestly don't understand it because that's not
00:46:32how I do things he just said like I really do want this to work I made a mistake it's just it seems
00:46:40like he definitely jumps from females he's got a long history when you say it like that it sounds bad
00:46:46it is bad it was bad that's why I worry because now you're literally six months later making a decision
00:46:56to go live with him I am worried that it's a trend given the lifestyle and the culture there having a
00:47:03husband that also worked in tourism that got constantly hit on it never stopped and guys like
00:47:10Johnny constantly go with these girls like what do they say about it like leopard doesn't change their
00:47:16spots I think Chloe does see successful relationships Darren and I for example but our situation is a little
00:47:24different he left Aruba in Aruba these guys know how to get away with cheating my husband he saw
00:47:31these things happen all the time the guys on the boat all have each other's back I think Johnny knows
00:47:36that he can get away with it if he wants to he's already done it before yes he's gotten caught that
00:47:40doesn't necessarily mean he won't do it again he may just get more clever about it
00:47:44I know you came here to saw me in a sense I did but I'm going through with it I believe in him
00:47:56whether it's my insanity or the fact that I'm just delusional I really do feel this is going to work
00:48:07how are you
00:48:36we are moving in with my family tomorrow and today we are meeting my brother Amit and my sister-in-law
00:48:51Shree so we can buy some stuff for the house let's split up and let us buy the kitchen stuff
00:48:57I have a great relationship with Amit and Shree we get along really well
00:49:07oh this is the shop we just missed you this shop this shop yeah they've been living together with
00:49:14the family since they got married and I know that there's been some problems lately between mom and
00:49:21Shree so I'm gonna get the the 411 on that so what do you think of these pots and pans
00:49:28this looks good for chai right but this will be too small we need to be the size okay yeah there's
00:49:34a lot of us there yeah six people
00:49:36Jenny's lifestyle will be completely changed once she moves in because I know waking up her own way
00:49:47going wherever she wants to buying whatever she wants to but when you're living in a joint family
00:49:52especially in India things does not work like that I think I've only ever made chai for four
00:49:59people that's the max that's the max mom she'll give some time to Jenny to tell up with the family
00:50:06after some time if she cannot you know prove herself or meet up to her expectations mom might be a little
00:50:16frustrated or angry towards her so did you speak with the summit before moving up here yeah we've been
00:50:26talking of course okay buddy I don't think he's telling me everything I I think he doesn't want
00:50:33to scare me so you need to kind of fill me in on what to expect so there are a lot of expectations
00:50:41from the daughter-in-law you know you have to be at certain places you have to be wearing certain
00:50:48things at certain places I have to behave certain way this guy is getting heavy he's tired he isn't a
00:51:02charging more now I'm so happy that finally my dream is coming true like we all can live together I'm
00:51:14afraid you're afraid maybe I'm afraid for my wife like once we'll start living together then the
00:51:22responsibility will be double will be divided not will be double like what I think will be double for
00:51:28her Jenny wakes up late she doesn't cook food like we spent five years together like living by your own
00:51:37way but now the things are different with family comes responsibility she'd have to get involved in
00:51:45the home chorus as well I don't want my wife only the one who will be doing each and everything I
00:51:51understand my brother's concern but he also need to understand it gonna be very difficult and different
00:52:01for Jenny she needs some time to adjust into a culture which they are coming from so they need to be
00:52:08patient you know how I see a tree mom she this is her way of life this is what she's always been doing she
00:52:22can't expect us to be there always cleaning and cooking because that's her thing that's what she likes to
00:52:29do exactly the thing is that is where we have little mismatch things we have our fights it's not
00:52:36that it's nothing nothing rosy rosy that me and mom are the bestest of you know mother-in-law and daughter
00:52:42you know it's nothing like that a few months back we had some disagreements where mom said that you know
00:52:49you have been married for four and a half years and you didn't do anything for this house you never made
00:52:57dough anything for us you didn't even make tea for us very basic things it was like very very
00:53:03disrespect for all those that I did for them then I said fine if you think that I have not done anything
00:53:11then I'll be not doing anything from today onwards oh god like what have I got myself into oh no see I
00:53:20I don't want to scare you you are scaring me but I'm giving you a very very reality picture
00:53:27no Sri and mom are not like uh into the very good terms with each other mom just said and you have never done
00:53:37anything for us oh like now Sri you are not the favorite one huh things have changed now you are the most
00:53:47most loved uh son and daughter-in-law and now the dynamics will be different once uh you guys moving
00:53:55together and uh let's see who will be the favorite favorite daughter-in-law Sri used to be my mom's favorite and uh
00:54:05my mom's start uh arguing with Sri now Jenny become favorite and but concerned in the future she can be the uh
00:54:15bad daughter-in-law too Jenny is a very independent uh person she don't like to get orders from anyone my mom
00:54:23is higher in the position and hierarchy so and she likes to order it going to be a very precious situation for
00:54:31a journey and for my mom both it took us so long in order to get the mom's love and appreciation moving
00:54:41with them like I hope I'm not gonna do something which will make us apart forever
00:54:47you have to move to friends and go down brooks seventy thousand is a lot of money I would love to
00:54:59not have to focus so much on money money money we're on the brink of divorce like just find someone
00:55:07you're the original owner yeah yes why are you guys selling the car moving to france okay
00:55:31do you know what your payoff is twenty seven thousand yeah okay let me book it out real quick
00:55:47we put our house in the market a week ago and the house is actually already sold
00:55:51okay so as you know we accepted the offer we took an all cash yeah eight ten so the net proceeds we have
00:55:57right now is eighty eight thousand seven hundred seventy eight but we have two weeks that you have to
00:56:01be out of the house so just prep yourself wow and now we have two weeks nothing is ready to get out
00:56:07of our house pack all of our belongings make sure we have all of our important paperwork
00:56:11get rid of everything in two weeks
00:56:15so today we had the opportunity to leave benjamin's uh with his hound and uh sell our car
00:56:21so i got auction fee i got detail i gotta put two tires on and then we gotta make a little bit of money
00:56:27so the number i'd be at is probably right around fifteen grand
00:56:31oh my lord fifteen k
00:56:33but you're twenty seven
00:56:35whoa this is it's something to just take a step back and to consider
00:56:39i'm just trying to help you out the best we can
00:56:41no no no no for sure thank you i appreciate it
00:56:43we're looking at our options
00:56:45sorry about the news yeah it's not gonna be a good day but that's fine it's okay it is what it is
00:56:51right okay i'm gonna go to bed and cry thanks
00:56:57i have to lose twelve thousand dollars out of my own money to get rid of a car that seems like insane
00:57:05fifteen okay like no way like no well i mean it's it's one option
00:57:13no but you have to move to france and go there bro
00:57:15you think the amount of money we have in our account after selling our house
00:57:19means we're broke
00:57:21we'll be broke yeah that because there's nothing coming in it's only coming out
00:57:25seventy thousand is a lot of money
00:57:27that money is not even enough for a down payment in france
00:57:31i set up some standard in my life i'm not going to rent anymore i'm not going to have
00:57:37a house that's way smaller or something
00:57:39we are not going there broke and we're not going there with the expectation of not working either
00:57:47i know this move isn't easy for menown and financially we're gonna have to take a hit for a while
00:57:55but we're gonna be okay we'll be staying with your parents not paying rent you'll still be working part time
00:58:01with your marketing company and as soon as my french gets better i can get a job in security or in some field where they're open to having someone that's either still learning or whatever level i'll be at
00:58:15you're deluded i'm motivated delulu it's different delusional
00:58:23stop focusing so much on we need this amount or else we're broke and it's not gonna work
00:58:29because antoni every day as a kid i see my dad and my mom stressing because we don't have enough money
00:58:35and then i lived like for years in l.a trying to make it okay i was homeless i had nothing under my name
00:58:45nothing i'm not just a materialistic bitch we want like fancy bags and like a fancy house
00:58:51no i struggled to get where i'm at today so i'm not going to do 10 steps backward i want to enjoy life
00:58:59but not everyone has the same definition of what brings them happiness
00:59:07i would love to not have to focus so much on money money money maybe we don't need
00:59:13this fancier house with the pool and the jacuzzi what why is there this constant push for more
00:59:19if you make enough to get by and you're happy with your life what is wrong with that my version of happiness
00:59:27is spending time with you spending time with ben the roof over our head being able to pay our bills
00:59:33that's why we are going completely apart because what brings you happiness is not the same as me
00:59:38and we have actually very different ways of seeing life now i want more
00:59:46antoni he has a certain standard of like as long as i have a roof above my head and food at the table and
00:59:53i'm surviving i'm happy me it's actually the opposite makes me feel i'm in danger it's being extra
01:00:01comfortable that makes me feel safe he expects me to follow his way because his way is the way and
01:00:09it's just exhausting you wanting more has left me having an amazing relationship with ben you resenting me
01:00:18for it it has caused mental health issues for yourself because of how overworked and stressed
01:00:23you are to the point where we're on the brink of divorce so you know what i'm gonna say it like just
01:00:30find someone who just is like you did why do i always have to compromise what i want who i am and stuff
01:00:39why because your focus on that dream is why we're here i'm sorry if i'm someone who's driven in life
01:00:48you can be driven but you can still focus on your family that's why i'm moving there and that's why
01:00:54i'm changing all of myself and all of my life for us we need some serenity now and really think about
01:01:05why we're moving to france because all of this focus on just finances and finances and finances it
01:01:12is like just tearing us apart okay
01:01:23for her to say we're not compatible it is very hurtful and to hear her say those things and not
01:01:29just once but multiple times every single time it's taken a toll but it is very important for me
01:01:36to fight for our marriage she is easily the best thing that's happened in my life moving to france
01:01:42is very drastic and manon already has a lot of skepticism towards this move if this hail mary pass
01:01:52doesn't work out i have no idea what the future holds for us
01:02:04i'm trying to get this wedding done and then i'm trying to do a hotel yeah it's going to take a lot
01:02:09of money i know does madeline know that you're in debt it is finally sinking in that this is the
01:02:17highest stakes gamble that i ever made i mean i'm not stupid but you do stupid things
01:02:31you want it to be classy you know you don't want to look like a pimp on your wedding
01:02:49okay you want to look smart madelaine hated the shoes that i got for the wedding
01:02:55is this pimpy no no that's classy so today i've asked my dad to tag along to go shop for a new pair
01:03:04i wanted to wear these ones those are nice that's the perfect color it's brown madeline hates brown
01:03:12she texted me she said you have to understand that shoes can't be brown
01:03:17that color is all people's and if you wear brown colored shoes i won't marry you so she's saying i'm
01:03:23old now yeah i hate its color and you need to hate them too is what she texted me yeah but at the same
01:03:31time you don't want her to walk all over you right now you've got to stand your ground otherwise your
01:03:37nuts will be gone right i don't want to uh ruin her day yeah over a pair of shoes well that's a problem
01:03:45if a pair of shoes is gonna ruin the wedding holy crap my dad has always been a really big role model
01:03:53for me he runs his own business he makes very good life decisions i ask my dad for advice quite often
01:04:01actually he is my best friend we talk all the time i don't get it you just bought a nice pair of shoes
01:04:11for the wedding and now you've got to buy another pair you've got bills to pay when we get down there
01:04:17you don't have to spend a fortune for it to be a nice day yeah you've got the rest of your life with
01:04:24her and you try and save as much as you can for the future i'm just i'm trying to get this wedding
01:04:32done and then i'm trying to do the the hotel that's like the only things i care about right now
01:04:37yeah it's going to take a lot of money trust me i know i know i want to provide for madeleine and
01:04:46since i'm passionate about investing i had the chance to purchase a property two hours outside of
01:04:53medellin and i plan to build a high-end luxurious resort which i'm wholeheartedly planning to become
01:05:03my primary source of income how's your jewelry stuff coming along you managed to sell any that
01:05:08and your sunglasses yeah i mean i mean a couple but i'll be honest like i haven't done any marketing
01:05:13that costs money and with me leaving my job and then the hotel thing i just allocated funds towards
01:05:19the hotel and the designs to try and get that up and running you see that's where you're going wrong
01:05:24yeah i mean okay everything's like a knee-jerk reaction for you and you go off on tangents
01:05:31you're in quite a lot of debt you spent a fortune on that jewelry and the glasses and now you're putting
01:05:37that on the back burner to do another idea but this this property wouldn't have been on the market for
01:05:46long and i just i needed to do what i needed to do i went to school for mining engineering i went to school
01:05:51for geology and i got an mba in business i mean i'm not stupid right you do stupid things okay fine
01:05:58yeah i took a risk and it is what it is i mean i love to see people take risks but educated risks
01:06:06calculated risk luke comes to me for advice but it's not that he's actually wanted my advice he wants
01:06:15me to back him up on his decisions rather than give him the negatives even though luke went to business
01:06:22school i sometimes question what they actually taught him because he's he lets money roll through
01:06:30his fingers like there's no tomorrow he's just a very impulsive person with everything now does madeline
01:06:38know that you're in debt she's aware of all the debt it is what it is and we're working through it
01:06:48the main thing you got to worry about is not the business not the hotel not this not that
01:06:53it's madeline she's going to be your wife soon you know she looks at you as her knight in shining armor
01:06:59i mean is that really sunk in yeah has it yeah that's why i'm putting almost all my eggs in this
01:07:07basket so i can be there can be with the person that i love you know you called me the second day
01:07:13you in colombia two years ago i want you to speak to the girl i'm gonna marry
01:07:19which was wonderful yeah you saw it then 24 hours later you knew that she was the one
01:07:30i just hope she can do you right and you do her right because i'm worried about you
01:07:35and your future i mean we're blood yeah i love you to death i don't want to see any harm of any kind
01:07:43come to you it's gonna hurt you and that's gonna hurt me
01:07:49i do often worry about luke because he's got himself into a sticky predicament he's got debt
01:08:03to pay he's got hotels to build if he's going to go down to colombia he's not going to be earning the
01:08:09money he earns here and it leaves him no room to escape or to rectify the problems that he might
01:08:17have flown at him i love you dad i mean you know
01:08:32i don't know the last time i saw my dad cry
01:08:36it adds a lot of weight it is finally sinking in that i really need this marriage to work because
01:08:43i'll lose everything if it doesn't this is basically the highest stakes gamble that i ever made
01:08:53i'm always here for you thank you
01:08:55goodbye apartment goodbye freedom today is move-in day
01:09:07what the hell get out of my stuff
01:09:21everything is gone oh this is so sad
01:09:40i can't believe we're leaving this apartment remember how happy i was to get that chandelier
01:09:53i miss this place too but yeah family's better today is move-in day i'm excited that i'm gonna move
01:10:02in with my family again and i feel like that it's gonna be good
01:10:09i feel like i'm leaving my freedom i'm giving up everything and now i have to go deal with mom
01:10:17work work do this clean that cook this cook that she's not that bad i mean do we plan on living with
01:10:26your parents forever though yeah that's what the plan is like yeah we're gonna live there my life is over now
01:10:40i have no plans of staying in this situation with the family permanently not gonna happen no way
01:10:48goodbye apartment goodbye goodbye life goodbye everything i'll miss you
01:10:59i don't want to pick a fight with smith right now
01:11:02but at some point i'm gonna have to tell him no
01:11:08in order to present a positive image about yourself i suggest you cook the dinner tonight
01:11:14your parents aren't gonna want to eat my american food baby you just try this will be your chance to
01:11:23win more love of my mother okay i'll do my best i hope they don't hate me for it
01:11:34i'm happy to live together as a typical indian family but jenny is not traditional housewife
01:11:41i'm a bit nervous too because i know jenny and i know my mother too they both have
01:11:49very strong personalities
01:11:53you want me to carry this yes very heavy if mom tries to tell me what to do it's not going to go down
01:12:00well and who's going to tell you what to do i can't
01:12:03what is it okay baby okay okay chalo chalo welcome to me jenny welcome welcome welcome
01:12:17jenny can you believe that this is no finally
01:12:23this is unbelievable my mom is welcoming jenny uh the way they welcome new bride
01:12:29it's shocking because for the time they were totally disapproval thank you
01:12:35this is beyond my imagination
01:12:39i've now kicked it
01:12:44okay welcome welcome thank you most welcome jenny finally
01:12:49we're doing all these rituals and accepting me into the family and into their home this is
01:13:00something i i never really ever expected to happen i touch the feet
01:13:07say blessed say happy and it feels good but i don't really want to live with them forever and i don't
01:13:15think i can be the traditional indian daughter-in-law now this is our house
01:13:23this is our new house yes i like what you've done with it it looks nice
01:13:31the movers are here are they waiting downstairs yeah so we're gonna start moving stuff in okay
01:13:45so we need to hire someone to come put away all our stuff the mom and other people are here
01:14:03they don't need to hire jenny cloth jenny jenny jenny jenny kill cloth here
01:14:11i have a lot of clothes i know
01:14:18i've had these clothes for a long time many years jenny
01:14:23it's just too small for jenny
01:14:28why is your mom going through my stuff jenny doesn't need this you take it like what the hell
01:14:35get out i wanted to say get out of my stuff they've been in a joint family it everything will
01:14:41also everywhere but i would never just go through their stuff i mean is this a cultural thing or is
01:14:49this your mom's thing it's more like uh my mom's thing like she i had a feeling yeah that was it
01:14:59it's my mom
01:15:07my rom
01:15:12if i get a migraine sometime
01:15:14It's a wrong thing.
01:15:15It's a wrong thing.
01:15:16Sometime for medicine, right?
01:15:18There's a doctor here.
01:15:19There's a doctor here.
01:15:20There's a disease from her.
01:15:22It's a wrong thing.
01:15:23Don't do that.
01:15:24Don't do that.
01:15:27No, no.
01:15:31Jenny?
01:15:32I've only been here for an hour, and I'm already being criticized.
01:15:37I don't know how I'm going to survive this.
01:15:44So, we're going to move to France.
01:15:52Shut the front door.
01:15:54I know you guys have had some hard times.
01:15:57I just hope it's not a Band-Aid for a bowl hole.
01:16:00Are you going to piss me off, Sarah, right now?
01:16:01That is why I...
01:16:02No, I don't think so, I guess.
01:16:03Oh, because...
01:16:04Do not speak over me right now.
01:16:06Okay, get out of my house.
01:16:07Okay.
01:16:08Adi.
01:16:14I don't know how to make these look pretty, so...
01:16:25Nah.
01:16:26I'll make them for you.
01:16:37The baguette needs to be cut.
01:16:38Why?
01:16:39Antony...
01:16:40Just rip it.
01:16:41No, you don't.
01:16:42What's called breaking bread, right?
01:16:43We are moving to France in just a few weeks, but before that, I need Antony's to know how
01:16:56to make a really good charcuterie board and how to pronounce it properly.
01:17:01Charcuterie.
01:17:02Charcuterie.
01:17:03Charcuterie.
01:17:04Charcuterie.
01:17:05No, no.
01:17:06Charcuterie.
01:17:07Not charcuterie.
01:17:08Charcuterie.
01:17:11The grapes here.
01:17:12It's going to give it away that we are doing charcuterie board and baguettes.
01:17:15I just realized that that's very French.
01:17:18Oh, my God.
01:17:19I'm really nervous right now.
01:17:21Yeah.
01:17:22I got you.
01:17:23And no matter what they say, it is what it is, right?
01:17:25Yeah.
01:17:26Look, we're in this together.
01:17:27Yeah.
01:17:28We know why we're doing this.
01:17:29Yeah.
01:17:30It's not your decision.
01:17:31It's not mine.
01:17:32It's ours.
01:17:33Okay.
01:17:34Today, we have to tell Antony's family that we are moving to France and that we are selling
01:17:39the house.
01:17:40We haven't said anything to anyone yet because everything happened kind of like so quickly.
01:17:45Oh, hi.
01:17:46Hi.
01:17:47Hi.
01:17:48Hi.
01:17:49Hi.
01:17:50Hi.
01:17:51Hi.
01:17:52Hi.
01:17:53Hi.
01:17:54Hi.
01:17:55Hi.
01:17:56Hello.
01:17:57How are you doing?
01:17:59Waiting to tell my family is very much par for the course for me and our relationship.
01:18:00It's your style.
01:18:01I mean, I don't like to involve my family in like everything that's going on in our marriage.
01:18:04You left your sweater at my house.
01:18:06Yes, you did.
01:18:07We have two different dynamics in terms of families.
01:18:11It's like we overshare, we overcommunicate, we say everything.
01:18:15Our families are very different in that respect, but they 100% will be sad.
01:18:19Yeah.
01:18:20That we're leaving.
01:18:21I'm not going to lie.
01:18:22I'm scared.
01:18:23I'm afraid that they're going to hate me forever for taking away their son and their
01:18:27first grandson.
01:18:28Yeah, I'm scared about that.
01:18:30Bonjour, everyone!
01:18:32Yay!
01:18:33What's up?
01:18:35Hey.
01:18:36You want more prosciutto, Bubba?
01:18:37Yes.
01:18:38Maybe you want some more.
01:18:39But just small pieces.
01:18:40Small pieces at a time, please.
01:18:42Well, thanks for coming, everyone.
01:18:45We appreciate it.
01:18:47And go ahead.
01:18:48Yeah.
01:18:49I'll let him speak for once.
01:18:50Yeah.
01:18:51So, we're selling the house because we're going to move to France.
01:18:58Why don't you shut the front door?
01:19:01That is still...
01:19:02That's huge.
01:19:03That's huge.
01:19:04That's huge.
01:19:05That's huge.
01:19:06That's huge.
01:19:07Yeah.
01:19:08So, his first words are going to be in French?
01:19:10No.
01:19:11His first word was brandy, okay?
01:19:14Yeah.
01:19:15Is this like a permanent move to France?
01:19:17Like, oh, this is a goodbye forever?
01:19:19Yeah.
01:19:20So, we're not...
01:19:21The house is in this floor right now already.
01:19:22Yeah, it's already...
01:19:23We accepted an offer and two more weeks and we are out of the house.
01:19:26Yeah.
01:19:27Yeah.
01:19:28Holy shoot.
01:19:29It's been hard thinking about it.
01:19:31There's still time to change your mind.
01:19:33No.
01:19:34We're set.
01:19:36Yeah, we're set.
01:19:38Yeah, so we are going to France.
01:19:39Yay!
01:19:40Boom.
01:19:41It just feels like two weeks is a really short amount of time with a permanent move.
01:19:50You just don't feel like you're rushing into decisions?
01:19:52Absolutely not.
01:19:53No.
01:19:54Because what we were doing was not sustainable as a family.
01:19:57And we're going to essentially make it better and repair things.
01:20:01But like, I know you guys have had some hard times recently.
01:20:05I guess it just seems like you're almost adding more fire to that than really water.
01:20:11I don't think so.
01:20:13Okay.
01:20:14It's about slowing down.
01:20:17Are you going to be able to slow down though?
01:20:21I know it's going to be hard for sure.
01:20:23And people think that moving away, moving abroad is like, okay, all of your problems disappear.
01:20:28No, they don't.
01:20:29No.
01:20:30They come with you.
01:20:31They could also get a lot bigger.
01:20:32Yeah, but there's a flip side.
01:20:33We're going there as a means to really be a family unit.
01:20:37I just hope it's not a band-aid for a bowl hole, you know?
01:20:40I don't think so.
01:20:41Sarah, Sarah.
01:20:42We're united in doing this and you're kind of starting to push my buttons a little bit.
01:20:47So just quit with the whole, like, trying to, like, push us apart still.
01:20:52I'm not trying to push you apart.
01:20:53We're doing this to stay together.
01:20:55I understand that.
01:20:56But my worry is I don't hear any of the work that has gone into place outside of we're just moving.
01:21:02You tell me.
01:21:03What's the solution for you?
01:21:04It's not.
01:21:05I don't need the solution.
01:21:06This is your relationship.
01:21:07And that's why we have come up with our solution, right?
01:21:12Whether or not you think that more time together is going to be beneficial.
01:21:16We think this is the best for us and him.
01:21:20So what's the alternative?
01:21:22We stay here and we destroy our marriage and family?
01:21:25Or do we actually go to France and make it work?
01:21:28I mean, I will be honest, Manon and I talked about how you guys were in a really hard spot and that things weren't going well.
01:21:39And so I don't want you to think that I'm trying to drive a wedge in between you or create further separation.
01:21:44But you have to understand, Manon, that conversation was really hard to hear, truly.
01:21:49Like, it is a lot to take in and it only happened a few weeks ago and now all of a sudden everything is great.
01:21:54Which is why I'm a little worried about the move to France because I know when tensions are high and emotions run high,
01:21:59we say things that we don't necessarily mean, but there's a reason sometimes things are said.
01:22:04I was feeling bad and I was at the end of my rope because I felt stuck.
01:22:10And I said things on the moment because I just went crazy.
01:22:14It happened.
01:22:15We are humans, okay?
01:22:17Did I say to you that I wanted to split with him?
01:22:19Yes.
01:22:20Okay, so maybe you didn't really understand me.
01:22:22No, Manon, when you talked to me and you said sometimes being with your brother makes me feel like I want to die inside.
01:22:29Sarah, just let it go.
01:22:30Those were her words.
01:22:31Those were not mine.
01:22:32Okay.
01:22:33Those are, okay, I'm not...
01:22:34Hey, we don't need to...
01:22:35You probably called everyone in the family to say that, right?
01:22:37Yeah, you're going to piss me off, Sarah, right now.
01:22:39Because, like...
01:22:40Sarah, let it go.
01:22:41Yeah, let it go.
01:22:42Did I say to you I want a G-word?
01:22:43Yes!
01:22:44I said I want a G-word?
01:22:45Yes!
01:22:46You said those words to me, which is the only reason I have these concerns.
01:22:49I think she said it to you in confidence.
01:22:52I don't even remember saying the G-word, but if I said that, whatever.
01:22:56Let me pause.
01:22:57I was trying to create a little bond with you by sharing how hard it can be.
01:23:02But, okay, if you take it this way, it's fine, Sarah.
01:23:05No, that bond was real, but that is why I...
01:23:06No, I don't think so, I guess.
01:23:07Oh, because...
01:23:08Because look how you use it against me right now.
01:23:09My love, you just said I didn't say that, but then you also just said I was trying to
01:23:13create a bond by saying that...
01:23:14I may have said to you how it was hard.
01:23:15Do not speak over me right now.
01:23:16Okay, get out of my house.
01:23:18Okay.
01:23:19Adi, I'm done.
01:23:20I'm done.
01:23:21I'm done.
01:23:27This season on 90 Days Beyoncé the other way.
01:23:30My heart was jumping around like a kangaroo.
01:23:35Oh, that's pretty.
01:23:50Matthew thinks that I love my cat Hazel more than him.
01:23:54That's true, but I've never had this type of connection with a human before.
01:23:59Hey, sweetie.
01:24:00I can tell it was a long journey because you stink.
01:24:03You're welcome.
01:24:06What the is this?
01:24:08There's no windows.
01:24:09And it's soundproof.
01:24:10Oh.
01:24:11I was asking for a sexy, romantic night away.
01:24:15I was definitely not expecting a...
01:24:19A sex dungeon.
01:24:28We decided to open a cafe with the family.
01:24:31Sorry.
01:24:32New.
01:24:33I'm new.
01:24:34It's not...
01:24:35It's not...
01:24:36Plugged in.
01:24:37Dude.
01:24:38Our first customer and we lost it.
01:24:40Then you have to do blend more.
01:24:42You know what I can do?
01:24:43I can go home.
01:24:44Hey!
01:24:46I don't like that you control me.
01:24:48You don't let me control you.
01:24:49You don't let me control you.
01:24:51If I had control, you wouldn't be working in a freaking strip club.
01:24:55You're so insecure.
01:24:56You want me to just marry you and all that.
01:25:01I know you for a year.
01:25:02Then don't have the conversation.
01:25:04Saying that you're ready when you're not.
01:25:06Because I'm telling you I'm ready.
01:25:10I'm hurting my life.
01:25:11I take a pregnant day.
01:25:13No.
01:25:14That's...
01:25:15That made me more...
01:25:16Is careful.
01:25:19What does this mean?
01:25:20I can't take it anymore.
01:25:21You understand?
01:25:22Our life sucks.
01:25:23I'm done.
01:25:24I can't take it anymore.
01:25:25You understand?
01:25:26Our life sucks.
01:25:27I'm done.
01:25:28I can't take it anymore.
01:25:29You understand?
01:25:30Our life sucks.
01:25:31I'm done.
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