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00:00:00another country for pirate I'm leaving a six-figure job with my mom to move to
00:00:05Aruba which is obviously insane you are leaving your life here for him and he's
00:00:11not even faithful to you whether it's my insanity or the fact that I'm delusional
00:00:19I'm going through with it
00:00:23ready to reach out about it may actually look at you to total can't you know no
00:00:28no haircut after 15 years of being together his parents have finally
00:00:35accepted our relationship very let's back but we are in financial crisis right
00:00:42now and we decide to move in with the family you can hit my room so good what
00:00:49that good at what that why is your mom going through my stuff like what the
00:00:54hell this is good you're gonna marry me we're getting married in three weeks but
00:01:05I'm in a lot of debt I'm trying to get this wedding done and then I'm trying to
00:01:09do the hotel see that's where you're going wrong yeah I mean he's got debt to
00:01:15pay he's got hotels to build everything's like a knee-jerk reaction for
00:01:20you the main thing you got to worry about it's not the business not the hotel it's
00:01:24Madeline love that looking good with men on working and me taking care of them
00:01:32there have been a lot of days where we were at each other's throats feel like I'm
00:01:37mom I just can't the American dream is actually kidding me and I need to let it
00:01:42go we're gonna move to France shut the front door I just hope it's not a
00:01:47band-aid for a ball I don't think so they're not when you talk to me and you
00:01:51said sometimes being with your brother makes me feel like I want to die inside
00:01:55yeah you're gonna piss me off Sarah right now because like sure let it go I may
00:01:58have said to you how we do us over me right now okay get out of my house okay I'm done I'm done
00:02:12what are we gonna do with all the shoes we have five
00:02:42big bags of shoes really all right five big bags yeah good mama mama thank God
00:02:52oh my god I lay on your finger yeah okay oh that's what you get for making me come
00:03:02I'm sorry it's our first night living in the house with Smith's family and I'm already feeling
00:03:11like it's a bad idea because they're going through all my stuff they find my alcohol and
00:03:17I feel like I'm a child and I'm not I'm a grown lady
00:03:22Sri so what I need is two pans I need a big one for the noodles and then a smaller pan for the sauce
00:03:33okay I'll get you right now I'm just trying to be on my best behavior and just deal with it
00:03:38and so since it's the women's duty to cook I've offered to cook dinner for everyone tonight this
00:03:48would be good for the sauce would this be sufficient for the spaghettis nice and big for the spaghetti
00:03:54wow I hope you like it the only thing I know how to cook is spaghetti
00:04:13I hope this is going to be enough for everybody
00:04:18whoa it's like magic huh yes putting sauce and like noodles together it's not called
00:04:29okay but in America my spaghetti is a hit okay ask my daughters they'll tell you
00:04:37I'm gonna have to keep stirring it so they don't stick together it's a crowd pleaser I think
00:04:47everybody will like it so I mean Smith loves it right yeah not very much but yeah hi guys dinner is
00:05:00ready come yeah dinner is ready three and glue will share because we don't have enough bowls parmesan cheese so you just sprinkle however much you want on there
00:05:15is it goat cheese no no it's parmesan cheese go ahead and try it take a big bite
00:05:23hmm I think the parmesan makes it so good speculative is nice it tried really well but that was a little bit
00:05:40and as per the Indian taste palette we want some salt yeah you like it is it good
00:05:52what did you think of my spaghetti
00:05:57okay I'm not cooking spaghetti for you no more
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00:06:35I'm not a cook so
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00:06:39she's saying you have to cook daily you have to eat daily so
00:06:46Smith knows how to cook
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00:06:49me too I'm cafe with Smith
00:07:01not only we are moving in with the family we also decided to open a cafe together
00:07:07when I lost my job and I was unable to find a new job my mother suggested that our family come together and open a cafe
00:07:19everyone in my family loves to cook and food plays a big part in Indian culture now we're gonna own our own business and entire family going to be all together
00:07:29it's gonna be alive I'm concerned will hit the fan if I'm there working and helping out most of the day if I come home I'm gonna need to get some rest I can't come home and start cooking
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00:08:15She's expecting some house health, that's it.
00:08:20I don't mind cleaning. I actually enjoy cleaning.
00:08:24She is saying that she's not just doing food.
00:08:29That's what she's saying, that she will be helping in cleaning.
00:08:33I can clean?
00:08:36Yes, absolutely.
00:08:39It's only the first night in the house. I cooked dinner.
00:08:43Nobody ate it. Mom's already telling me what to do.
00:08:47And on top of all of that, we're going to be working together.
00:08:52This is only day one.
00:08:54If this is how things are starting out,
00:08:57I don't know what the future's going to hold.
00:09:13Who got the most?
00:09:25Who got the most?
00:09:26Who got the most?
00:09:27Who got the most?
00:09:28Put them right on top.
00:09:30My life is also what I live by.
00:09:32Happiness, having fun, enjoying it.
00:09:34That's what I believe life is about.
00:09:36Who got the most?
00:09:38Who got the most?
00:09:39Who got the most?
00:09:40Who got the most?
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00:09:44That's me, lady.
00:09:45Put them right on time.
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00:09:48Who got the most?
00:09:49Who got the most?
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00:09:51Who got the most?
00:09:52Who got the most?
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00:09:54Put them right on time.
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00:09:56my name is Jonathan they like to call me Johnny I'm from the beautiful island of Aruba and I'm 32
00:10:04years old as you guys can see we are on a pirate ship I work on the Jolly Pirates I'm a first mate
00:10:18and also the MC so I'm always the host in the boat I like to do the acrobats the flips and
00:10:25things like that on the boat and I have to make sure the boat stocked up with a lot of alcohol
00:10:38it's a big booze cruise where people just come party drink and dance it's a lot of fun to work
00:10:45on the boat can't complain the job also has a lot of temptation in it women when they come on vacation
00:10:54they think party party party and they think oh wow I'm gonna go with a local guy you know
00:10:58I guess very overwhelming sometimes especially now that I have a girlfriend you know I'm with Chloe it
00:11:15makes it very very difficult I met Chloe on the Jolly Pirates one thing that I really really like
00:11:27about Chloe is that she's very athletic and outgoing and she has like no fear she's a very attractive
00:11:33woman you know blue eyes blonde hair five foot great body you know of course anybody would go crazy for
00:11:39that you know the first time I met Chloe I thought like hey it's not gonna be anything serious you
00:11:49know this is just another girl that's just coming to Ruba having a good time but at the end of the trip
00:11:54she was like yeah I would like to see you again and I started laughing at her and said yeah sure or
00:11:59whatever and then it was like a week later she actually came back like a magician boom Houdini I
00:12:04really didn't expect her to come back so it was a exciting moment I was very happy to see her I get
00:12:11to spend more time with her and I got to really know her I really like Chloe's presence I like being
00:12:18around her she's confident and knows what she wants and you know things got serious little by
00:12:24little it got more and more serious I fell in love with Chloe but me and Chloe we agreed that me being in
00:12:33Aruba her in Boston it just it wouldn't work for us it's like I know for a fact we would not work
00:12:37long distance and we both agreed on that thank you guys so much God bless I love Aruba a lot man and
00:12:46you know I really can't leave it Aruba forever stay my home so we made the decision she'll come to
00:12:56Aruba move in with me and she arrived in a couple of days those women were like all over me man they
00:13:02wanted my social yeah when you work on a ball you have the reputation of like a player and you know but
00:13:10I'm not chasing them they're chasing me I can't really be mean I can't really like shut down a
00:13:15person you know be like hey nah I got a girlfriend you know you know I work for the tips but that really
00:13:21makes Chloe jealous you know like she's been blowing up my phone
00:13:26holy
00:13:27so many calls also like
00:13:30oh man she keeps calling acting like I can answer when I'm working you know
00:13:33yeah yeah man I'm really trying to work with that man
00:13:36Chloe is such a sweet and beautiful girl but man I wish she wasn't so jealous man
00:13:43I know you
00:13:44it sucks because you know it's so it's always an issue man I'm trying my best to gain that trust but
00:13:51she makes it impossible I gave her access to everything my cameras I gave her my location I
00:13:59try to answer the phone even in the middle of night I'll try my best answer the phone it's always it's
00:14:04always something man it's so annoying I got that yeah I wake up early in the morning sometimes and I
00:14:09I went to go sit outside in my patio and the camera doesn't show where I'm sitting and so she
00:14:15got mad at me because she thought from one camera she saw me leave but from the other camera she didn't
00:14:20saw me come in so she thought that I went out for like two hours this happened like a week ago and
00:14:25I'm still no way like I didn't go out my car is still there I'm not manipulating the cameras I'm
00:14:32not smart enough to do that I don't have you know what I mean I know I did some mistakes in
00:14:41the past in the beginning I wasn't that exclusive being a being a guy did some really dumb things you
00:14:48know but Chloe also did a lot of things that make it hard for me to trust her one day when she was
00:14:56sleeping I decided to grab her phone open it up and then I saw her having conversations with this guy
00:15:01like sexual and all that kind of conversation so you're not I'm not the only one and when I
00:15:08confronted Chloe about the situation Chloe's face was like you know I I didn't do anything you know
00:15:14like Chloe didn't want to admit it and you know it was hard because of course she was lying to me
00:15:19eventually we we came in agreement and said like hey you know we'll be exclusive to each other from now
00:15:26I want but we don't trust each other at all I love Chloe and when we're together there's nothing
00:15:36that can stop us I really want to start a life with her I really want to settle and I really do
00:15:41believe that I want a family unit with her I just want to see if she's mature enough and ready for that
00:15:47you know I'm 32 years old already I'm ready to settle down to get easy I partied more than enough
00:15:55I've went out with plenty of women you know but I'm very worried Chloe's not ready to leave the party
00:16:02lifestyle oh he's only 23 and so maybe she just wants to be the ruba because it's paradise and all
00:16:09her friends come and you can drink all the time and me being used to seeing what American women do when
00:16:14they come and vacation mode and drink and party really makes it hard for me to trust her and
00:16:18believe what she's saying is actually true she's such a nice girl man like when I'm with her man
00:16:25she's so funny I like talking like no problems at all I just we understand each other so well
00:16:32that's the kind of partner that you want for the rest of your life that started like the good things
00:16:38but it comes with all the jealous things and all that and hopefully like I really really really
00:16:43hope that she's gonna change I'm ready to get married and I love Chloe so much but I only know
00:16:51Chloe for a year now I don't want to waste time on a girl that's all vacation mode I need somebody
00:16:56that's ready for stability I don't know if she's ready for that but I'm hoping she could show me that
00:17:03she is because I would truly go on one knee and ask her to marry me I love your brother I've done
00:17:13everything for him Sarah when you tell me these things enough who are you to know better than us
00:17:20it's not your relationship
00:17:22it's not what happened to happen today
00:17:26he was speaking with a other Colombian girl
00:17:34you're like what the is coming in your head
00:17:38okay get out of my house okay daddy I'm done I'm done Sarah let it go
00:17:50I love your brother I've done everything for him Sarah do you think I really want that
00:17:56I guess that Manon but this is where my concern is when you tell me these things because it was a
00:18:02very tough time and I said I want to improve I said I want to improve I said I don't want that
00:18:08enough as your father as your father-in-law let's just stop time out okay at the end of the day
00:18:15we're moving to France yes you are so I also would like him to spend time with his aunt
00:18:21so let's get past this
00:18:23tensions are high Ben's getting really fussy needs some food needs to wind down and go to bed
00:18:42I really appreciate you guys coming I want to spend more time with you guys because we are leaving
00:18:47but we just have to sit on it and and reflect that's all all right okay
00:18:53go inside
00:18:55my relationship with Manon felt completely fine up until this moment
00:19:00it feels very out of left field about them moving all the way to France forever and it is happening
00:19:07so fast so it's just like a really little amount of time to acclimate to that news
00:19:12felt like tensions got really high really quickly and I recognize that when I have a finger pointed
00:19:18at me I'm very quick to point a finger back but yeah I don't I don't necessarily think I deserve that
00:19:24because that's not how I wanted it to happen though that's not cool what she said I'm sorry but I had to I had to tell her let's go I had to
00:19:40I'm sorry I think everybody's on your side that that was unwarranted and you guys are both like fiery personalities too so it's like fire on fire there
00:19:50I am very much surprised to hear that she had confided in my sister
00:19:55she is my twin it may have made my sister feel uncomfortable like hey I want to divorce your brother
00:20:02I don't think we're compatible I would be uncomfortable
00:20:04but also I feel Manon was justified in kicking Sarah out of the house
00:20:10because I feel like both sides weren't really listening to anyone else around
00:20:14and it was just getting louder and louder and we really needed to just reset
00:20:17take a step back and give it some time and some space
00:20:20sorry it ended that way but
00:20:25yeah
00:20:25well I'm sorry too but it just really it was hurtful to hear what she just said like that like in front of everyone
00:20:32I can understand
00:20:32I kind of felt a little bit of a knife in my heart
00:20:35not gonna lie
00:20:36that's why I said go now because I'm like I don't have to deal with this
00:20:38yes I was to the point where I'm like Antonia and I maybe we are not made for each other
00:20:42because I'm going crazy with everything
00:20:45but I know that it's not true because I love him and everything
00:20:48it's the situation that creates me all of those feelings
00:20:51I understand where you're coming from but we're gonna let everything settle
00:20:54yeah
00:20:55we're gonna say our goodbyes
00:20:56yeah
00:20:56but thank you for coming for everything
00:20:58I'm gonna miss you guys
00:20:59but we're gonna talk soon
00:21:00yeah
00:21:01obviously
00:21:01yeah
00:21:01I just vented to my sister-in-law for a reason she's family right that's how I operate
00:21:09with family and when at the table in front of everyone she tried to use it against us like
00:21:15really hurt me on the moment because I'm like I confided in you first and second of all like
00:21:22who are you to say that and to know better than us it's not your relationship it's mine and your
00:21:28brothers setting the house and moving to friends I know it is a drastic measure she is right but
00:21:34drastic problem requires drastic measures we have a child now we are a family we love each other and
00:21:42we want to protect our family this move is very much to essentially save our marriage
00:21:49we stay up all day
00:22:06look finally move here in one week and we're gonna to get married in two weeks later
00:22:29so before he get here i want to look in some potential apartments in medellin so i bring my friends
00:22:43kate to help me to check one
00:22:46well muchachas este es el apartamento
00:22:49y a mi me encanta
00:22:51como las paredes
00:22:53me encanta la verdad
00:22:55me encanta esa reacción
00:22:56bastante espacio para que ustedes puedan bailar
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00:23:47I'm going to have to make a lot of money from that.
00:24:17I've been working in my salon, Mother Beauty, for one year and a half.
00:24:31And even if Luke held me Fandel, the whole salon is my idea.
00:24:38Oh my gosh. Yo, this is legit, baby. Good stuff.
00:24:46Now it's the only investment Luke has making money.
00:24:52I think that means a lot about my business stills.
00:24:57As much as I love Luke, I don't go not to live.
00:25:01Then bad investments turn me down.
00:25:04Sola también puede aunque decidas.
00:25:06Si él sigue cometiendo bastantes errores, yo no me puedo hundir con él.
00:25:10Mi amor, si sabe que yo viví en la calle, si sabe que yo vengo desde nada.
00:25:13No lo necesito.
00:25:16I've been through a lot to get where I am today.
00:25:21Growing up was a hard time for me because my mom was a single mom.
00:25:28She had me very, very young, 16 years old, so she was working all the time.
00:25:35I know my mom tried to do a hair best, but I feel like I have to rest in myself.
00:25:42So when I was 12 years old, I started to running away from home.
00:25:48One day I was sleeping in my grandma's house, one day I was sleeping in the street.
00:25:53Eventually I get a job in the travel industry like a party promoter, and I start to make a lot of money.
00:26:01And now my beauty salon is taken off, and I feel like a survivor.
00:26:06I am a survivor.
00:26:07I am a survivor.
00:26:08I am a survivor.
00:26:09I am a survivor.
00:26:10I am a survivor.
00:26:11I am a survivor.
00:26:12I am a survivor.
00:26:13When I don't, I am a survivor.
00:26:14I am a survivor.
00:26:15niaease s define their friend.
00:26:17Again, I am.
00:26:18You go with sugar.
00:26:19I am going with sugar.
00:26:20Have your thoughts.
00:26:21I am embargorging.
00:26:22I am a survivor.
00:26:23I am a survivor, that's Dr. Lyop has been healing for bumps in my mind.
00:26:25I thank you for
00:26:41inteligencia con él no amiga es que la verdad por eso es que es mejor estar soltera y aparte
00:26:48dar ese paso tan grande de casar y como manas y jamás dejo de ser pero que es lo más importante
00:26:56amiga pues que te digo y eso que no contaba lo que pasó a few months ago i found a private messenger
00:27:04es social media he was speaking with other colombian here and told her to save him in her contact like
00:27:14he was her husband like oh saving me like you esposito he say he only did it because i don't
00:27:22giving him sufficient attention so he cheered off me and it's my fault what the how you plan to get
00:27:31marty and go to tell all the beats you are him husband like what is coming in your head
00:27:40han dicho te vas a cansar porque perro
00:27:47yo estoy enamorada yo lo amo él es mi primer amor
00:27:53es algo que yo siento acá yo siento las mariposas en el estómago a mí nada me hace feliz más que
00:27:59estoy enamorada sí creo que él ha sido un buen hombre independientemente de sus errores
00:28:05no sé ni qué decirle más porque yo le digo le digo le digo y usted sí me cago me cago me cago
00:28:09descase y ya
00:28:11i decided to forgive him because i waiting for him off here for so long i know when he get here the
00:28:23things gonna to get very i just hope he don't prove me i am wrong
00:28:30you so many can you say mommy my name is greta
00:28:42some people might think it's odd to have this sort of connection with the cat
00:28:46but i think normal people are weird
00:28:52it's gonna be our cafe baby the cafe has to be successful because if we're not
00:28:58we'll be living with the parents forever um it's like a hallway
00:29:04you ready baby oh that's pretty everybody's head turn when you're walking
00:29:20bring your head up a little bit yes there you go hazel hazel hazel is my cat
00:29:25she's 11 years old and she is my baby just give it give it give it to me
00:29:30hold on bring your booty down
00:29:35you're beautiful hazel understands me more than anyone else let's go
00:29:42she is the cat version of me in so many ways she gets so upset whenever she's hungry
00:29:47you can woke me up for breakfast and i'm i'm very similar in that way hazel are you ready to fly
00:29:57we're both airy so we're passionate independent but also pretty chaotic and emotional
00:30:06hazel we both have quirky personalities actually it might just be me hazel might be cool
00:30:13so we're gonna read okay some people might think it's odd to have this sort of connection with the
00:30:21cat but i think normal people are weird she's so tired yeah she is which is good because she doesn't
00:30:37have the energy to like run away my name is greta i'm from norman oklahoma and i'm 27 years old
00:30:52i'm pretty like non-conformist and kind of living life my own way i graduated from law
00:30:58school a little over three months ago i just passed the bar exam
00:31:02i did really good and it is my dream to work in animal law can you face squatted like that yes
00:31:12that's pretty ever since i was a kid i've always felt really connected to animals hi nice to meet
00:31:22you i've been vegan for seven years and i think that animals are way more kind and accepting than
00:31:30human beings i always felt like animals get me and humans don't until i met matthew
00:31:50it looks like we only have one third of the lifeboats i would have been signed off on that
00:32:03i'm matthew 26 from market harborough england i'm definitely a bit of a nerd if most people envision
00:32:11what a nerd is i'm yeah i fit squarely in that definition just something i have a knack for just
00:32:18the intricacy of building little things i'm normally attracted to eccentric women so my relationships
00:32:27are often like a spicy pasta i'm the stable nice tomato sauce that acts as the base and then the chili
00:32:36thrown straight in whole that's my favorite kind of pasta
00:32:42i met matthew on a vegan dating app it's basically vegan tinder
00:32:51the first thing i noticed was that he worked in finance and that was really attractive because
00:32:57most of the other guys on this app were like either hippies or like unemployed
00:33:02i like you i think you like me too i like you i think you like me too
00:33:09i was taking a class at oxford over the summer and i only had two weeks left so i super liked matthew
00:33:16and i asked him out i was like whoa she's bald i was very nervous about meeting her for the first time
00:33:24so i made index cards of questions definitely over prepared with the index card i felt a huge spark
00:33:34with matthew he was listening to everything i was saying and was very open-minded and we have very
00:33:40similar outlooks on life that following weekend we went to a palace and stayed at a really old hotel
00:33:47and argued about economics in the hotel and that's why i knew he was the one
00:33:54when i got back to the u.s we talked every day
00:34:05romantic relationships have been hard because i find it difficult to connect really intensely with
00:34:12people but matthew changed all of that after a year and a half of back and forth on one of my trips
00:34:19over he proposed are you serious
00:34:25matthew and i decided that i should move to the uk he has a good job in england and he is really
00:34:41close with his family we're gonna have to live with matthew's parents until we find a place of our own
00:34:47but i love matthew and i really like england so i'm moving there in two weeks just kind of nestle into
00:34:54her i don't know how you're gonna leave that sweet girl i know i don't know either i just wanted some
00:35:02last photos of me and her together oh i did not think i would be leaving hazel behind she's like you're
00:35:10the best mama but matthew's parents have a cat and a dog and they live in a very small english home
00:35:18and hazel gets very anxious and agitated around other animals so until we get our own place i can't
00:35:25bring my baby with me you're going to miss you anytime i have some really close animal loving
00:35:32friends that are going to take her in and i'm really hoping matthew and i can get our own place soon
00:35:38but every time i think about it i start to cry i can't even imagine how i'm gonna feel the day i
00:35:47have to say goodbye to her i'm excited for you but sad you know i'm giving up a lot to move to the uk
00:35:58i won't be seeing my friends or my family i won't be able to practice law in england until i get
00:36:05properly licensed there and worst of all i am rehoming hazel
00:36:14but matthew understands my soul i've never had this type of connection with a human before
00:36:22so despite all the sacrifices i'd always regret it if i didn't give my relationship with matthew a chance
00:36:35my soul i have to take care of my family
00:36:40so
00:36:42i don't want to take care of my family
00:36:44so
00:36:46so
00:36:48so
00:36:50I don't want to wear it today, but I don't want to wear it for the rest of the people.
00:37:01I'll cut it.
00:37:05Baby, see my beard looking good?
00:37:08Yeah, it looks good.
00:37:10There's not much light in there.
00:37:12What are you doing?
00:37:14My mom and everybody is out and working.
00:37:18This is your first day you want to, like, have trouble?
00:37:23No, I don't want to have trouble.
00:37:26I'm an adult. I like to lay in bed. I like to relax in the morning. I like to sleep in.
00:37:33Should I go out there first or change my clothes first?
00:37:36No, like change.
00:37:37I don't want to have to get up in the morning and fall in line with everybody else.
00:37:41This is part of the reason I didn't want to live here.
00:37:45Chopping good with me?
00:37:47Chopping bad.
00:37:49Good morning.
00:37:51Good morning.
00:37:52Good morning.
00:37:54Good morning. How are you?
00:38:07No chai? Coffee?
00:38:09No, meat, tea.
00:38:11You make tea for her, that's what she's saying.
00:38:14Oh, okay.
00:38:28Early morning.
00:38:30Oh, my God.
00:38:33Good morning.
00:38:34Good morning.
00:38:36What do you care?
00:38:37Jenny and I are planning to go to see the cafe.
00:38:40We have a lot of things there.
00:38:42We have a lot of things to do before.
00:38:43How is it going? How is it going? How is it going?
00:38:45Once you're done with your work, if you want, you can join us over there.
00:38:48Okay.
00:38:49My family put me in charge for finding a space for the cafe.
00:38:54I found a spot where we can easily get walk-in customers.
00:38:59And there's a lot of universities there, so we're going to cater to the students.
00:39:05I'm excited to see the cafe.
00:39:08It's going to be our cafe, baby.
00:39:11I get to get out of the house and go eat somewhere else.
00:39:17I want to start it as quickly as possible because we need to start a source of income,
00:39:23so we won't be worried about money.
00:39:27Yeah.
00:39:29The cafe has to be successful because if we're not, we'll be living with the parents forever.
00:39:35I'm doing my best, but I feel like too old for this.
00:39:40I want us to get back in our own place.
00:39:44I'm excited to see what they've done with it.
00:39:46We've been so busy moving and everything.
00:39:48We haven't seen it since it was nothing.
00:39:51Here we are.
00:39:52Oh, here we are.
00:39:56Our cafe share the space with five other cafes.
00:40:01It's a kind of like a food court in the mall.
00:40:04It have different shops serving different kind of foods.
00:40:07And there's this section like where the tables and like chairs are.
00:40:12No shop was empty over there.
00:40:14But then the owner told me that he have a space where we can build our own cafe.
00:40:20The construction already been started.
00:40:22I already spent $1,000 for the framework and for the fourth month rent.
00:40:28And there's no turning back from here now.
00:40:35All right.
00:40:40Um.
00:40:42What?
00:40:43Wow.
00:40:50So they've been working on it.
00:40:57We have lights.
00:40:59What do you think?
00:41:01Plugs.
00:41:02Like I need more.
00:41:04You need more.
00:41:05Maybe one more.
00:41:06But I think I want cooking to be on that side more.
00:41:10Here we have like a chopping and preparation can be happen here.
00:41:15How many of us you think can fit in here at one time while we're working?
00:41:22Because right now there's no equipment in here.
00:41:27When I first saw the place, it was just empty, nothing.
00:41:31But now that the walls are up, I can't imagine there being a full kitchen in here, plus six people.
00:41:38Does this window open?
00:41:43Hello, may I help you?
00:41:47It's like a hallway.
00:41:49Yeah, but you have to build a cafe, the place, even if you build any shop, it will come empty.
00:41:55It's just like a square box.
00:41:57But ours isn't a square box, it's a hallway.
00:41:59How much equipment do you think we're going to be able to fit in here?
00:42:05Are we going to be able to fit a deep freezer?
00:42:08We need a coffee machine.
00:42:10And we need an oven.
00:42:12I don't think we need it right now.
00:42:14Where are you making the sandwiches at?
00:42:16In a griller, like a...
00:42:19What if they want something toasted?
00:42:20You have to put it in the oven.
00:42:22We're going to start with whatever we have to keep it as low-budget as possible.
00:42:29I don't know, we need to bring this equipment in here.
00:42:33So let's do some measurements.
00:42:35This is the first time we are seeing this cafe after it get built.
00:42:40Earlier, the space was open, so it was looking big.
00:42:44Now it looks like it's going to be a challenge for us to work all together.
00:42:49Arm back over this way.
00:42:51Yeah, about two arms.
00:42:54So you could go like this.
00:42:56Actually, it's a little less.
00:42:59One and a half.
00:43:01Yeah, I need the less space to walk.
00:43:03Yeah, exactly. That's what I'm saying.
00:43:05Yeah.
00:43:07It's very small.
00:43:09And now my family is coming to check it out.
00:43:12I am nervous that I don't want them to be disappointed.
00:43:16My dad is retired and willing to work a full day job.
00:43:21And my brother quitting his job because he thinks this cafe is going to be a successful business.
00:43:26And a cafe will be the main source of income for the entire family.
00:43:29So the pressure is very high.
00:43:32Worst part is we don't have any water inlet or water outlet over here.
00:43:38So we need to stock up water.
00:43:41And we cannot wash our dishes right here.
00:43:44So it's going to be hard.
00:43:46It's going to be hard.
00:43:52I want to cry.
00:43:54But I also want to throw up.
00:43:56I said I will always stay here.
00:43:57And I find myself a man who's bringing me back there.
00:44:00Wow.
00:44:01I'm moving to France today and I'm kind of freaking out.
00:44:04The only thing I want to do right now is cry.
00:44:06I just cannot believe it.
00:44:07One day left before the house is completely empty and we moved to Anthony's house.
00:44:23For a few weeks and then to France.
00:44:25Now baby Ben is falling asleep with me and he stays more with me.
00:44:31Take away all of my furniture.
00:44:34If it will be spending more time with my baby boy.
00:44:37We.
00:44:39We.
00:44:41We.
00:44:42We're going to France.
00:44:43Yeah.
00:44:44Yeah.
00:44:57I even forgot to like take off my rollers.
00:45:02I'm feeling a lot of very weird emotions that I should not feel at the same time.
00:45:09I want to cry but I also want to throw up.
00:45:12I want to do both at the same time.
00:45:13I'm just like there's a lot right now.
00:45:16And I just cannot believe it.
00:45:18I just can't.
00:45:19Yeah.
00:45:20Well.
00:45:21Big decision.
00:45:22Big move.
00:45:24Yeah.
00:45:25Yeah.
00:45:27We are moving to France today and I'm kind of freaking out.
00:45:30And actually the only thing I want to do right now is cry.
00:45:34Look at everything around me and be like yeah that's it and I'm leaving.
00:45:38You know it's this is not going to be my home anymore.
00:45:40It has been a whirlwind these past few days and we've been staying at my aunt's house and just tying up our loose ends before the big move.
00:45:51Yesterday my family came over.
00:45:53My sister apologized and thankfully we're leaving on a good note.
00:45:59Like look at me.
00:46:00I moved here like 10 years ago.
00:46:03I was by myself not speaking English.
00:46:05I said I will always stay here and I find myself a man who's bringing me back there.
00:46:09Wow.
00:46:10What have I done?
00:46:11We made that decision together.
00:46:12I know.
00:46:13I'm not bringing you back there.
00:46:14I'm not.
00:46:15I'm the sugar mama here.
00:46:16I'm the one who like makes it happen.
00:46:19Oh yes.
00:46:20Oh we are.
00:46:21I get it.
00:46:22Can you come here for a sec?
00:46:23Yes.
00:46:24I want to talk to you.
00:46:25What's up?
00:46:26Put your butt here.
00:46:27I just wanted to say something.
00:46:32Mm-hmm.
00:46:33I'm happy that we are doing this together.
00:46:36I know it's going to be something hard you know.
00:46:39But I did not resent you for being so attached to Ben and Ben being so attached to you.
00:46:45I do not.
00:46:46I love it.
00:46:47When I look at you with Ben in the back of my mind I always end up saying like what a lucky woman I am.
00:46:53I just I haven't been feeling myself.
00:46:58You know.
00:46:59I'm excited.
00:47:00But it's hard for me to let go of this.
00:47:02You know that.
00:47:03I had to process it.
00:47:04I know.
00:47:05I've been here nine years ago thinking I'll be here forever.
00:47:08I'm going to fight as much as I can to stay.
00:47:10You know what happened.
00:47:11You know what I had to be like to go through to be where I am today.
00:47:16But I have to change my mindset and like realize that I'm not a failure by going there.
00:47:24I'm actually.
00:47:25I made it.
00:47:26I have my American dream.
00:47:28It's actually you meeting you and having Ben.
00:47:31You know.
00:47:32You know.
00:47:33I'm bringing my American dream with me into my hour in France.
00:47:37It does mean a lot to me that you are actually like wanting to go to France because I've been
00:47:42feeling that Ben me pushing you to do that.
00:47:46I'm glad you're a lot more excited.
00:47:48I know I'm all about career money money success because it's part of who I am and he knows
00:47:57that since day one.
00:47:58But truly the most important for us.
00:48:02It's just us as a family unit.
00:48:04We have the love.
00:48:06We have the family.
00:48:07It's the situation that made us be this way.
00:48:09So we have to change that.
00:48:11That's why we're going to make this work because there's no other alternative for me.
00:48:15I love you.
00:48:16I love you.
00:48:17I love you.
00:48:18And I miss you.
00:48:19Because I cannot just stay without your bing ding dong and but like naked on me.
00:48:23You know.
00:48:24Like I just can't.
00:48:25It's been too long.
00:48:26It's been too long.
00:48:28Oui, oui, oui.
00:48:30Arrete.
00:48:31Arrete!
00:48:32I love you.
00:48:33We're going to make it work.
00:48:34Mm-hmm.
00:48:35Mm-hmm.
00:48:36Mm-hmm.
00:48:37Mm-hmm.
00:48:38Oh jeez Louise.
00:48:41I'm leaving all my friends.
00:48:43I'm leaving my family.
00:48:44I love you.
00:48:45Love you.
00:48:46I love you.
00:48:47Even though I'm reassuring my mom that I know what I'm doing, the truth is, I do not.
00:48:53What do you think?
00:48:55Like...
00:48:56I'm leaving my job to just start up a cafe and they haven't done anything.
00:49:01Not working here is not possible at all.
00:49:04I need you when I wake up in the morning.
00:49:14I need you when I fall asleep.
00:49:19I need to know you'll hear me when I'm calling in.
00:49:22Chloe.
00:49:23Yeah?
00:49:24Your coffee's ready, honey.
00:49:25You're gonna miss Teddy.
00:49:26I'm gonna cry.
00:49:27I love Teddy so much.
00:49:28He's so old.
00:49:29I'm older than Teddy.
00:49:30No you're not.
00:49:31I'm older than Teddy.
00:49:32No you're not.
00:49:33I'm so much older than Teddy.
00:49:34He's only 14.
00:49:35No.
00:49:36No, one year in dollars is seven years.
00:49:37So seven times 14 is whatever that is.
00:50:02I'm moving to Aruba today.
00:50:03That's insane.
00:50:04I'm going to go get my bags.
00:50:06Would you like to help me carry them downstairs?
00:50:09Not really.
00:50:10I don't think it's set in.
00:50:12I feel like right now all I'm seeing is, like, the reward side of it.
00:50:17Like, of course, I'm so excited because I want to go see Jonathan and I want to live with him.
00:50:21But I'm also terrified.
00:50:24I'm going to miss you.
00:50:28I'm going to see you next week.
00:50:31I know, but still.
00:50:34My mom's already planning to come visit me next week in Aruba to kind of make sure everything is in order.
00:50:43I understand my mom's motherly concerns, and I'm doing my best trying to reassure her that I know what I'm doing.
00:50:50But my mom doesn't know about a lot of the issues that Jonathan and I have had in our relationship that Jonathan has cheated on me.
00:50:57Oh, jeez, Louise.
00:50:58I don't want her now, and I don't know what it would look like if I told her.
00:51:06And that's mainly because I don't want my mom to view Jonathan differently, and I don't want my mom to judge our relationship.
00:51:17I don't want my mom to judge her.
00:51:20I'm not.
00:51:22Love you.
00:51:23Love you.
00:51:23Love you, mom.
00:51:24You smell nice.
00:51:25Good to you.
00:51:27Thanks, I showered.
00:51:30I miss you, too.
00:51:31Don't go.
00:51:33Goodbye.
00:51:35You're still okay, honey?
00:51:36Bye.
00:51:37I love you.
00:51:38Bye, Ted.
00:51:40He just doesn't care.
00:51:42Teddy, I love you.
00:51:45I'm definitely uneasy about everything that I'm leaving behind.
00:51:49Financial security, I'm leaving all my friends, I'm leaving my family.
00:51:55Even though I'm reassuring my mom that I know what I'm doing, the truth is, I do not.
00:52:03I'm a little sad.
00:52:04I'm not going to miss the snow.
00:52:07At all.
00:52:08I've obviously been there before, so it feels like normal, but I think once I get there, it'll set in that it's like, wow, I really just picked up my entire life and just moved to another country.
00:52:26It's definitely a scary feeling moving my entire life to Aruba.
00:52:30My friends think I'm making a mistake.
00:52:33My family is not happy about the distance I'm putting between us.
00:52:38So quite literally no one is on board with this move, but I'm in love with Jonathan, so I am going to go and see it through and figure it out.
00:52:48What scares me the most is I really am just such a structured person.
00:53:01So, you know, not having, you know, like, structured hours for work, not having, you know, a morning routine, not going into this without a job.
00:53:09Like, I don't do well, you know, kind of winging things, and that's exactly what I'm doing.
00:53:14So, I'm kind of petrified, but we're going to figure it out.
00:53:20Growing up, cheerleading, I was always the girl that they wanted to just throw up in the air.
00:53:24So I just had to not be afraid of anything.
00:53:27There you go.
00:53:28I think I'm still that girl who wants to take this huge leap of faith.
00:53:33I just hope that I don't end up falling flat on my face.
00:53:36Tell me that you feel this way.
00:53:41I want you to feel the same.
00:53:44This is to a guy.
00:53:46Can you see the light?
00:53:48This is to a guy who wants to take this huge leap of faith.
00:54:18Your favorite.
00:54:20Where'd you get this from?
00:54:21This is from our competition, next to a cafe.
00:54:24We have to try and find out if we can match the taste or make it better.
00:54:28Okay.
00:54:29This is chicken.
00:54:30You can try this.
00:54:35Mmm.
00:54:37We cannot afford to hire chefs and other help.
00:54:42So, the entire family, we're going to work together in a cafe.
00:54:45And that's why we named it a family cafe.
00:54:49We are trying to make a proper cafe where people can come and have coffee and chai.
00:54:55Finger food.
00:54:56Sandwiches, burger, fries and all.
00:54:58Which students love to eat and affordable too.
00:55:02We're going to have a big coffee machine.
00:55:05It's going to be the star of the show.
00:55:07No one else has one here.
00:55:09It's just like the ones that they have in the U.S.
00:55:11You know, it makes all the different cappuccinos and everything.
00:55:15And it's going to be right up front.
00:55:18It'll be the first thing that the students see when they walk up to the cafe.
00:55:23These are good.
00:55:24And two.
00:55:26What are you doing here?
00:55:29You want some?
00:55:30My family, they haven't seen the pictures.
00:55:34They haven't seen how it looks.
00:55:36Hi.
00:55:37Hi.
00:55:38So, they trusted me fully in order to choose best spot for our cafe.
00:55:43So, this is our cafe.
00:55:48Okay.
00:55:49Let me show you around.
00:55:53So, first of all, this is the space.
00:55:55This is our cooking-based kitchen.
00:56:02There's one window on this side and there is another window on that side.
00:56:08Okay.
00:56:12So, what do you think?
00:56:22Working here is not possible at all.
00:56:25Like, in this clumsy area.
00:56:39It's small.
00:56:44It should be more open space.
00:56:48A chef also needs a space to move around.
00:56:51But you have seen this space already.
00:56:53Yeah, but it would look different empty without all this.
00:56:59The moment is very difficult.
00:57:00You are not even ready for this.
00:57:15We don't have even the basic things required for this cafe.
00:57:18It looks like that whatever I did is going wrong.
00:57:26Like, we spend money to get this pill.
00:57:29Don't be stressed out, okay?
00:57:31You did your best.
00:57:31Maybe a lot of money has been gone.
00:57:33I know.
00:57:34Like, a part of it.
00:57:34We didn't have.
00:57:35I understand.
00:57:36I'm there with you with the money situation.
00:57:39I'm leaving my job to just start up a cafe and then I saw the space.
00:57:45I don't know why he's short of money.
00:57:46I don't know why he's short of money.
00:57:47I don't know why he's short of money.
00:57:48They haven't done anything.
00:57:51He didn't discuss.
00:57:52You have to compete amongst all the running cafes.
00:57:55So, you have to be more prepared.
00:57:57Not like this.
00:57:58This is new for us, too.
00:58:01Like, we are not professional cafe people.
00:58:04We are not professional work people.
00:58:06Whatever we find, like, this is what we got.
00:58:09I don't know what we're going to do over here.
00:58:14I'm feeling like my family is thinking I did a big mistake.
00:58:19For years, I've been the black sheep of the family and I want to make them proud.
00:58:24I want to show them that, look, I can do something and that I am worth it.
00:58:29Like, not just the black sheep in the hood.
00:58:32But it feels like that I disappointed them again.
00:58:36I feel like a total failure.
00:58:46Me and my friends like knitting and crocheting and I even take opera lessons.
00:58:52Thanks.
00:58:54That was beautiful.
00:59:02Knock, knock.
00:59:03Guys, what the f*** is this, man?
00:59:06You guys trying to get me in trouble or what?
00:59:08Madeleine said none of this.
00:59:10These mother f***.
00:59:12I'm leaving.
00:59:13I'm leaving.
00:59:13I'm leaving.
00:59:24I'm leaving.
00:59:24I'm leaving.
00:59:25I'm leaving.
00:59:25It's gonna take you to save me.
00:59:29Give it, give it a little bit of your attention.
00:59:31One more than a little bit of your affection.
00:59:33Come on, let me feel it.
00:59:34I wanna give you what you need.
00:59:36Ooh, this is a pretty one.
00:59:38Hi, guys!
00:59:41Hi!
00:59:42Hi, guys!
00:59:44I am moving to the UK in one week,
00:59:47and I cannot wait.
00:59:49I am so excited.
00:59:51We're making bracelets.
00:59:53So whenever you abandon us,
00:59:55you have something to remember us by.
00:59:56Oh, my God, I'm so sad.
01:00:00Me and some of my friends
01:00:02call ourselves the Wives Club
01:00:04because a few of us got engaged around the same time,
01:00:08but I think a more appropriate name for us
01:00:11is the Grandma Club.
01:00:13We like knitting and crocheting and drinking tea.
01:00:17I even take opera lessons.
01:00:20That was beautiful.
01:00:33Can you try this for me?
01:00:35Yeah, if my fingernails are too long.
01:00:37Pretty nails.
01:00:38How are you doing?
01:00:39I'm good.
01:00:40I am mostly excited,
01:00:42but just stressed about living with his parents.
01:00:46Yeah.
01:00:47They live in a really small cottage.
01:00:49How many bathrooms?
01:00:50Are you sharing bathrooms?
01:00:51There's one and a half bathrooms.
01:00:52Oh!
01:00:53Yeah, so we all share a shower.
01:00:55There's not even a bathtub.
01:00:57And then they, like, meet,
01:00:59and they're cooking, like, steaks,
01:01:00and then it's just, like, awkward.
01:01:02And I feel like, in general,
01:01:03I'm not really good at living with families.
01:01:05I've had a very hostile home when I was a kid,
01:01:09and so, like, I get, like, really nervous.
01:01:14Around five years old, my mom passed away,
01:01:18and...
01:01:23Eventually, my dad got remarried.
01:01:28The families did not mesh well.
01:01:29There were a lot of conflict.
01:01:32I felt like my stepmom didn't really want me to exist.
01:01:36So I learned to just make myself as small as possible,
01:01:39to not draw attention to myself.
01:01:41I don't know how to interact in a family setting well.
01:01:45I get really in my head.
01:01:47I don't know how to enter in a room and make small talk,
01:01:50and I feel like I really lack the...
01:01:53the skill set necessary to live with the family.
01:01:57How are you gonna spend your days?
01:02:00I mean, you just did all of this work
01:02:04and took a big old test.
01:02:06I can't practice law in the UK.
01:02:09I don't have a right to work.
01:02:11Would you have to do a whole different school?
01:02:13I could take their exam,
01:02:15like, but it's really expensive,
01:02:17and I have to buy a course.
01:02:19Like, so I am volunteering
01:02:21at an animal advocacy organization,
01:02:24so, yeah.
01:02:26Animals were there for me whenever no other human was.
01:02:32And now I want to be there for them.
01:02:34As a child, when my mom was in the hospital,
01:02:38in order to distract my sister and I from what was going on,
01:02:41we went to the pet store and adopted two gerbils,
01:02:45Ying and Fong.
01:02:47I was obsessed with them.
01:02:50Do-do-do!
01:02:51Get out, Ying!
01:02:53Jail!
01:02:54Animals will accept you for who you are,
01:02:57and these small creatures,
01:03:00most people would find really insignificant,
01:03:02brought me so much happiness.
01:03:07This is gonna be a huge, like, culture shock.
01:03:09It's gonna change a lot of things.
01:03:10Yeah.
01:03:11About your life.
01:03:12Yeah.
01:03:13I think that a lot of people do get in a situation
01:03:16that you're in,
01:03:17and they kind of panic about that,
01:03:19and you're a panicker.
01:03:20I am going in alone,
01:03:22and I've been thinking about that a lot,
01:03:23and how scary that is,
01:03:24especially if our relationship doesn't work out.
01:03:29Really?
01:03:30Yeah.
01:03:31Is that something that concerns you?
01:03:32We've only spent five weeks or so together at a time,
01:03:36and Matthew, he is all in,
01:03:41but maybe once we live together,
01:03:43he might not be.
01:03:44He'll be like,
01:03:45you?
01:03:46Yeah.
01:03:47You.
01:03:48He does not want this anymore,
01:03:49so we'll see.
01:03:53Granny just gets in her own head a lot.
01:03:56A lot of times it is self-doubt.
01:03:59She also does stuff like that with little things
01:04:01with Matthew,
01:04:02where she'll be like,
01:04:03guys, oh, my God,
01:04:04we were FaceTiming today.
01:04:05And his socks just looked so stupid,
01:04:08and we're like, what?
01:04:09I saw them in the background,
01:04:11and they looked like they were kind of,
01:04:12like, mismatching.
01:04:14I think I maintain a very fairytale image
01:04:19of love in my head,
01:04:21and I just, like, kind of imagine this, like,
01:04:23constant spark in being so obsessed with someone.
01:04:26Yeah.
01:04:27Every long-term relationship,
01:04:29you have that period where it's, like,
01:04:30it's called the honeymoon phase, right?
01:04:31Yeah, yeah.
01:04:32Because it's so exciting.
01:04:33They all have days where it's, like,
01:04:34he's, like, the greatest thing in the entire world.
01:04:36I'm so excited to wake up in the morning and be like,
01:04:38you're next to me!
01:04:39But then other days, I'm like,
01:04:41clean the shower out after you shower.
01:04:45I'm just wondering if I feel this way
01:04:47because I just feel really unstable in my life right now.
01:04:50I have a tendency to feel anxious and spiral about things,
01:04:55and we've never lived together before,
01:04:57so I hope that when we move in together,
01:05:02everything will fall into place
01:05:04because I love him,
01:05:06and I really want that happily ever after with Matthew.
01:05:09When you're living together,
01:05:10I feel like you'll realize things pretty quickly, honestly.
01:05:17I do have a plan B.
01:05:19There's a shop available.
01:05:20This place is out of sight.
01:05:23No one's gonna see us.
01:05:25Should we move here,
01:05:27whatever money's been spent over there...
01:05:29It's gonna be a loss.
01:05:30It'll be zero.
01:05:50So much money's already been spent.
01:05:52Yeah.
01:05:53I already gave the rent,
01:05:55I already paid the security and everything.
01:05:57What do you buy food out of here?
01:05:59Like...
01:06:00Well, I mean, a lot more needs to be done.
01:06:02The walls...
01:06:05So many things have to be done.
01:06:07I do have a plan B.
01:06:10What's that?
01:06:12I'll talk to the owner of this area.
01:06:14There's a shop available.
01:06:16It's a shop, proper shop.
01:06:18But the thing is,
01:06:19whatever money is being spent on this,
01:06:22the rent, this structure,
01:06:24everything will be zero.
01:06:26But if you want, I can try...
01:06:28I can show you that.
01:06:30Come.
01:06:31All right.
01:06:32A few days back,
01:06:33I got a call from the owner of that place.
01:06:36And he said there's this place,
01:06:38which is recently, like, getting empty.
01:06:41And you can take it.
01:06:42But I was thinking, like,
01:06:43oh, I already paid for this shop.
01:06:45I already paid for the construction.
01:06:47And I don't know if I'm able to afford to make another investment.
01:06:57This shop is a shop.
01:06:59All right.
01:07:00All right.
01:07:01Look at that.
01:07:02Look at that.
01:07:03There's a whole space here.
01:07:05Water, inlet, outlet.
01:07:07Two, two.
01:07:08Chaudi too.
01:07:09This place is much better?
01:07:11Yeah.
01:07:12You need water.
01:07:13Water is right here.
01:07:14Use it.
01:07:15And you don't have that facility over there?
01:07:17No.
01:07:18There's no inlet.
01:07:19There's no inlet outlet water.
01:07:20No.
01:07:21There's no water.
01:07:22What do you do?
01:07:23There's no water.
01:07:24There's no water.
01:07:25There's no water.
01:07:26Here, you don't need to go outside in public view
01:07:30in order to wash or dish it.
01:07:35Our cafe space doesn't have, like,
01:07:37water inlet or outlet.
01:07:39The plan is we're going to bring the jars of water
01:07:43and we're going to use that water for cooking.
01:07:45And in order to wash the dishes,
01:07:47we're going to use the public area where people
01:07:49watch their dishes.
01:07:51I mean, how are you going to run a cafe
01:07:53without running water?
01:07:58This is the better place.
01:08:00Do you think that?
01:08:02Kitchen is really best.
01:08:03But again, whatever money has been spent over there
01:08:06It's going to be a loss.
01:08:07Will be zero.
01:08:08Now, should we move here just because we have enough space
01:08:14or should we just stay there in front of where the
01:08:18main business is going on?
01:08:20And in starting, we have to struggle.
01:08:23This place is around the corner, so we're out of sight.
01:08:28No one's going to see us.
01:08:30And I feel like we're going to lose business over there.
01:08:34The other spot is right in the middle of everything that's
01:08:38going on there.
01:08:39That's where everybody's sitting.
01:08:41This is where everyone is.
01:08:43Yeah.
01:08:44In terms of, like, if someone is running a kitchen
01:08:48and a customer is coming, they have to, like,
01:08:51it should be visible.
01:08:53Yeah, that's what I want.
01:08:54The customer will come there.
01:08:56Yes, yes.
01:08:57The customer will come there, right?
01:08:59Yeah.
01:09:00Like, they get what they see.
01:09:01Like, whatever they see, they order from there.
01:09:03Oh, exactly.
01:09:04Okay, then, if that's what you're worried about
01:09:06and thinking about, then we should stay over there, then.
01:09:11Neither location is really ideal or perfect,
01:09:14but at least in the front, we'll attract more business.
01:09:18We really need this cafe to be a success because we need
01:09:23to be able to afford to move out and get our own place.
01:09:26Ugh.
01:09:27I don't know how long I can live with his parents.
01:09:36Oh, boy.
01:09:40I felt like I've been doing, like, solo parenting.
01:09:43I already told you that I feel I'm a mom,
01:09:45and you're saying that to me?
01:09:47Wow.
01:09:49Solo parenting.
01:09:50Well, I've been doing solo providing.
01:10:01You need help, honey?
01:10:02You good?
01:10:04Nice.
01:10:08There's more.
01:10:13Wow.
01:10:17Oh, they're blowing away.
01:10:26Benny!
01:10:27My baby!
01:10:28You ready?
01:10:31He's gonna miss you so much, you know?
01:10:32I know.
01:10:33He's gonna miss you so much.
01:10:34It's gonna be hard.
01:10:36Saying goodbye to you, too.
01:10:37I know.
01:10:38So today, we are moving to France, and I'm f***ing terrified.
01:10:47We're gonna miss you guys.
01:10:48Oh, no, no, no.
01:10:49We're gonna miss you a lot.
01:10:50For sure.
01:10:51I know he's ready to go.
01:10:53Oh, yeah.
01:10:54Honestly, I'm devastated, because I just cannot believe that it's actually truly happening,
01:11:08and that it's true.
01:11:10Love you, buddy.
01:11:11Love you, too.
01:11:12Thanks for letting us stay here.
01:11:13Come here.
01:11:14Hi.
01:11:16I promised myself ten years ago, when I first moved to L.A., that's it.
01:11:23You're gonna stay here.
01:11:24You're gonna make it work.
01:11:26And now, I'm moving back to a country that I said I never would ever.
01:11:31I just cannot stop looking around and wanting to cry, thinking about what I worked for for
01:11:5410 years.
01:11:55That's it.
01:11:56Now, I'm completely leaving that away behind me.
01:11:58I'm giving up everything I dreamed of and everything I worked for, because I truly want to spend
01:12:05more time with my son, and I'm also doing it to save my marriage.
01:12:11But, what if none of this works?
01:12:19Are you okay?
01:12:21Did you call your parents before leaving, or so?
01:12:23I called my mom, yeah.
01:12:25How was it?
01:12:26It was good.
01:12:27It was good.
01:12:28Yeah?
01:12:29Just wishing the best of luck.
01:12:30Wishing the best.
01:12:31Yeah.
01:12:32I'm so grateful for Maddie, that she bought the car.
01:12:36But we have to be prepared.
01:12:37I'm prepared.
01:12:38You know, we lost 30k in four weeks, paying all of the last medical bills we have, all of
01:12:44the credit card bills that we had to pay off.
01:12:47You know?
01:12:48We are down with Johnny King.
01:12:50It is what it is.
01:12:52Manon and I value money and success wildly differently.
01:12:59She's only been out of work for a few weeks, and she's already stressing.
01:13:04But as long as I'm with my family, and we're not having to worry about where our next meal's
01:13:09coming from, or, you know, keeping the electricity on.
01:13:12Like, if all of those needs are met, I would be okay with that.
01:13:15But that's where me and Manon differ.
01:13:18We're on the opposite spectrum when it comes to that.
01:13:21We have to make sure that we save and we are good with money, you know, now?
01:13:26I know.
01:13:27That's why we're living with your parents.
01:13:29Yeah.
01:13:30In the meantime.
01:13:32I'm just saying, because it's still important.
01:13:34Yeah.
01:13:35I mean, I feel like if you're going to be the same way there, that's going to cause issues.
01:13:40Same with you.
01:13:42It's both of us.
01:13:44If we have to start from the bottom and work our way back up, it is what it is.
01:13:49If you're going there, and your expectations are happiness means house and stuff like that,
01:13:54we're going there for the wrong reasons.
01:13:56I want a few things, yes.
01:13:58Like, just a house and a happy, stable life.
01:14:01I will always work for that.
01:14:03Me too.
01:14:04But I see it as you won't be happy unless you have this.
01:14:08So what's wrong with that?
01:14:09I'll work for it and I'll make it happen.
01:14:11Okay?
01:14:12Okay.
01:14:14I'm telling you, it will take time, I get it.
01:14:17But we'll get there and we'll find solution to have what we both want.
01:14:21And what I want is more help with parenting.
01:14:26I will.
01:14:27That's what I want.
01:14:28But that's why we're doing this.
01:14:29That's what I've already been doing, no?
01:14:31I have the bath time routine now with him.
01:14:34Okay.
01:14:36What is wrong with you right now?
01:14:38I don't like where this conversation is going.
01:14:41What?
01:14:42Why you don't like it?
01:14:43What's wrong?
01:14:45Nothing.
01:14:47I've felt like I've been doing, like, solo parenting.
01:14:54It's how it's felt.
01:14:55Like, bath time is just bath time.
01:14:58Wow.
01:14:59Wow.
01:15:04Who's been putting him to bed?
01:15:05I keep telling you, I try and he screams with me.
01:15:07It's going to take time.
01:15:08He was with you since I was, like, two months postpartum.
01:15:12Do you see the sacrifice I've made also for you guys?
01:15:15The life that I gave you?
01:15:17You don't give a about that?
01:15:19Wow.
01:15:20Wow.
01:15:21Yeah!
01:15:22Right?
01:15:23You talk about me?
01:15:24I already told you that I feel I'm a mom and you're saying that to me?
01:15:28You want to make me feel even more like a mom?
01:15:32I don't recognize you right now.
01:15:33Thank you so much for what you said.
01:15:35It's very nice.
01:15:36Very nice, bro.
01:15:37Wow.
01:15:38Solo parenting.
01:15:39Well, I've been doing solo providing.
01:15:43Wow, wow, wow.
01:15:44That's what it's going to be in France?
01:15:46Go back to fighting?
01:15:48That's what I'm hoping it's not in France.
01:15:49Look, I'm sorry, but that's how I felt.
01:16:05I know you tried, and it's hard.
01:16:08That's why we're going to France.
01:16:10So I apologize.
01:16:11Yeah, let's put it on the side, but I'm not forgetting.
01:16:12That was very helpful.
01:16:13But yeah, let's have a very nice flight now.
01:16:27Where's the music?
01:16:28I feel like I'm digging myself a deeper and deeper hole.
01:16:29I don't want to do nothing that's going to get me in trouble.
01:16:30If Madeline found out about this, she'd dump my ass.
01:16:31Oh my God.
01:16:32Oh my God.
01:16:33Yeah, I got this game on lock.
01:16:34Made my way straight to the top.
01:16:35Girls pulling on my arm like a slap.
01:16:36Anyone that knows me knows.
01:16:37I call them shots.
01:16:38Just like a boss.
01:16:39Just like a horse.
01:16:40Cheers to a good night.
01:16:41I call them shots.
01:16:42Just like a boss.
01:16:43Just like a horse.
01:16:44Cheers to a good night.
01:16:46I call them shots.
01:16:47I'm moving to Madezine in just a few days,
01:17:10I'm moving to Medellin in just a few days, and while I miss Madeleine and I can't wait
01:17:21to kiss her and touch her and hold her, I'm scared to leave my life in the U.S. behind.
01:17:27This is where I grew up.
01:17:29All my friends and family live here.
01:17:30So before I go, my friends have invited me over for a little going away party.
01:17:35Knock, knock.
01:17:36Oh, finally.
01:17:37What's up, bro?
01:17:38My people, my people.
01:17:39Hello.
01:17:40How you doing?
01:17:41Guys, what the is this, man?
01:17:43You guys trying to get me in trouble or what?
01:17:45I'm leaving.
01:17:46I'm leaving.
01:17:47Hey, no, no, what?
01:17:48What do you mean?
01:17:49You're nothing here.
01:17:50No bachelor parties.
01:17:51No.
01:17:52Come on.
01:17:53Bro, you don't trust me?
01:17:54All right, this is it.
01:17:55Like, that's it.
01:17:56This is it.
01:17:57It's just a couple of beers left.
01:17:59I don't know.
01:18:00I don't know.
01:18:01I don't know.
01:18:02I don't know.
01:18:03I don't know.
01:18:04I don't know.
01:18:05What's this?
01:18:06It's just a couple of beers with the boys.
01:18:07I just want to make it festive.
01:18:08All right, with the boys.
01:18:11No more surprises.
01:18:12You promise?
01:18:13Madeline's going to kick my ass, dude.
01:18:15Madeline told me not to have bachelor party without her.
01:18:18So I know she'd be pissed about this.
01:18:22Hello, hello.
01:18:23What's up, dude?
01:18:25But I'm giving up a lot.
01:18:27I'm moving to Colombia.
01:18:29I need a boys night.
01:18:31It's just a bunch of guys with some stupid decorations.
01:18:34It's not like this is a real bachelor party.
01:18:38How well do you guys know Madeline?
01:18:40Because I don't really know her.
01:18:42Oh.
01:18:43Brian, you know her, right?
01:18:45Unfortunately.
01:18:46Hey, what's up, Luke?
01:18:47What you guys talking about?
01:18:48No, honestly, I was talking about, like, you know you're my boy.
01:18:53I mean, this might be the last time I get to tell you.
01:18:55I don't know if, like, Madeline's the right one.
01:18:57I've never met her, but I don't know.
01:18:59This man's living the dream.
01:19:00He had the balls to do what a lot of people want to do but don't do.
01:19:04I mean, it's like a fairytale story, if you will, you know.
01:19:07But at what cost?
01:19:08Madeline went out of her way to destroy my marriage.
01:19:11Luke knows this.
01:19:12She started a rumor that I wasn't faithful to my ex-wife just to get back at me telling Luke what happens when he's not there.
01:19:19Brian is one of my closest friends.
01:19:34We met in Colombia because he was married to one of Madeline's best friends, Vale.
01:19:39But things got messy after Brian had revealed some rumors that made me question her fidelity.
01:19:46Madeline, I lost my trust in you.
01:19:49told me that he spent one night in your apartment in the same bed.
01:19:54My apartment?
01:19:55Yeah, and he said that you were topless while he was in the same bed with you.
01:19:59He was in the, you slept in the same bed?
01:20:02Is it true?
01:20:03These people say my apartment, I have a party well then.
01:20:07Yes, this is true.
01:20:09Were you naked?
01:20:10I am no naked.
01:20:11Were you naked?
01:20:12I am no naked.
01:20:13I was really pissed at first, but I chose to believe her, and we've moved on.
01:20:22She knew that she could manipulate people because she's great at that.
01:20:26And, you know, that's what I've been, you know, trying to warn Luke about.
01:20:30From the beginning, I supported them, but I saw her true colors, you know.
01:20:36And I can see him just getting taken advantage.
01:20:40You got to take things for what they are.
01:20:43If it looks like fish, and it smells like fish, and it smells like a fish, it must be a freaking fish.
01:20:48It's Madeline's world, and we're just living in it.
01:20:51Like, she says jump, and Luke says how high.
01:20:54She says bark, and Luke barks.
01:20:56You're forcing this, and you feel like Madeline is the one that has to be because you got a tattoo.
01:21:03But, like, you can backtrack.
01:21:06You can backtrack.
01:21:07It's okay to backtrack.
01:21:08Stop giving the boy a hard time, man.
01:21:10Let him enjoy his day.
01:21:12You have a girl that loves you.
01:21:14She's over there.
01:21:15She wants you to go over there.
01:21:16Sometimes you just got to take that risk.
01:21:18You can't listen to other people.
01:21:21You're the captain.
01:21:22Listen to him or you'll walk the plane.
01:21:26I think Brian's saying what he's saying because he's genuinely concerned about me.
01:21:31But I love Maddie.
01:21:33She's my fiancee.
01:21:35And honestly, I'm done with this conversation.
01:21:38I just want to have a good time with my friends before I move.
01:21:48Let's go, boys.
01:21:51Hi, hi, Captain.
01:21:55Come in.
01:21:58Hi.
01:21:59Hi.
01:22:00How you doing?
01:22:01Good. How are you?
01:22:02Nice to meet you.
01:22:03What the ?
01:22:04These are the boys.
01:22:05Oh, my God.
01:22:06Who's the bachelor?
01:22:07Is it you?
01:22:08This is the bachelor right here.
01:22:09Hi.
01:22:10Of course.
01:22:11We can hug.
01:22:12Hello.
01:22:13Don't be shy.
01:22:14I'm a little shy.
01:22:15These mother .
01:22:18Do you have a bathroom I can change in?
01:22:20Yeah, yeah.
01:22:21It's over here.
01:22:22I told them.
01:22:23No bachelor party.
01:22:24And what walks in?
01:22:25A stripper.
01:22:27What the guys?
01:22:30Surprise.
01:22:31Dude.
01:22:32Not okay.
01:22:33Not okay.
01:22:34I'll take the blame.
01:22:36I just want you to have a good time, bro, before you leave.
01:22:39There's a possibility that I overstepped, you know, bringing Fiji to my house.
01:22:42But I also feel like it's good fun.
01:22:43It's good nature.
01:22:44I mean, this is a bachelor party.
01:22:45Where's the music?
01:22:46There's nothing that I would consider out of the norm.
01:22:51Oh, man.
01:22:52I don't want to do nothing that's going to get me in trouble.
01:23:11I feel like I'm digging myself a deeper and deeper hole.
01:23:15But I'm an American.
01:23:18And there's a rite of passage.
01:23:20You do the stripper thing.
01:23:22You got to do it before you get married.
01:23:24It's a cultural thing.
01:23:26It's in the book.
01:23:27It's written.
01:23:28No!
01:23:29No!
01:23:30Oh, my God.
01:23:34But at the same time, I know that if Madeleine found out about this before the wedding,
01:23:39she'd call it off and dump my ass.
01:23:41It won't be a threat.
01:23:43She'd really do it.
01:23:44Next time on 90 Day Fiance, The Other Way.
01:23:54Chloe.
01:23:55Chloe.
01:23:56Oh!
01:23:57Are you excited?
01:23:58Came back.
01:23:59Yeah.
01:24:00Do you think I wasn't going to come back?
01:24:01You know, sometimes you argue with me and you tell me when.
01:24:02Ah, here we go.
01:24:03Oh!
01:24:04Oh!
01:24:05Chloe doesn't have any idea what she's giving up.
01:24:06You remodeled the place.
01:24:07I worry when things start to get hard, she'll decide to leave.
01:24:08How are you?
01:24:09We need equipment for the cafe.
01:24:10So I called my friend Rohan.
01:24:11Who will be your chef?
01:24:12She can cook, you know, spaghetti.
01:24:13Yeah, I can make spaghetti.
01:24:14Why is that funny?
01:24:15I don't think that they have any clue what they are getting into.
01:24:17Well, your business was so good, it shut down, right?
01:24:18Do your parents have space in the fridge for our food?
01:24:19I don't think that they have any clue what they are getting into.
01:24:25Well, your business was so good, it shut down, right?
01:24:43Do your parents have space in the fridge for our food?
01:24:48One slight snag.
01:24:49Holy .
01:24:51I thought Matthew would have an apartment locked down for us.
01:24:55So we wouldn't be stuck at his parents' house for a long time.
01:24:58Forfeit innards.
01:25:01I went over to David's the other day and they had a stripper come over.
01:25:05It was a bachelor party.
01:25:07Gipsy found out.
01:25:08Oh, she'll go crazy.
01:25:10You've got to stand your ground, otherwise you'll mincemeat already.
01:25:15Let's go, let's go.
01:25:16I've been a little bit emotional about the fact that I'm leaving L.A.
01:25:20Do this, mommy and papi.
01:25:21Coo-coo!
01:25:22Hello!
01:25:23Look at you!
01:25:25I cannot be like, yeah, Marseille, I love it so much.
01:25:29No, I don't.
01:25:30I do so much.
01:25:32Here you go.
01:25:33Two sisters.
01:25:34I don't know what the f*** am I going to do.
01:25:40I that w*** am I going to stop?
01:25:41It is good.
01:25:42See ya,chalAH G.
01:25:43I'm coming straight forward.
01:25:44You forgot?
01:25:45You're so
01:25:54рист.
01:25:55I'm still Jonah.
01:25:57I wanna watch you later.
01:25:58I start like, oh my god.
01:25:59I have a suspenny with 술 but Hey!
01:26:00I have a games and a emaurus.
01:26:01We have a interrupted.
01:26:02I have a regrets and have a big one.
01:26:03You're always like, oh my goodness.
01:26:05You've always wanted to have an empty cup.
01:26:06Or if you beat New England.
01:26:07Or if had a party to 3 or marat.
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