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Host: Nida Yasir
Guests: Sadia Imam, Sabiha Hashmi & Dr. Sana Yasir

Good Morning Pakistan is your first source of entertainment as soon as you wake up in the morning, keeping you energized for the rest of the day.

Timing: Every Monday – Friday at 9:00 AM on ARY Digital.

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00:04:27are that mother-in-law-body the children of children getting married.
00:04:30They keep getting married.
00:04:33They keep getting married to her children.
00:04:43So they don't buy a lot of marriage altogether.
00:04:49It is a good system that has a good system, but if you have a partner for your children or if you have a child, you have a lot of pressure.
00:05:16because it is a life time game, it doesn't get married, it doesn't get married, it doesn't get married, it doesn't get married to a girl, it's married to two houses.
00:05:26Two houses are connected, and you note that when you get married to your children and their children,
00:05:35then the rest of your immediate family, your brothers and sisters, they seem to get away from a little.
00:05:41Then your husband, your husband, your family, these people are getting close to you,
00:05:50and you get married to your family.
00:05:54We have seen that in our life.
00:05:57My parents, my parents, my parents, our parents, our parents have more.
00:06:06So this is the most important thing to do is to do a good relationship.
00:06:18You can see that there is a good match, a girl, a girl, a girl, we have a understanding.
00:06:26But there is also something that happens.
00:06:28And what happens?
00:06:30So this is the most important thing.
00:06:37So this is the most important thing.
00:06:39But if you ask yourself a girl, then she is very strong.
00:06:45If she doesn't have a good match, why can't she reject it?
00:06:51So there are so many weird things that can't be a good match.
00:06:58Now, what are the things?
00:07:00Why are the challenges?
00:07:02Why are they not able to match?
00:07:04Why are people frustrated that they are not able to match the right match?
00:07:07In love marriage, there are many things that are ignored.
00:07:12Because a girl is a girl who loves the other.
00:07:14But when the marriage is a marriage,
00:07:16one thing is kept in mind.
00:07:20You can't get a job too.
00:07:21You can't get a job too.
00:07:23You can't get a job too.
00:07:24But it is a rejection of the girl too.
00:07:25But it is not a rejection of the girl.
00:07:30It is not good.
00:07:31It is the heart of their heart.
00:07:33They reach a good comfort.
00:07:34And it is for the home.
00:07:36So what are those little things that are happening in the world?
00:07:40We put them practically.
00:07:42practically roshni ڈالتے ہیں
00:07:44اور یہاں بہت سارے سے لوگ ہیں
00:07:46جن کے ساتھ آپ بھی تھی وہ ہمیں
00:07:48سنائیں گے کہ کیوں ہوا ان کے ساتھ ایسا
00:07:50تو آئیے ایک چھوٹے سے break کے بعد
00:07:52ایک بالکل
00:07:54ایسی چیز کے اوپر بات کرنے والے
00:07:56جو لوگ کرتے نہیں بات
00:07:58مگر یہ ہم سب کی زندگیوں میں کبھی نہ کبھی
00:08:00ہوا ہے شاید میری شاید آپ کی زندگی
00:08:02میں بھی good morning پاکستان break کے بعد
00:08:04ہمارے ساتھ رہی ہے
00:08:12welcome welcome back
00:08:15good morning پاکستان
00:08:16جیسے کہ ہم نے کہا آپ کو کہ آج کا
00:08:18شو بہت important ہے اور
00:08:20ایسی چھوٹی چھوٹی چیزیں
00:08:22جو ہمیں لگتا ہے چھوٹی ہیں پر بہت بڑی
00:08:24ہوتی ہیں ان پر کوئی بات نہیں کرتا
00:08:26نہ یہ کسی کتاب میں لکھی ہوتی ہیں
00:08:28کہ کہاں سے سمجھیں کہاں سے سیکھیں
00:08:31سو بہت ساری چیزیں جو آپ
00:08:32کتابوں میں نہیں سیکھ سکتے وہ آپ لوگوں سے
00:08:34مل کے سیکھتے ہیں اور
00:08:37لوگ اپنے پرسنل ایکسپیرینسز
00:08:39شیئر کرتے ہیں جس سے آپ
00:08:40تھوڑے سے خبردار
00:08:43بھی ہو جاتے ہیں اور آپ یہ
00:08:45اندازہ لگا لیتے ہیں کہ
00:08:46کہاں ہیں وہ چھوٹی چھوٹی
00:08:49چیزیں جو میٹر کرتی ہیں
00:08:51لوگوں کو ہمارے پاس جو گیسٹ لسٹ
00:08:53ہے آج ایک طرف ہے ہمارے سادیا
00:08:55امام السلام علیکم
00:08:57کیسی ہاں؟ بلکل خیالی
00:08:58دوسری طرف ہمارے ہیں سبیہ
00:09:01حاشمی السلام علیکم
00:09:03کیا حال ہے؟
00:09:04بلکل تھی اور ہماری
00:09:06ایکسپرٹ آج ڈاکٹر سانای آسر
00:09:09ہمارے ساتھ موجود ہیں جو کہ
00:09:11ریلیشنشپ کوچ ہیں ان کا
00:09:13ہونا بڑا ضروری ہے السلام علیکم
00:09:15علیکم السلام تینکیو نیتا
00:09:16ہم آپ اچھے خاصی میہ بیوی کے رشتے
00:09:19اور وہ سلجاری ہوتی تھی ہم نے
00:09:20آپ کو ساس بہو نند بھاوج
00:09:23میں بھی ڈال دیا گھریلو سارے
00:09:24معاملات میں لیکن یہ
00:09:26ظاہر ہے یہ رشتے موسٹ امپورٹنڈ ہے
00:09:28میہ بیوی کے لیے بھی کتنے امپورٹنڈ
00:09:30بلکل یہ ایسا جال ہے جس کے
00:09:32بیس پہ رمیہ بیوی
00:09:34کا رشتہ جو ہے وہ پنپتہ ہے
00:09:36ہمارے معاشرے میں
00:09:38ہر ایک ہی گزرتا ہے
00:09:40اس پرابلمس
00:09:41ہم یہ نہیں کہہ سکتے کہ
00:09:44لڑکا لڑکی رازی تو کیا کرے گا
00:09:46یہ ہمارے اوپر لاغونی
00:09:48ہوتی جیز
00:09:49بلکل بھی نہیں
00:09:50ریلیشنشپ تو سب کے ہیں
00:09:51ماں کا بچوں سے
00:09:53ہزبن وائف کا خالی تو نہیں ہے
00:09:56سب کے آپس میں رشتے ہیں
00:09:58انہی رشتوں کی بیسس پہ آپ تیع کرتے ہو
00:10:00لائف ساتسفیکشن کیسی ہے بلکل
00:10:02بلکل اور کچھ لوگوں کی زندگی
00:10:04کا فیول ہی فیملی ہوتی ہے
00:10:06بلکل وہ اگر آگے بڑھ رہے ہیں
00:10:08تو ان کے پیچھے فیملی ہونے
00:10:09مجھے سے لوگ موجود ہیں
00:10:10مجھے سے لوگ جرملی چھوڑ کے
00:10:12یہاں بیٹھے میں سب فیملی کی وجہ سے
00:10:14فیملی بلکل
00:10:16بہت فیملی ماتر کرتی ہے
00:10:18اگر آپ کریئر میں
00:10:20مطلب ایک
00:10:22بوم ہے آپ کے
00:10:23دیکھیں گے آپ ملیں گے لوگوں سے
00:10:26تو ان کی محنت کے علاوہ ان کے پاس
00:10:28ان کی فیملی کے سپورٹ ہوتی
00:10:30صرف آپ زبان سے ہی کچھ کہہ دیں
00:10:32اور وہ سپورٹ
00:10:34چہروں پر نظر آرہی ہے
00:10:35نظر ہے
00:10:35کانفیڈنس دیکھتے
00:10:37بلکل
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00:10:39وہ سب نظر آرہا ہوتا ہے
00:10:41اچھا آج جیسے ہم بات کر رہے ہیں
00:10:43کہ
00:10:44ہر چیز پرفیکٹ ہے
00:10:46لڑکے نے لڑکی کو پسند کر لیا
00:10:48لڑکی نے لڑکے کو پسند کر لیا
00:10:50کہیں نہ کہیں
00:10:51بیچ میں
00:10:56لڑکی کیوں جیسے فر اگزامپل جو سننے میں آیا ہے
00:10:58لڑکی کی ماں بہت تیز تھی
00:11:00نہیں نہیں نہیں
00:11:01ایدھر رشتہ نہیں کرنا
00:11:02یا پھر
00:11:03لڑکے کے آگے پیچھے کوئی نہیں ہے
00:11:06لڑکی تو کیسے رہے گی ایسے
00:11:08کون سلجھانے والا ہوگا
00:11:10الگ الگ باتیں سامنے آتی ہیں
00:11:12اس لیے یہ رشتہ مناسب نہیں ہے
00:11:14نہ ہو جاتی ہے
00:11:16اور پھر
00:11:16پھر آپ کو کوئی ایک چیز پسند آ جاتی ہے
00:11:19لڑکے کو لڑکی وہ پسند آ گئے
00:11:21اپنے لئے
00:11:22پھر وہ اس کو وہ والی چیز
00:11:24کہیں نہیں ملتی
00:11:24تو بچاری اممہ ہے
00:11:25اور میں نے گھر گھر کے ٹوکرے کاتی پرتی ہیں
00:11:28ادھر بھی جاتی ہوں
00:11:29لیکن لڑکے کا دل اٹک گیا
00:11:30تو بہت ساری ایسی چیزیں
00:11:32جو عام طور پر دیکھنے میں آئی ہیں
00:11:34کبھی آپ لوگوں کے آس پاس
00:11:36کبھی ہوا ہے
00:11:37زندگی میں کوئی رشتہ کی سکھا ہوا
00:11:39ہاں ایسی ایک ہماری فیملی میں ہوا تھا
00:11:41جو میں نے شاید پہلے بھی کبھی ذکر کیا تھا
00:11:43تو امریکہ میں تھا وہ لڑکا
00:11:46ایسی ایک ڈاکٹر
00:11:47اب میری اپنے بچی تھی وہ بھی ڈاکٹر
00:11:49تو وہ جب آپس میں باتشیت ہو گئی
00:11:52اور جب دونوں نے ایک باتشیت ہوتی ہے
00:11:56ٹیلی فون پر
00:11:56تو اتنی میں میں
00:11:58میں یہ
00:11:59میں وہ
00:12:00میں یہ کر رہا ہوں
00:12:01تو کہہ رہی ہم دونوں تو
00:12:02سیم کالیبر پر رہے
00:12:03I am a ڈاکٹر
00:12:05he's a ڈاکٹر
00:12:06تو یہ میں کیوں ہے
00:12:08مطلب
00:12:08تم نے کوئی الگ سے ڈاکٹری پڑھ لیا
00:12:10یا الگ کوئی کتابیں پڑھ کے
00:12:12تم ڈاکٹر بن گیا
00:12:13تو یہ جو اتنی میں تھی
00:12:15سیلف اپسیس
00:12:16ہاں
00:12:16تو آپ
00:12:17اس لڑکی نے ہمیں کہا
00:12:18کہ no I'm so sorry
00:12:20میں نہیں کر سکتی
00:12:21ہم سب کھڑے ہو گئے
00:12:23چاہے وہ
00:12:24نہیں ٹھیک ہے
00:12:25جب اگر وہ کہہ رہی ہے
00:12:27کہ وہ کامفٹیبل نہیں ہے
00:12:28تو ہم نے معذرت کری
00:12:29لڑکے والوں سے بات ہو گئی
00:12:30تاریخ تیہ ہو گئی
00:12:32وہ لوگ آ رہے تھے
00:12:33شادی کے لئے
00:12:33تو ہم نے معذرت کری
00:12:35اور یہ اب
00:12:36ماشاءاللہ
00:12:36وہ جہاں ہوئی ہے
00:12:37وہ خوش ہے
00:12:38اپنے ساتھ
00:12:38تو یہ
00:12:39sometime
00:12:40لڑکوں کو بھی نہیں
00:12:41سمجھا
00:12:41اور even
00:12:42لڑکیوں کو بھی نہیں
00:12:42سمجھ جاتی
00:12:43کہ آپ نے
00:12:44اس کام کی
00:12:45یا
00:12:45اس شخص کی
00:12:46ریسپیکٹ
00:12:47کیسے کرنی ہے
00:12:48ہمارے
00:12:48سب سے
00:12:49میجر
00:12:49جو پرابلم
00:12:50مجھے لگتا ہے
00:12:51کسی بھی
00:12:51رشتے میں
00:12:52نیدہ آتا ہے
00:12:53ہم عزت ہی
00:12:54نہیں دینا چاہتے
00:12:55ہم اس
00:12:56رشتے کو
00:12:57اس وقتی طور پر
00:12:57تو ضرور
00:12:58وہ کرتے ہیں
00:12:59لیکن اس کے بعد
00:13:00ہم اس کو
00:13:00گھر کی کھیتی
00:13:01سمجھ لیتے ہیں
00:13:02اور شادیا
00:13:02ہم دیکھا گیا ہے
00:13:04کہ اسپیشلی
00:13:04جو لڑکی والے ہوتے
00:13:05وہ بیچارے
00:13:06بہت زیادہ
00:13:07نا
00:13:07ہمبل
00:13:07اور ہمبل
00:13:09ہوئے ہوئے ہوئے
00:13:09اور ہر چیز
00:13:10لڑکے والوں کی
00:13:11مان رہے ہوتے ہیں
00:13:12کیوں بھائی
00:13:12ان کی بیٹی
00:13:13وہ اپنی بیٹی کی
00:13:15ورت اسی طرح
00:13:16بنائیں گے
00:13:16بلکل
00:13:17کہ وہ اپنا
00:13:18جگر کا
00:13:18ٹکڑا دے رہے ہیں
00:13:19تو وہ تو
00:13:20انکوائری کریں گے
00:13:21بھائی
00:13:21وہ تو دیکھیں گے
00:13:22کہ سامنے والا
00:13:24جو رشتہ ہے
00:13:25لڑکے والوں کا
00:13:26گھرانا کیسا ہے
00:13:27لڑکا خود
00:13:28کیسا ہے
00:13:28تو سوال جواب تو
00:13:29کریں گے
00:13:30ان کا حق ہے
00:13:30کہ وہ اپنی بیٹی
00:13:31دے رہے ہیں
00:13:33آپ کے
00:13:33آس پاس
00:13:34کچھ ایسا ہوا
00:13:35بلکل
00:13:36بعض وقت
00:13:37جہیز پہ ہو جاتا ہے
00:13:38بعض وقت
00:13:38مس انڈسٹینڈنگز
00:13:40ہو جاتی ہیں
00:13:40تو میں یہ سمجھتی ہوں
00:13:42کہ مرد
00:13:43ہر صورت
00:13:44یہ سمجھتا ہے
00:13:44کہ اس کو
00:13:45عزت دی جائے
00:13:46جبکہ آج کل
00:13:47کی لڑکیاں بھی
00:13:48بلکل برابر چل رہی ہیں
00:13:49ان کو بھی
00:13:49اتنی ہی عزت چاہیے
00:13:50تو عزت دونوں
00:13:52کو برابر کی
00:13:52ملنا چاہیے
00:13:53یہ سب سے
00:13:54بڑا ایشو ہے
00:13:54دونوں کے
00:13:55گھر والوں
00:13:55گھر والوں
00:13:56کو بھی
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00:19:16ڈھون رہے ہیں
00:19:17کیونکہ
00:19:17اکثر میں نے
00:19:18بھی یہ سنائے
00:19:19کہ جس طرح
00:19:19بانس ہوتا ہے
00:19:20بانس
00:19:21یعنی
00:19:22چھوٹی عمر کی
00:19:22لڑکی کے لیے
00:19:23بولا جاتا ہے
00:19:24کہ اس کو
00:19:33ہماریا تو
00:19:34اس کی
00:19:34گروت کی بات
00:19:35ہوگی ہے
00:19:35جب آپ کے پاس
00:19:37ایک ایسی لڑکی آ رہی ہے
00:19:38کہ آپ کا
00:19:39ہر فیملی کا
00:19:40انوارمنٹ
00:19:41الگ ہوگا ہے
00:19:42اب جب ہم
00:19:42بڑی بہو
00:19:43لارہے تھے
00:19:43تو ہمارا ایک
00:19:44کہ وہ
00:19:45سب کو
00:19:45جوڑ کے
00:19:46رہے ہیں
00:19:46بڑی بہو
00:19:47کا
00:19:47چہرہ
00:19:48مسکراتا
00:19:48ہونا چاہیے
00:19:49تو وہ
00:19:50جو ایک
00:19:51ہمارے
00:19:51ہمارے
00:19:52ہم دھونڈ رہے تھا
00:19:53اور ہمیں
00:19:53اس میں
00:19:53ملی
00:19:54اور یقین
00:19:55جانے
00:19:55کہ وہ
00:19:55ہمارا
00:19:56اجالہ
00:19:56ہم نے
00:19:56نہ اسے
00:19:57بدلا
00:19:57نہ
00:19:57نہ
00:19:57نہ
00:19:58نہ
00:19:58نہ
00:19:58نہ
00:19:59نہ
00:19:59نہ
00:19:59نہ
00:19:59نہ
00:19:59نہ
00:19:59ہم نے
00:20:00اس کے
00:20:00احساب
00:20:00اپنے آپ
00:20:01کو
00:20:01اجسٹ کیا
00:20:02اس نے
00:20:02اپنے احساب
00:20:02ہماری
00:20:03چیزوں کو
00:20:03کیونکہ
00:20:04یہ ایک دوسروں
00:20:05کی دونوں
00:20:05طرف سے
00:20:06آپ
00:20:07ایک دوسرے
00:20:08کو
00:20:08accept
00:20:08کر رہی
00:20:08ہوتے ہیں
00:20:09یہ
00:20:09کچھ
00:20:11کمیاں
00:20:12مجھ
00:20:12میں
00:20:12ہوں گی
00:20:12کچھ
00:20:24ایک ہوں گی
00:20:24بیٹی
00:20:25ہمیں
00:20:26بیٹی
00:20:26شیر کریں گے
00:20:28تاکہ
00:20:28پر ہمیں
00:20:28اس پر
00:20:28بات کرنے کا
00:20:29مقا
00:20:29ٹھیک
00:20:30ٹھیک ہے
00:20:30رزوانا
00:20:31ہمارے
00:20:31ساتھ ہیں
00:20:32اور
00:20:33رزوانا
00:20:33کو
00:20:33بلاتے ہیں
00:20:34سلام علیکو
00:20:35آئی جائیں
00:20:37رزوانا
00:20:37آئی جائیں
00:20:39آئی جائیں
00:20:39کچھ
00:20:39آئی جائیں
00:20:40آئی جائیں
00:20:41سلام علیکو
00:20:42جی رزوانا
00:20:43جی
00:20:44میرے
00:20:44میں نے
00:20:45آپ کی
00:20:45بات
00:20:45سنی
00:20:46But it happened to me that I wanted to see my daughter in a marriage.
00:20:52So my daughter also liked me.
00:20:57I arranged my marriage.
00:20:59So when I saw her little child, we liked her for her.
00:21:03We liked her family, a girl, and my daughter also liked me.
00:21:08Then we said that we had a relationship with her.
00:21:11It was good for us.
00:21:13One and two times we got married.
00:21:15They were happy and we were happy.
00:21:18It was 10-15 days after Ramadan.
00:21:20My son is the smallest house in my house.
00:21:23Everyone told us that we are going to visit.
00:21:26My son told us that we are not going to visit.
00:21:28But my son told us that we are not going to visit.
00:21:30We told them that we are going to visit.
00:21:32Now we are going to go to his house.
00:21:34Then it was a strange place for us.
00:21:37Because this happened to us, the relationship was fixed.
00:21:39We are not going to visit.
00:21:41We are not going to visit.
00:21:42We are going to visit.
00:21:44Then we are going to visit.
00:21:46We are going to visit.
00:21:48Even though I called them.
00:21:50I told them that my son will come to visit.
00:21:54Because they were not gone.
00:21:56So we said that they will come to visit.
00:21:58But there is no response.
00:22:00We are not talking to them.
00:22:02We are talking to them.
00:22:04We are talking to them.
00:22:06We are talking to them.
00:22:07I want to visit.
00:22:10And we are talking to them.
00:22:12And once more have been up…
00:22:13They are talking to them.
00:22:15We are talking to them.
00:22:16We are talking to them,
00:22:17We are talking to them.
00:22:18The child is talking to them and the child is talking to them.
00:22:22They are sitting with me.
00:22:23They are sitting with me.
00:22:24My son is sitting there.
00:22:26It felt very strange because that is how we have been buried
00:22:29there was nothing to do with it.
00:22:31So I said, do we hear or do we hear the child?
00:22:35I didn't understand.
00:22:37Then I started talking about my husband.
00:22:41My husband did this and did this with me.
00:22:45It was very strange.
00:22:49The children who are at home are also teaching and teaching.
00:22:53Then we came to the house and came.
00:22:57and then we told them that we are not this type of people,
00:23:07because we have a lot of fun and fun,
00:23:09and we have a lot of fun,
00:23:11and we have a lot of fun,
00:23:13and we have a lot of fun,
00:23:15but I think this is a lot of fun,
00:23:17that my mother is still there now,
00:23:20and we have a lot of fun,
00:23:22and we have a lot of fun,
00:23:24so it's done,
00:23:26and we will never have a lot of fun,
00:23:28and we will never have a lot of fun,
00:23:30and our daughter will be very happy,
00:23:32and we will not say anything from them,
00:23:35and they say,
00:23:36we have told you first,
00:23:38and we will ask you two questions,
00:23:40one is,
00:23:42when you used love,
00:23:44you had a good feeling,
00:23:46what do you have the feeling,
00:23:48we had the good looking girl,
00:23:50and we had a good family,
00:23:52and we had that,
00:23:54I saw that.
00:23:55We saw that.
00:23:56I saw that.
00:23:57I saw that.
00:23:58Yes.
00:23:59We liked what was our requirement.
00:24:01It was complete.
00:24:02And on the other hand, I would like to know that,
00:24:05the assumption that we should take and take it,
00:24:09it was on the basis of that it was very beautiful.
00:24:13Yes.
00:24:14It was good.
00:24:15When we went to their house,
00:24:17we went to their family,
00:24:18we went to their family,
00:24:19and then we went to one another.
00:24:20We didn't see anything,
00:24:22and we all had it,
00:24:24so how many times we went to their house?
00:24:28We went to a girl's house,
00:24:31and she felt that it was serious about her.
00:24:34No, we wanted to go,
00:24:36but before we went,
00:24:38it was like,
00:24:39I will know you,
00:24:40but before we went to our heart,
00:24:42it was like,
00:24:43we went to our house.
00:24:44We didn't see it.
00:24:45We can't go to our house now.
00:24:47We didn't go anywhere.
00:24:49We didn't go,
00:24:50but I would also know that,
00:24:52I think that the person who has been exposed to it, was just a little bit.
00:24:59Because you were going with the meaning of it.
00:25:01Yes.
00:25:02You liked it.
00:25:03You didn't find it.
00:25:04You didn't find it.
00:25:05You didn't find it.
00:25:06No.
00:25:07So, I'm going to go on to this point.
00:25:10If you didn't find it, you didn't find it.
00:25:15So, did you know something about that girl?
00:25:19No.
00:25:20I'm going to clear your thoughts here.
00:25:23The clarity here is that when they started, the circumstances are fake.
00:25:31They are fake.
00:25:33They are fake.
00:25:34Now, when they were like this, they thought they were talking about it.
00:25:38So, what they thought was their thoughts and their complaints and their feelings.
00:25:43They showed their own self.
00:25:46And they told me that we were telling them that they were like they were like they were like they were like me.
00:25:52They showed their closeness.
00:25:53Basically, they showed them.
00:25:55But that closeness showed them.
00:25:57But the close-up show in the middle of the night was the actuality.
00:26:01The actuality was the actuality.
00:26:03She could go and go.
00:26:05But the call is the same.
00:26:09It's fake.
00:26:11But the actuality is the same thing.
00:26:15But the actuality is the same thing.
00:26:17The first thing is the same thing.
00:26:19So, I think we can talk about the same thing.
00:26:21Nidha, we also talked about this before, that the coaching is very important because you know that you, especially the girl and the girl,
00:26:31you know that you have to talk about what you have to do so that you don't have time for fake things.
00:26:36After a break, we have some tips to give you basically what you need to talk about.
00:26:41And you need to take the initiative, that you need to keep the points, so that we can talk about some of them.
00:26:53After a break, we have a good morning Pakistan.
00:27:01Welcome, welcome back, good morning Pakistan.
00:27:04We are talking about this topic today, which I do not know.
00:27:09It's the same thing.
00:27:10Now, I haven't come in the phase of the children.
00:27:14But I want to know, I want to know.
00:27:16So, today, we are going to give up for you.
00:27:19Let's see, both of us on the side of the camera.
00:27:23And we can learn something.
00:27:25The previous one, which was our case,
00:27:28the main thing we understood was that there was no respect.
00:27:33It was no respect.
00:27:35It was no respect.
00:27:36Now, Docs, there is no reason for any other reason.
00:27:38It is a personal reason.
00:27:39It is a personal reason.
00:27:40It is a personal experience.
00:27:42But the person who showed that woman in that family,
00:27:45it was the same thing that if she doesn't do her father's respect
00:27:48or she doesn't do her own mother's respect,
00:27:50then what is my mate?
00:27:52The other thing,
00:27:54which is what we have seen in our society,
00:27:56is that as we have to connect this relationship,
00:27:59the woman,
00:28:00the woman's respect,
00:28:01the woman,
00:28:02the woman's respect.
00:28:04So,
00:28:05the woman who introduced her friends,
00:28:06the woman who wanted to sit here in her head,
00:28:08she was able to connect the woman's respect.
00:28:10So,
00:28:11what is the woman who needs to do?
00:28:12It may be that they have judged and ended their relationship.
00:28:19It may be that they show close-ness, they are doing extraordinary things.
00:28:25That's why we need to know a little bit about what we need to do, what we need to do, what we need to do, what we need to do.
00:28:34It may be that this is very distant, I can say that we should not show ourselves so much.
00:28:42But they show themselves, children and mothers, they show themselves a closeness.
00:28:49They should not show themselves, but they should create a boundary.
00:28:55Especially when there are things in their background, it is a boundary.
00:29:01If you are very close, you can say something to the other, which appears to be bad for the children's children.
00:29:08But we will not say it again, Nanada.
00:29:12We will not say it again.
00:29:14We will not say it again.
00:29:17For example, if you are more close, then you will open a little over-hukum to the other.
00:29:26Or a little over-expectations.
00:29:31In-laws, especially, some of this.
00:29:34I am saying that the other two things are not happening.
00:29:40You should be aware that the other two things are happening.
00:29:46because when it comes to closeness, it is often like that the mother calls the girl's mother to the girl's mother to the girl's mother.
00:29:56which is a very wrong thing.
00:29:58It is a very strange thing that it is a closeness.
00:30:02If you are the mother of the girl's mother to the girl's mother, what would you feel about her mother?
00:30:10I have given my daughter and this is the game of school.
00:30:16In a parent-teacher meeting, you don't have a good child or you don't have a good progress.
00:30:22I feel like these are the first and second circumstances.
00:30:25You should talk about the girl and the girl.
00:30:28What do you feel good or bad?
00:30:33Especially the question of how do you behave in stress?
00:30:39Because you don't know what the challenges are.
00:30:42Like how much you feel.
00:30:44Or how much you feel.
00:30:46Or how much you feel.
00:30:48Or how much you feel.
00:30:49People want to gauge that this is not a bad thing.
00:30:51How can you express your emotions?
00:30:55Okay, let's see one more thing.
00:30:56Who will tell me?
00:30:58But the question is, how do you feel?
00:31:00How do you feel in anger?
00:31:02I will say this.
00:31:03My mother is very good.
00:31:05I will tell you.
00:31:06Because it's my own thing.
00:31:08I will tell you.
00:31:09I will tell you.
00:31:10I will tell you.
00:31:11How can you tell us?
00:31:13They can know it.
00:31:14And they can know it.
00:31:15And they will have a brain of the brain.
00:31:17Mind the brain?
00:31:18Who will play a great game?
00:31:19They will take a good experience into hosting.
00:31:22Or you can tell us.
00:31:23You can help us.
00:31:25We can help us.
00:31:26It's a simple question. I'll ask Nida, what was the toughest challenge in your life?
00:31:32If you tell me the story, I can add something to it.
00:31:36How did it manage? What was the toughest spot in your marriage life or parenting?
00:31:42What was the toughest challenge?
00:31:44That's one thing.
00:31:46That's one thing.
00:31:47That's one thing.
00:31:48That's one thing.
00:31:49That's one thing.
00:31:50That's one thing.
00:31:51Tell me, Doctor.
00:31:52What is happening?
00:31:53What is your life?
00:31:55What time is happening?
00:31:56I understand that after the rest of the relationship,
00:31:59you should understand the girl and the other.
00:32:03We don't have time.
00:32:04There are mistakes.
00:32:05There are mistakes.
00:32:06We don't have both understanding.
00:32:09Another question.
00:32:10What can you ask from the girl and the girl?
00:32:13What is your beautiful life?
00:32:16In that beautiful life,
00:32:18you keep your own challenges.
00:32:20You try to get your own challenges,
00:32:21you try and make your own challenges,
00:32:22and if you ask for that,
00:32:23your girl has to be a very different way.
00:32:24Any idea of making her own challenges,
00:32:25you should struggle to be outside,
00:32:26you should affect her own name,
00:32:27or do not.
00:32:28And the girl also has to think
00:32:31that she is waiting for her to do whatever kind of home.
00:32:32What is she not?
00:32:33That's a lot of issues.
00:32:35Just open this one.
00:32:37This question.
00:32:38I want to write it to her.
00:32:39But the mother's.
00:32:40Seriously, this show comes up today.
00:32:41That she knows the different questions.
00:32:42What the mother's.
00:32:43What the mother can do.
00:32:45This way, she knows the answers.
00:32:46can come from inside.
00:32:48What was the toughest time of your life?
00:32:53Parenting or marriage?
00:32:55One important thing that I'm going to ask you.
00:32:58We also talk about these things.
00:33:01What is the question of the child's house?
00:33:05Look, there is a way to ask the child.
00:33:07They don't understand the child's parents.
00:33:11Especially the child's parents.
00:33:14What is the question of the child's house?
00:33:17What is the question of the child's house?
00:33:19The question of the beautiful life was open to all.
00:33:23This is a very easy question.
00:33:26It will come in front of the child's house.
00:33:29What will happen to the child's house?
00:33:33Like that?
00:33:35For example, the child is sitting in the house.
00:33:38If they are a chaperone,
00:33:40they don't need to be alone.
00:33:42They will tell the child's house.
00:33:44They will tell the child's house.
00:33:45I like this house.
00:33:46I love the house.
00:33:47I can stay with the house.
00:33:48I can stay with the house.
00:33:49I can stay with my family.
00:33:50I can visit my sister's house.
00:33:51What is the meaning of their family?
00:33:53They will tell the child's house.
00:33:55In a beautiful life,
00:33:57I think you have understood the child's house.
00:34:01One more question is the most.
00:34:04A lot of girls can tell the child's house.
00:34:08The restorative heart is so much.
00:34:09Or they cannot tell the truth.
00:34:11So you can ask that, you know, someone narrates me that I saw that in Ramadan, people rage on the road, and they get angry at all.
00:34:25If you have any story, you can tell a story, then you get open.
00:34:32We are just saying, okay, we are always trying to regulate.
00:34:36in a very easy way of learning,
00:34:38I can't say that my brother's kind of the same time.
00:34:40It's a very good experience.
00:34:42You have to탈 the same,
00:34:44it's the same way,
00:34:46but it gets really good to see
00:34:48that your mother wants to get a ofsip,
00:34:50this is the same,
00:34:52and the same way.
00:34:54I always felt my parents
00:34:55and I always felt that
00:34:57I was very overwhelmed
00:34:59with that when I was born,
00:35:01I was very disappointed.
00:35:02I was very disappointed.
00:35:04What do you want to do with your heart?
00:35:06No one doesn't say anything.
00:35:08Okay, let's go.
00:35:10It's manageable.
00:35:12Angle management.
00:35:14I've never thought about this.
00:35:16Let's ask them what they have.
00:35:18As a matchmaker,
00:35:20I have two experiences like this.
00:35:24When the girls are going,
00:35:28or our relationship is done,
00:35:30you all know,
00:35:32it's a common problem.
00:35:36It's a good problem.
00:35:38Second problem is,
00:35:40when they go to the house of the girl,
00:35:42especially the mother of the girl.
00:35:44When the mother of the girl goes,
00:35:46she will ask her to the girl.
00:35:48She will also ask her to the mother.
00:35:50She will ask her to the girl.
00:35:52She will ask her to the girl.
00:35:54When she will ask her,
00:35:56she will not give the girl.
00:35:58anymore,
00:36:00she'll ask her to tell .
00:36:02She will ask her to the house.
00:36:04I had to tell you that
00:36:05in date."
00:36:06They will ask her the village of the girl.
00:36:07According to the village,
00:36:08she will ask the backpack to go less.
00:36:10We have to offer that much.
00:36:12With the Dad,
00:36:13if so,
00:36:14she will ask her Michelle for Van Alter and
00:36:18Thanks.
00:36:19She will ask,
00:36:20let them see I have...
00:36:21I drive home and her son are in the day.
00:36:24Say mom are in his business.
00:36:25Sandvik?
00:36:25Now,
00:36:26mom are based,
00:36:28What do you like?
00:36:30Mom, let me see.
00:36:32Mom, tell me this.
00:36:34Let's go, no matter what happens.
00:36:36The mother is doing the same thing.
00:36:38But now she starts her own life.
00:36:41So you have to interfere with her.
00:36:44No, the mother is here.
00:36:46Now the mother is telling us.
00:36:48Then she says, let's do lunch.
00:36:50She has been shopping for lunch.
00:36:52When she is sitting there,
00:36:54the mother has also interfered.
00:36:56She has not eaten, she will not eat.
00:36:58She will not eat.
00:37:00She will say, what is the future?
00:37:02You want to eat your own, you want to eat.
00:37:04There was also all things,
00:37:06the relationship was made.
00:37:08Then she said, no,
00:37:10mother depends.
00:37:12She doesn't know anything.
00:37:14He depends on the mother.
00:37:16She has gone through the life,
00:37:18the mother has come.
00:37:19So these things are like that
00:37:20their relationships don't give the relationships.
00:37:22If the life is hers,
00:37:23let's give it something to her.
00:37:25foreign
00:37:33foreign
00:37:39foreign
00:37:43foreign
00:37:47foreign
00:37:53I am telling you this, the mother of a child and the mother of a child, both have talked about another proposal.
00:38:02So when these things came, they said that it will come, so what will it happen?
00:38:06That means that the mother of a child also interferes.
00:38:11So when the mother interferes, then the relationship becomes difficult.
00:38:16There are many things that happen.
00:38:18As you can see, sometimes you give the child a little bit and talk about it.
00:38:24Now when the girl talked about it, the girl told her that I like this.
00:38:30And the girl came and told her that the mother was saying that the girl was saying that the mother was saying that the mother was not going to be the same.
00:38:38The girl said that I like the clothes, I like the clothes, I like the clothes, I like to go to hotels.
00:38:44So every girl wants to be the same, after wedding, she does everything.
00:38:48But then the mother said that, that I am not so...
00:38:50That I am not so... I don't have a whole life, my daughter...
00:38:53So there is one thing that the mother and the mother and the mother...
00:38:56And it is important that they both live.
00:38:59Every thing, when the mother interferes, then the relationship becomes very different.
00:39:03Over interference.
00:39:05Over, absolutely.
00:39:06But sometimes, like nowadays, Gen Z's love to marry at a very young age.
00:39:11They love to marry again.
00:39:13They love to marry again.
00:39:14They are thinking that the girl's growth is one of the same.
00:39:18Which also becomes a very good bonding.
00:39:21When we grow together in our careers.
00:39:24So at that time, when they are small, they are the logistics of the marriage.
00:39:29That's all.
00:39:30What is the house?
00:39:31What is the house?
00:39:32What is the house?
00:39:33What is the house?
00:39:34What is the house?
00:39:35What is the house?
00:39:36They all look at the mother-in-law.
00:39:38The girl is also the same.
00:39:39The girl is the same.
00:39:40At that time, they love them.
00:39:42The girl is good.
00:39:43The girl is good.
00:39:44Her experience is good.
00:39:45Everything is good.
00:39:46But wherever the inquiry comes,
00:39:47then you know that the girl is a mummy's idea.
00:39:50If the girl is the idea of the mother-in-law,
00:39:52the girl doesn't make any decision.
00:39:54The whole life depends on the mother-in-law.
00:39:58She will do my mother-in-law and my mother-in-law.
00:40:01She will do my mother-in-law.
00:40:02I think it's co-dependency.
00:40:04Yeah.
00:40:05It's unhealthy co-dependency.
00:40:07It's unhealthy co-dependency.
00:40:08It's unhealthy.
00:40:09It's unhealthy.
00:40:10We said that the love of mother-in-law is never bad.
00:40:15But when you use the love of interference,
00:40:18it means that someone's boundary is wrong.
00:40:21Someone's boundary is wrong.
00:40:23This is an unhealthy way.
00:40:25To get a message, it's a very good thing.
00:40:28To get a message, it doesn't mean that it's guaranteed that it will be true.
00:40:33Because ultimately, the decision is to be a girl and a girl.
00:40:37In the context of the mother-in-law,
00:40:41we can't ignore this culture.
00:40:45There is a respect that comes.
00:40:47I don't want to give a mother to my mother.
00:40:49I don't want to give a mother.
00:40:51I don't want to give a mother to her.
00:40:53I don't want to give a mother to her.
00:40:55I can't do it.
00:40:56I can't do it.
00:40:57Yes.
00:40:58Where there is obedience, there is a boundary that is wrong.
00:41:03This is a balance.
00:41:04This is a balance.
00:41:05This is a balance.
00:41:06This is a balance.
00:41:07This is a balance.
00:41:08This is a balance.
00:41:09How many mothers will think about it?
00:41:10They are in love with their children.
00:41:12They are taking love with their children.
00:41:14You tell me.
00:41:15You have arranged marriage.
00:41:18You have more than you like.
00:41:20Three children have arranged marriage.
00:41:21Yes.
00:41:22You have to have a step back.
00:41:26You have to have a marriage.
00:41:29It is like my mother.
00:41:31That is the experience.
00:41:33My experience was like that when I first took a baby,
00:41:38it was a feeling that my father was wrong.
00:41:41It was not true.
00:41:42It was a family.
00:41:43It was a feeling that it was a family.
00:41:45It was a feeling that it was different from the house.
00:41:47Where I felt a difference, my heart came.
00:41:49What happened to me?
00:41:50Then I said that it was not.
00:41:51But if only a couple things,
00:41:53he took away from both of my wife and brother.
00:41:54I have to have to have a feeling of a divorce.
00:41:56So that is why I have to have a relationship.
00:41:57That is why both of them have a marriage.
00:41:59They have to have something to have done.
00:42:00They have to have to have anything.
00:42:01They have to have all of them to have.
00:42:02This is the first mother-in-law to understand.
00:42:05To understand the house.
00:42:06To understand the parents.
00:42:07How much space does it?
00:42:08How much space does it mean?
00:42:09I am asking you.
00:42:10Tell them a little.
00:42:11I have to ask you.
00:42:12Like in the kitchen.
00:42:14In the kitchen.
00:42:15He did so much work for him to appreciate the whole family.
00:42:17Exactly.
00:42:47It is a strange thing.
00:42:49The woman takes the house.
00:42:51But we are going to go to his house.
00:42:53We are going to go to his house.
00:42:55We are going to go to his house.
00:42:57We are going to go to his house.
00:42:59You said that you have said that the kitchen is a space.
00:43:02And there are other things that you have to say,
00:43:04that my son is not a boy.
00:43:07Because when they are kids,
00:43:09they are always sitting with their mother.
00:43:11They are parents who are parents.
00:43:13And they are parents who are parents.
00:43:15So what can they do?
00:43:17Look, the first thing that is important,
00:43:19that is very important.
00:43:21The distance is very important.
00:43:25If you have a bad feeling,
00:43:27you can show it.
00:43:29You can understand it.
00:43:31You can understand it.
00:43:33Then, when we do that,
00:43:35we go to the other side.
00:43:37This is a good answer.
00:43:39We have to do it.
00:43:41Then, it seems to be true.
00:43:43What do I have done?
00:43:45I have to do it.
00:43:47I have to do it.
00:43:49I have to do it.
00:43:51I have to do it.
00:43:53This is a small thing that they do at home.
00:43:57It is my choice, but if you have a mother, it is important.
00:44:05I said, I don't know how it will happen.
00:44:08Now you have to go and manage yourself.
00:44:12First of all, I gave them the time.
00:44:14I also gave them the camera.
00:44:17I also gave them a privacy.
00:44:19I have a wife.
00:44:21I have a wife.
00:44:23I have never seen her in the house.
00:44:26I have a voice.
00:44:29I have to understand that.
00:44:32How many boundaries are they?
00:44:35I say that the people who are in the big age,
00:44:39who are the adults,
00:44:41if they look at their children,
00:44:45they get a long age.
00:44:47Yes.
00:44:48And at that time, the need for our young people, their children's presence.
00:44:55So, the clear thing is that if you keep your love with good love and love,
00:45:03then what will your heart want to go where to go?
00:45:06No.
00:45:07And this is the advantage of the young people who are watching their generations.
00:45:16Yes.
00:45:17I have a small thing about this.
00:45:19My son didn't eat food at night.
00:45:21My mother didn't want to eat food at night.
00:45:24I will have some food.
00:45:26I said, okay, now the night when she did it,
00:45:29my mother didn't have to go.
00:45:31Who is?
00:45:32I told her.
00:45:34We have to take a nap.
00:45:36It doesn't feel like my mom and dad are with me.
00:45:39It feels like privacy is our own.
00:45:41We want to do whatever we want.
00:45:43Sorry, I'm sorry,
00:45:45but there are so many houses where this realization is not.
00:45:48It doesn't need my permission.
00:45:51Yes.
00:45:52It's a very small house.
00:45:53Because the child is very important.
00:45:55She is only small for you.
00:45:57She will be small for you.
00:45:58She will come to her every time.
00:46:00But to give it the opportunity.
00:46:02That is the thing that can fly itself.
00:46:05How to understand my mom's mother's mother's family.
00:46:08That when they let go.
00:46:10Absolutely.
00:46:11He will understand it or do not want to see that it is what we do without you.
00:46:16we are not alone or we are always together.
00:46:20We are back together.
00:46:23I am so sorry, I am going to cut you.
00:46:25We are back together and then continue.
00:46:28Good morning Pakistan.
00:46:37Welcome back, Good morning Pakistan.
00:46:39See you in front of me,
00:46:40Tepal Green Tea.
00:46:43ڈپال گرین ٹی کے بارے میں بتاتی چلوں کہ اس وقت جو شادیوں کے اور جو فیسٹیوٹی کے اور جو موسم ہے
00:46:49اس میں سپیشلی بیسے تو پورے سالی لیکن اس میں سپیشلی آپ بہت زیادہ کھا لیتے ہیں
00:46:55تو آپ کے حازمہ درست کرنے کے لیے بہترین چیز ہے
00:46:58پھر ساتھ اگر میں یہ کہوں کہ اس کے اندر جو انٹی آکسیڈنس موجود ہیں
00:47:03وہ برتی عمر کے اثرات کو مدہم کرتے ہیں کنٹرول کرتے ہیں
00:47:08کینسر سے دفاع کرنے میں آپ کے لیے مددگار ثابت ہوتے ہیں
00:47:11اس کے اندر قدرتی میٹرابولک جو پروسس ہے
00:47:16وہ آپ کی بھرتے وزن کو گھٹانے میں مددگار ثابت ہوتا ہے
00:47:21اور میٹرابولک اگر آپ کا فاسٹ ہو جاتا ہے
00:47:26تو اس سے بھوک جلدی لگتی ہے
00:47:29لیکن آپ اس کو سپریس کر سکتے ہیں گرین ٹی کے ساتھ
00:47:32تو یہ ہے ٹپال گرین ٹی کی کہانی آپ کی زندگی میں
00:47:35اس کو شامل کریں اور دعائیں دیں
00:47:37سو ہم بات کر رہے تھے
00:47:39جو ہمارا آج کا ٹپک ہے
00:47:41کہ رشتوں میں ہاں اور نہ
00:47:45کن چھوٹی چھوٹی چیزوں کو مدے نظر رکھتے ہو جاتی ہے
00:47:49پیشلی والی بات ہماری کمپلیٹ ہو گی تھی
00:47:50ایک بات جس پہ تمہیں روکا تھا
00:47:52میں بہت ضرور کرنا چاہوں گی
00:47:54ڈاک صاحبہ پلیز اس بات پہ
00:47:55کہ ہم نہ بہو کو اونرشپ نہیں دیتے
00:47:59ہماری مسئلہ کیا ہے
00:48:00کہ جب ہم کسی کے
00:48:01ایبن وہ شادی دس سال پرانی ہو
00:48:03چودہ سال پرانی ہو
00:48:05بیس سال پرانی پر ہو جائے
00:48:06تو ہو گئی ہے کہ ہم رزوان بھائی کے گھر جا رہے ہیں
00:48:08ہم عرفان بھائی کے گھر
00:48:09جبکہ گھر لے کے وہ عورت چل رہی ہے
00:48:11رزوان بھائی یا تو جرمنی میں ہوں گے
00:48:13یا امریکہ میں ہوں گے
00:48:14کہیں وہ کام کرے
00:48:16ہم جیسا ہمارے گھر میں
00:48:18ہم سمینہ بھابی کے گھر جا رہے ہیں
00:48:20ہم سپر بھابی کے گھر جا رہے ہیں
00:48:22Because a house is a woman's way of being.
00:48:24brothers have been doing what to do.
00:48:26They have to get them, they have to get them,
00:48:28but if the brothers will not welcome,
00:48:30or if we don't give them,
00:48:32then I feel like a small thing,
00:48:34if we add on.
00:48:35It's a beautiful thing.
00:48:37It's a beautiful thing.
00:48:39You have to say that you don't understand your house.
00:48:43Your mother can't understand your house.
00:48:45I can tell you that when one house is in two women,
00:48:50And we are giving them that we can't live in a month in a month.
00:48:54When we talk and talk about it,
00:48:57then who should we give and who should we take?
00:49:01This is very intelligent.
00:49:02I will tell you,
00:49:03when we were married Saminah,
00:49:05she was my first mother-in-law.
00:49:07But every mother wanted her own kitchen.
00:49:11My mother was very intelligent.
00:49:13So what was Saminah's intelligent?
00:49:15She was learning to eat and eat.
00:49:17She was learning to come to her.
00:49:18If you put it,
00:49:21you put it in the middle of the house.
00:49:23So you put it in the middle of the house.
00:49:25Look at how much is the big one to give her.
00:49:28Look at how much is the big one.
00:49:30If you put it in the middle of the house,
00:49:32then you put it in the middle of the house.
00:49:34It's fine, it's fine.
00:49:37We all gave support to her.
00:49:39It was also that she was intelligent.
00:49:40So she was doing everything.
00:49:43She was doing everything.
00:49:45When I was working in the showbiz, I called my daughter and said that my daughter is 10 people
00:49:52in the house.
00:49:53Don't think about it.
00:49:54I just give a cup of coffee and a cup of coffee and a cup of coffee.
00:50:00Another important thing is that every girl has a strength.
00:50:05My daughter is the strength to keep her clean, clean and organize.
00:50:11It doesn't work in the kitchen.
00:50:13I just give a cup of coffee and I have a cup of coffee.
00:50:20My daughter is free.
00:50:22He is free.
00:50:23He is free.
00:50:24He is free.
00:50:25He is also free.
00:50:27He also makes his mouth.
00:50:28So, if he has a cup of coffee, he says that your house changed.
00:50:32You can see that after going to the mother,
00:50:35a woman is not going to be a woman.
00:50:39all the people who wouldn't have been in the kitchen and there were no dorms to be living.
00:50:44But at the time of church they couldn't have adjusted the house like that as they were
00:50:48in the room.
00:50:50They were doing the first time, but they were doing it through their lesquiet room.
00:50:55They were taking the whole clothes and left from the house.
00:50:56I thought that you would be going to go to the house.
00:50:59He did not see the house in the kitchen, they would not go to the house.
00:51:04They wouldn't go to the house.
00:51:06We have a strength to see that the girl in our house is a good administrator,
00:51:11he is a good organizer, he is a good organizer,
00:51:14he is a good organizer,
00:51:15what to do, when to do it, how to do it.
00:51:17We will only see the quality that she doesn't cook.
00:51:20We will only see that she doesn't cook.
00:51:23If you are looking at her as much as your son,
00:51:26as much as your son,
00:51:28as much as your son is getting so much,
00:51:30they are going to go to the house.
00:51:32So, who is your son?
00:51:33Your son is your son.
00:51:34You are looking at my son,
00:51:36she is asking for the hotel,
00:51:38she is getting food outside,
00:51:41she is getting food outside,
00:51:42where is she going to go?
00:51:43Look, her son is getting more.
00:51:45She is paying for the bills,
00:51:47she is paying for the money.
00:51:49She is paying for the color,
00:51:51she is paying for the money.
00:51:53She is paying for the gadgets,
00:51:55or your luxury,
00:51:57you are going to go to the vacations,
00:51:58she is paying for the money.
00:51:59So, all of these things
00:52:01we need to increase our heart.
00:52:03We need to increase our heart.
00:52:05We need to increase our heart.
00:52:07We need to increase our big expenses.
00:52:08We need to increase our thoughts,
00:52:10which we need to increase our thoughts.
00:52:11So, we need to discuss the skills.
00:52:12We should say it again.
00:52:13We have to raise our topic.
00:52:14We need to expand our topics,
00:52:15which is much more self-insured.
00:52:18So, we need to be persistent to this relationship,
00:52:19which are more challenges.
00:52:20What are the problems?
00:52:21What are the problems?
00:52:22Where are they? What problems are they?
00:52:25Next, Rubi Ji.
00:52:27My daughter, MashaAllah, did an MBA.
00:52:30And when I was studying, I started getting married.
00:52:33My kids are going to parties, going to marriage.
00:52:36People like me.
00:52:37But at the beginning, I told myself,
00:52:39Mom, I will complete my education and have a job.
00:52:44When I am taking a degree as a professional, I will do a job.
00:52:48After that, I will do it.
00:52:51But please, please, I don't do it.
00:52:53Just like you have done it.
00:52:55You have done it.
00:52:57You have done it.
00:52:59You have done it.
00:53:01There is no problem.
00:53:03My daughter is getting married.
00:53:05My daughter has skills.
00:53:07You have to do it.
00:53:09She has done it.
00:53:11She has done it.
00:53:13She has a job.
00:53:15She is in the future.
00:53:17She is driving.
00:53:19She is doing it.
00:53:20She is doing it.
00:53:21She is working.
00:53:22She has a lot of work.
00:53:23She has got lucky.
00:53:24I saw that.
00:53:25She is working.
00:53:26It is a good relationship.
00:53:27Looking at our intimate relationship.
00:53:29We talked about it.
00:53:30She helped me.
00:53:31Another relationship is in one of our relationships.
00:53:32We talked to them.
00:53:33She helped me.
00:53:34And she did a beautiful relationship.
00:53:35But she helped me to work.
00:53:36She helped me.
00:53:37She helped me.
00:53:38She helped me.
00:53:39Yes she helped me.
00:53:41That's what we need to add.
00:53:43That is how we can do this.
00:53:45There is a family there.
00:53:47A family is known for our family.
00:53:49That we had to call it that we had to do something and look to us.
00:53:53The other house had a decent.
00:53:54The next room was very good.
00:53:56The house had an excellent job.
00:53:58We were very loved.
00:54:00We went to our house.
00:54:02And that we had our own family.
00:54:04After we had a engagement.
00:54:06We had a great pleasure of helping others.
00:54:08It was our best to welcome all of us.
00:54:10Now, the time is very good.
00:54:11Now, when the time was gone,
00:54:13it was a time when she came to us.
00:54:15When she came to us,
00:54:17they came to us.
00:54:19She came to us for the time.
00:54:21She came to us for the time.
00:54:23She said,
00:54:24she said,
00:54:25she said,
00:54:25she said,
00:54:27she said,
00:54:28I was so disappointed in my life.
00:54:31I thought,
00:54:32I was so disappointed.
00:54:35She said,
00:54:35job and others away.
00:54:37And she said,
00:54:39You can take your home and take your home.
00:54:41You can take your home.
00:54:43This is your home.
00:54:45This is your home.
00:54:47You can take your home.
00:54:49My mother is very good.
00:54:51I am very happy with my child.
00:54:53My child is coming from that place.
00:54:57She has been told before.
00:54:59When we have discussed this once
00:55:01and you have agreed with it,
00:55:03you will come to the next one.
00:55:05A month before...
00:55:07You can take your home.
00:55:09You can take your home.
00:55:11You can take your home.
00:55:13You can take your home.
00:55:15You can take your home.
00:55:17Now, my child has been here.
00:55:19I have said that this is my husband is saying.
00:55:21She is very frustrated.
00:55:23She has been attacked.
00:55:25She has not eaten.
00:55:27We asked her to marry.
00:55:29You know how much I am.
00:55:31I have a very good position.
00:55:33I am going to go with it.
00:55:35You can take your home too.
00:55:37It is good for her.
00:55:39Me, where are your kids working?
00:55:41Yes, she is doing.
00:55:43People are doing it.
00:55:44But if the parents have been doing it,
00:55:45the children do it.
00:55:46When I heard a kid who's reading on it,
00:55:47they say that they are reading on their head.
00:55:48They do it.
00:55:49It has done it.
00:55:50We have done it.
00:55:51We also have done it.
00:55:52But when they are doing it,
00:55:54when they are doing it.
00:55:56I have done it, I have done it, I have done it, I have done it, I have done it.
00:56:02Now, let's leave the food, when she becomes a mother, she will be totally responsible for it.
00:56:08She thinks about her own home before. She thinks about her job.
00:56:12Now, when I said this, I said, do it, do it, do it, do it.
00:56:16What point of view is that her mother has talked to us about her knowledge.
00:56:21When my daughter spoke personally, then she said,
00:56:25what my mother is saying, you will have to accept it.
00:56:29You will leave it.
00:56:30Mashallah, my salary is also good.
00:56:32Whatever you want to do, I will be prepared for everything to do.
00:56:35There is no such problem.
00:56:37Mashallah, people are like our family.
00:56:39But one thing happens when a child is attached to us,
00:56:43she doesn't have money.
00:56:45She doesn't have money.
00:56:46She doesn't have money.
00:56:47She doesn't have money.
00:56:48She doesn't have money.
00:56:49She doesn't have money.
00:56:50She doesn't have money.
00:56:51She doesn't have money.
00:56:52She doesn't have money.
00:56:54She doesn't have money.
00:56:55She doesn't have money.
00:56:56She doesn't have money.
00:56:57She doesn't have money.
00:56:58We have to have money.
00:56:59So, and my husband and husband said, no,
00:57:01when my child is this thing agree,
00:57:04if I can do it, then I will go to the marriage.
00:57:06If I can do it, then she will go to the marriage.
00:57:07If I can do it.
00:57:08If I can do it, then my child will be given up.
00:57:10Then there will be more problems.
00:57:12So that's why we had a little bit of engagement.
00:57:17It's not a good person, but it's not a good person.
00:57:20And that's why I say that we need to do engagement.
00:57:23So that the other person will be able to study,
00:57:25and the things that you are in front of.
00:57:27I know a family.
00:57:30I will second you.
00:57:32There were two daughters, who was a big daughter,
00:57:35and she said to me that I should be able to study on her legs.
00:57:38It was a very well-oved family.
00:57:40But the girl wanted to study.
00:57:43She wanted to be able to study on her legs.
00:57:46She told her about her parents.
00:57:48She would get married in her family.
00:57:50She was a little girl.
00:57:52She didn't have a shock to her.
00:57:54She said, I want to marry her.
00:57:56The parents married her daughter.
00:57:58She said, I don't want to marry her.
00:58:00She said, I don't want to marry her.
00:58:02She said, I don't want to marry her.
00:58:04But she didn't want to marry her.
00:58:06She married her.
00:58:08If I was a parent married her,
00:58:10she was very old.
00:58:11Nobody wanted to marry her.
00:58:14The parents married her parent.
00:58:17No, she didn't.
00:58:17She married her older and a young man,
00:58:18discussion.
00:58:19When I married her young,
00:58:20she married her young adult.
00:58:21The safety of her young adult,
00:58:23she wanted her girl for life.
00:58:25Hers 엄마-孩子 got married.
00:58:27She Queen's divorced.
00:58:28She didn't want to marry her.
00:58:30So she wasn't going to marry her.
00:58:31Exactly
00:58:32In this case, there are two core things, two core beliefs which I want to highlight.
00:58:37The first thing is that the assumption is that a woman's work is not able to manage a home.
00:58:43This should be clear to you now.
00:58:47Better to manage it.
00:58:49Exactly.
00:58:50This is a core belief.
00:58:51If you understand, Ruby, if you understand that you also have a home,
00:58:56if you work, you will not give attention to your home.
00:58:59Basically, your daughter's daughter thought, if I assume here,
00:59:05because I don't want to do it, it's better to ask.
00:59:07But the thing that I felt at this time,
00:59:11is that if she works, she can keep a mass.
00:59:16She will not give attention to her.
00:59:20Exactly.
00:59:21There is no such a thought.
00:59:23That will help.
00:59:25Right.
00:59:26The other thing that is very common in our country culture,
00:59:30and you also have to be aware of this thing,
00:59:32that is the power struggle.
00:59:34We don't talk about power struggle.
00:59:36We don't talk about power struggle.
00:59:38We don't talk about it.
00:59:39We don't talk about it.
00:59:40We don't talk about power struggle.
00:59:42It means that it's a very strong issue.
00:59:44But it is not that we have to play with them.
00:59:46We don't talk about power.
00:59:48Like I said, we don't talk about strength.
00:59:50We don't know how strong it is.
00:59:51And the other thing is,
00:59:52we don't talk about power struggle.
00:59:53There are two core issues in this story.
00:59:57One is to assume that a child can be able to work with a house.
01:00:03There is no need to be a person.
01:00:06We don't know what strength is.
01:00:08The other thing is power struggle.
01:00:10Power struggle is that if you have a young age,
01:00:13it will fall out easily.
01:00:14It will not be more than that.
01:00:16It will just be happy with it.
01:00:18One of the power struggle is that
01:00:20if he has gained more than my son,
01:00:23he will be able to do his own mind.
01:00:25People, this too...
01:00:26Look, this is unconsciously.
01:00:28Unconsciously.
01:00:29Unconsciously.
01:00:30No one doesn't say anything.
01:00:31There are a lot of people who listen to
01:00:34and their heart is broken.
01:00:36But this happens.
01:00:37I have many children who tell us
01:00:41what was thinking and done.
01:00:43That is your assumption.
01:00:45Let's talk about this.
01:00:47Financial discussions always,
01:00:49we have a difficult conversation.
01:00:52It is very necessary.
01:00:53But it is very necessary.
01:00:54It is very necessary.
01:00:55It is very necessary.
01:00:56It is very necessary.
01:00:57It is very necessary to take a break.
01:00:58It is very necessary to come and continue to come.
01:01:00Good morning Pakistan.
01:01:01Good morning Pakistan.
01:01:07Welcome, welcome back.
01:01:08Good morning Pakistan.
01:01:09The last segment,
01:01:10I think it was a very important segment of this program.
01:01:14that you have seen Dr. Bhahoo.
01:01:17And when you meet Dr. Bhahoo,
01:01:20because you have to show in the hotel,
01:01:22we have to take a doctor.
01:01:24Then you will put a home to Dr. Bhahoo.
01:01:26He can do so hard,
01:01:28How much work for a medical student is to be able to work for a degree.
01:01:35How much work they need to be able to do it.
01:01:41So I feel so sad and so sad that you have a professional degree.
01:01:46You know that she is taking a professional degree.
01:01:52At that time, you have made a show in the whole family.
01:01:56And then you have to be able to do it.
01:02:02So why did you say that we need a doctor?
01:02:06This is very wrong.
01:02:08If you want a girl, it's your choice.
01:02:11You say that we need a girl.
01:02:13We need a relationship.
01:02:15You say it's your choice.
01:02:17No one has to be able to do it.
01:02:19But why do you choose this?
01:02:22Now I will ask you.
01:02:24When the girl's choice is going to go,
01:02:28the mother is looking at her.
01:02:30The mother is looking at her.
01:02:32She will support me.
01:02:34Okay.
01:02:35If she is saying that you are a girl, you know a girl.
01:02:40And the girl is saying that if she is working at home for a day,
01:02:43she will be tired of me.
01:02:44I don't need to be tired of me.
01:02:46I don't need to be tired of me.
01:02:48I want my friend.
01:02:50I want to be able to do my family.
01:02:52I want to be compatible.
01:02:54So who should go to the relationship here?
01:02:58The girl?
01:03:00Is it right?
01:03:01And who does the encouragement or encouragement?
01:03:04A girl or a girl.
01:03:06Okay, let's see.
01:03:07Let's talk about a practical thing.
01:03:09It doesn't happen.
01:03:10It doesn't happen.
01:03:11At the beginning of the relationship, the girl is going to go.
01:03:13The girl needs to know the girl.
01:03:15The girl needs to know the girl.
01:03:17And she needs to tell the mother.
01:03:19Look, I don't like a girl.
01:03:21I want a girl in the kitchen.
01:03:24If she wants a girl, I don't want a girl.
01:03:26There are many girls.
01:03:27I usually help people.
01:03:29So the girl who knows the people.
01:03:31So, please let us take the girl.
01:03:33And she will see that we need a house.
01:03:35We don't want a girl.
01:03:37She has a choice.
01:03:38And many girls do this.
01:03:40They say that we don't do the job.
01:03:42We don't have a job.
01:03:43Now we don't have a job.
01:03:44It's the right thing.
01:03:45Okay.
01:03:46Everyone has their choices.
01:03:47The girl needs clarity before the marriage.
01:03:50What she needs to be in her partner.
01:03:52Exactly.
01:03:53Then, the values are your values.
01:03:55Tell them to be simple.
01:03:56Tell them to be simple.
01:03:57What happens to be simple?
01:03:58What happens to be simple?
01:03:59When you look at traditional proposals and methods,
01:04:03What happens to be good?
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01:04:45I have to say that if you have to do three circumstances in the family,
01:04:51then you should have a good question, this new thing,
01:04:55which the question and the answer to the two of you,
01:04:59there is something that comes in your relationship,
01:05:02in your relationship, in your future aspirations,
01:05:07that you want to do it.
01:05:08There are many couples who don't want to do children.
01:05:13They have to pressure.
01:05:15There is a lot of family pressure.
01:05:17Children, I will say that in the late 30s,
01:05:21they have to get married.
01:05:23They have to be the first pressure,
01:05:25that you have to be the biological clock.
01:05:27This is such a personal thing for a child.
01:05:33In the first time, children were listening,
01:05:35but you didn't listen to them.
01:05:37This is such a personal choice,
01:05:39that you can't speak.
01:05:41Now on social media platforms,
01:05:43they have to be married.
01:05:45But before I get married,
01:05:47how do I talk about this?
01:05:49That I have to have a relationship with you.
01:05:51You don't have to have a child.
01:05:53That's right.
01:05:55I don't know the fact that the child's who has been married,
01:05:59and the child's who has been married.
01:06:01That is how she can continue to live,
01:06:03and that is how she can live,
01:06:05and that she can do things that is the right,
01:06:07that's how she can address the right questions that it will be changed.
01:06:09It's such a place to be.
01:06:11That's how we talk about it.
01:06:12So for people,
01:06:13it's ready to be ready for real.
01:06:15After a child, it is only a child's child.
01:06:18Frankly, I have talked about this case.
01:06:21The readiness of the child is also necessary.
01:06:24A woman says,
01:06:26I have two children in front of my wife,
01:06:28and my wife is so hard,
01:06:29and she says,
01:06:30I don't want children.
01:06:32Why did you not take measures?
01:06:34You know, you can be mindful of many things.
01:06:37Absolutely.
01:06:38One more important thing is,
01:06:40we respect a lot,
01:06:42that man doesn't want children.
01:06:45Sometimes women don't want children.
01:06:47And sometimes it happens,
01:06:49that women don't want children,
01:06:52and women don't want children.
01:06:54So, it should be on both sides,
01:06:56that women,
01:06:57women are scared,
01:06:58saying,
01:06:59I'm not going to be a mother,
01:07:00but...
01:07:01Do you want to talk about marriage before?
01:07:03Yes.
01:07:04After marriage,
01:07:05it is not a part of it.
01:07:07The girl is very shocked,
01:07:10that I am a child,
01:07:12or I want children.
01:07:13So,
01:07:14this is also a thing,
01:07:16that it is a part of it.
01:07:18Now, we are starting to talk about it.
01:07:21Now, let's go to Hina's side,
01:07:23and Hina,
01:07:24what is going to tell us?
01:07:25Assalamualaikum.
01:07:26Assalamualaikum.
01:07:27How are you doing?
01:07:28Assalamualaikum.
01:07:29I want to tell you,
01:07:30that I have a tragedy with my wife.
01:07:32My wife is called.
01:07:33My wife is called.
01:07:34My wife is called.
01:07:35She is good.
01:07:36She is good.
01:07:37She is good.
01:07:38So,
01:07:39we are looking for her.
01:07:40We are looking for her.
01:07:42We have seen a lot of her.
01:07:43But we have a lot of her.
01:07:44And then,
01:07:45I love her.
01:07:46My wife said,
01:07:47that she is not looking for her.
01:07:48It is a really nice relationship.
01:07:50I said,
01:07:51okay,
01:07:52let me do it.
01:07:53And then,
01:07:54they came after they came.
01:07:55Everything happens.
01:07:56It is like the situation.
01:07:57She is not coming from the mic.
01:07:59Yes,
01:08:00it is.
01:08:01When the girl came to the conversation, she asked me how to do this, and she asked me how to do this.
01:08:08She said, she was talking about the two daughters.
01:08:11We thought that there are two daughters here.
01:08:16I asked her to ask her, you know, your daughter, your daughter, etc.
01:08:19She said, okay, it's true.
01:08:22She said, she gave us a gift.
01:08:24She asked, you know, who will come from?
01:08:27I said, okay, I said, we will come.
01:08:30We went to their house and the house was good, the kids were good, it was good in the picture and the biface was good.
01:08:42I was thinking that the way she was talking, she didn't understand anything.
01:08:50What kind of things?
01:08:52I mean, how are you, how are you, how are you, how are you.
01:08:58I mean, his wife didn't speak the first time.
01:09:01So he was saying the girl.
01:09:04But I ignored him, he didn't do it.
01:09:08Then his wife was sitting here, his daughter came to sit and talk about it.
01:09:12We have seen the girl and the girl, it was right.
01:09:15He came to the chai and the baby and the baby came.
01:09:18I think that the person who told her to go and take tea,
01:09:24and take a drink, and they were given a rule.
01:09:28With the person who was the rule,
01:09:31it didn't make a good choice.
01:09:33This is the way to judge.
01:09:36It is a good observation.
01:09:39How to treat the first person who was the first person.
01:09:42It is a good thing.
01:09:44We don't need to see these things, because our daughter is a good idea.
01:09:48In that case, they saw this thing, so I was confused.
01:09:51I was watching her before, but she kept drinking tea and drinking tea.
01:09:56When I drank tea, I drank a little bit.
01:09:59It was a little bit less.
01:10:01It was a normal thing.
01:10:02I said that the weight is less.
01:10:04She will put it in it.
01:10:05She was a daughter, she was a son.
01:10:07She said, she said,
01:10:09She said, we will make our daughter,
01:10:11and she will make her own tea.
01:10:13Now I feel like I'm going to go to the other side, but it's also someone's son.
01:10:18That's so much for understanding that you have to be able to understand that.
01:10:21That's just that you have to go through the whole story.
01:10:26There are little things that need to be observed, especially for girls' families.
01:10:33Sometimes they feel good.
01:10:36Obviously a girl has a happy face, a woman has a house.
01:10:40So all these red flags, who are looking at them,
01:10:43they are ignored in these things.
01:10:45They don't know.
01:10:46This is a big thing.
01:10:47This is a big thing.
01:10:48This is a big thing.
01:10:49Our daughter will come to her house.
01:10:51Absolutely.
01:10:52Today, with this woman,
01:10:54the other woman is with her.
01:10:56If she is in front of us,
01:10:58what will she do next?
01:11:00And it's not just the sas then.
01:11:02This is the name of the baby.
01:11:05The name of the baby.
01:11:07The name of the baby.
01:11:09One more important thing.
01:11:11Whenever,
01:11:13when the family is a little bit tired,
01:11:15the woman will stay with the baby.
01:11:17That's why.
01:11:18The girl is good.
01:11:19Everything is done.
01:11:20My question is.
01:11:21I will tell you exactly,
01:11:23in my mind,
01:11:24that in your life,
01:11:27your sentence structure,
01:11:29the tans,
01:11:31the fun of the tans.
01:11:33It is not a good time.
01:11:35It's a great time.
01:11:37the tans,
01:11:39the tans,
01:11:40the tans,
01:11:41the tans,
01:11:42the relationship.
01:11:43Right.
01:11:44So,
01:11:45who you are saying
01:11:47and who you are saying,
01:11:49you are showing yourself.
01:11:51Basically,
01:11:52it's a mirror.
01:11:53You're showing.
01:11:54You're showing.
01:11:55I want to show you some of the things that are being said.
01:12:00You said that, you know.
01:12:01I mean, there is an assumption here,
01:12:04that this is not being said about a woman.
01:12:08No, it is not being said about a woman.
01:12:09But if she talked a little bit about that this woman,
01:12:15she knew that she is a woman.
01:12:16And she didn't get married to her daughter.
01:12:19So, she didn't give them her to her.
01:12:21She was saying herself.
01:12:22because it will be a lot of times
01:12:25that wherever the mother and the daughter
01:12:28are going to bond.
01:12:29A lot of girls say that our mother doesn't want
01:12:32that we are giving money on the house
01:12:34and our mother doesn't want to get married
01:12:36because the money will increase.
01:12:38That's right. That's what we think.
01:12:40A lot in the house.
01:12:42First hand information.
01:12:44These are daily things.
01:12:47People actually suffer from this.
01:12:50But then the mother is less.
01:12:52If the mother and the mother
01:12:56don't have a family at home.
01:12:58So the mother or the daughter
01:12:59do this.
01:13:01They do something like that
01:13:03if the brother doesn't want to be married
01:13:05their parents are buying their children
01:13:07and they are buying their children
01:13:09and they will become their family.
01:13:11So the older person is not good.
01:13:15The relationship goes on.
01:13:17It can be seen in a lot of dramas and things.
01:13:20I think, what is the meaning behind it?
01:13:23Why do you have to say that you have to say that there will be a mistake?
01:13:29And you will also know that you have to say that you have to say that you have to say that you have to show your personality.
01:13:36Okay, I'm going to ask you a very important question.
01:13:39And that is that, look, there are people in your family in your home.
01:13:42They are very good people too.
01:13:44And there is no one, there is a little mizaj.
01:13:47So what do you do if there is a family in your family?
01:13:50The rest are very good.
01:13:51But if there is no one in your family, whether it is a mother, a father, a big daughter or a big brother,
01:13:59they are mizaj.
01:14:01So what do you do if there is no one in that house?
01:14:03Or if there is no one in that house.
01:14:07This is a big problem for both families.
01:14:09It is a big problem.
01:14:10It is a big problem.
01:14:11But then you have to see boundaries.
01:14:12You have to see this.
01:14:14Like the last guest said that mom and dad were very much.
01:14:18That everything is mom and dad.
01:14:19So there is interference.
01:14:20Okay.
01:14:21So there is a healthy boundary.
01:14:22It is very important.
01:14:23It is very important.
01:14:24It is very important.
01:14:26I didn't understand you.
01:14:27Now, for example, if you have a relationship with a girl.
01:14:30If you have a relationship with a girl, you know that our mother is a child.
01:14:34Okay.
01:14:35The house is perfect.
01:14:36The value is perfect.
01:14:37But the mother's nature is like this.
01:14:39Now, the child cannot change the mother.
01:14:42What will she do?
01:14:43The mother will go to the relationship.
01:14:44The child is very good.
01:14:45The child is very good.
01:14:46The child is very good.
01:14:47The child is very good.
01:14:48The child is very good.
01:14:49But the problem is negative.
01:14:50Like in every family, the child is a child.
01:14:53Now, it wants to be a woman and how much she wants to change.
01:15:00If she has a woman who can compromise, she will continue.
01:15:02Like we said, that a woman can be a compromise.
01:15:05But a compromise cannot be inserted.
01:15:08You can not go to a mom.
01:15:11Either she cannot take the mother.
01:15:12Or her mother will set boundaries on the child's child's children.
01:15:16The child will be married of love.
01:15:18So like a girl who has a planned marriage now.
01:15:19She can't accept the marriage in arrangement.
01:15:21I don't want to sacrifice you.
01:15:23Why do you sacrifice yourself?
01:15:25Why are you doing your insults?
01:15:27Why are you doing your insults?
01:15:29Why are you doing your insults?
01:15:31In love, Doctor, it is that you love yourself.
01:15:33You can tell your whole story.
01:15:35It's like my mother's nature.
01:15:37What story is like that?
01:15:39I'm saying that they're like their soul.
01:15:41Or they're like their soul.
01:15:43Or they're like their soul.
01:15:45Or they're like their soul.
01:15:47The situation is like their soul.
01:15:49That's what I think, Doctor.
01:15:51If you know someone in your house.
01:15:55Then tell them first.
01:15:57I'm not prepared.
01:15:58No.
01:15:59We'll tell them that we're separated.
01:16:01If you can't change them.
01:16:03That's the choice.
01:16:05Many people say that we have to live with her.
01:16:08Then you have to stop.
01:16:10And some people say that I'll keep you alive.
01:16:13I won't stay in joint.
01:16:15This is the girl.
01:16:17How much do you compromise?
01:16:19I'm going to take a break.
01:16:21We're going to take a break.
01:16:23Then let's talk about this.
01:16:25Good morning.
01:16:31Welcome. Welcome back. Good morning Pakistan.
01:16:33Okay.
01:16:34Great.
01:16:35Thank you so much.
01:16:37I'm sorry.
01:16:39I've got some questions.
01:16:41Thank you so much.
01:16:43Have you discussed this yesterday?
01:16:44It's like a whole family, a good house.
01:16:47But somewhere, somewhere, there are things that come to mind that no.
01:16:51Red flags are looking for both families.
01:16:54So if we conclude our whole program,
01:16:58what did we learn from each other,
01:17:01which I have understood?
01:17:03We learned that, like,
01:17:05people have said that there is no need.
01:17:08There is no need.
01:17:10There is no need.
01:17:12There is no need.
01:17:14We will not get a bed of roses.
01:17:16But there is no need to be very dangerous.
01:17:19But after that,
01:17:20we will get a little bit of information.
01:17:22Because before that,
01:17:24there are so many young people,
01:17:26that we don't have to talk about.
01:17:28Dr. Dr. Sahib has given us a great eye opening.
01:17:32A great eye opening question.
01:17:34We can understand it.
01:17:37We can open it.
01:17:39Another important thing is
01:17:41that we don't have to do a big deal.
01:17:44It is kind of like that
01:17:45the sins will become a woman,
01:17:47not we can understand it.
01:17:49What is one of the reasons for child marriage?
01:17:50The situation will happen.
01:17:51Therefore,
01:17:52part of the relationship doesn't happen.
01:17:53It is impossible for child marriage.
01:17:54It is impossible for child marriage.
01:17:55Which is impossible for child marriage.
01:17:56But it is impossible for child marriage.
01:17:57From the relationship that is not just for child marriage.
01:17:58And in the relationship that is what I meant to do,
01:17:59they can ask for their compatibility.
01:18:03They are not given to film romance for you.
01:18:06Those circumstances are the reason why you can design your future.
01:18:12Do you know what you need from life?
01:18:15And the circumstances of the family should be necessary to stay home.
01:18:19This is very necessary for you.
01:18:21You are giving your daughter or you are giving your daughter.
01:18:25Both families are very necessary for that.
01:18:28that they will bring together or not.
01:18:31One very important thing is that husband and wife
01:18:36who are coming together,
01:18:38is the capacity of friendship?
01:18:41Is it possible to see one another as a friend?
01:18:44Because, look, our dynamic is necessary.
01:18:48Yes, it is.
01:18:48We have to change the age,
01:18:51the family background,
01:18:53we have to change the girls' family,
01:18:56and we have to compromise that we are well-off,
01:18:59but our child is more than ever.
01:19:02So, we have our children in such a house,
01:19:05which is a little bit less.
01:19:07And this is how it happens.
01:19:08Yes, it happens.
01:19:10This is not necessary.
01:19:12The age doesn't matter much.
01:19:14What matters is that your values are the same.
01:19:18My and my mother's first value is family.
01:19:21Family is the strength.
01:19:23We all are the family.
01:19:25So, that's why I am also able to adjust in a joint system.
01:19:30Yes.
01:19:30I will be surprised to say,
01:19:33why do I have to tell you that I have to leave there?
01:19:36Yes.
01:19:37Yes.
01:19:37I also want to stay together.
01:19:40Yes, of course.
01:19:40But if I want to stay together,
01:19:43and this applies to everything,
01:19:45you want to stay together,
01:19:47you want to stay together.
01:19:49What will I have to be happy?
01:19:52What will I have to be happy?
01:19:52What will I have to be created?
01:19:54What will I have to be created?
01:19:55To see the content,
01:19:57or to see the others below,
01:19:59this will not be possible.
01:20:00Tons, sarcasm,
01:20:03and the question of the question.
01:20:04We will talk about marriage.
01:20:05Now, we are starting,
01:20:07basically, our program's program,
01:20:10when we are starting to see the dates,
01:20:14then we should keep those dates.
01:20:17Absolutely.
01:20:18Yes.
01:20:18And one very important thing,
01:20:20we have to be broken the dates on the day.
01:20:23Yes.
01:20:23Okay?
01:20:24We have 100 people in the day.
01:20:28You will have 100 people in the day.
01:20:30Okay.
01:20:31One girl is gone.
01:20:32Okay.
01:20:32How do we say that?
01:20:33We will have 100 people in the day.
01:20:34Everyone has their budgets.
01:20:35They have their budgets.
01:20:36Okay.
01:20:36Many people have to be mindful of it.
01:20:38I don't want to take a marriage.
01:20:41Or, the kids have their budgets.
01:20:45If they have their 30,000 budget,
01:20:46they can't give them 1,500,000.
01:20:48So, the kids will tell us,
01:20:49we have our 30,000 budget,
01:20:51if you want to make them.
01:20:53You can make them 30,000.
01:20:54You can make them 30,000.
01:20:55If you want to add more money,
01:20:56you can do it yourself.
01:20:57Nita, on the way you are going,
01:20:59these are the things that are deal breakers.
01:21:02Yes.
01:21:02Okay.
01:21:03You have to decide the girl to the girl
01:21:04what is the deal breaker for us.
01:21:06Okay.
01:21:07The true things are not deal breakers.
01:21:10They are only...
01:21:11It's like,
01:21:12when you get angry at a wedding.
01:21:15This is a kind of thing.
01:21:16You are giving the importance of the people.
01:21:20They are giving the importance of the people.
01:21:22They are giving the advice of the people.
01:21:24What is the impact of the girl's life of the girl's life?
01:21:29You know?
01:21:30It's the most important thing.
01:21:31It's the most important thing.
01:21:32It's the most important thing.
01:21:33It's the most important thing.
01:21:34You will see this before婚.
01:21:35You will see this before婚.
01:21:38Yes.
01:21:39Yes.
01:21:40It's the most important thing.
01:21:41It's the most important thing.
01:21:42It's the most important thing.
01:21:43It's the most important thing.
01:21:44We have to be able to get the girl who needs the girl.
01:21:46Yes.
01:21:47party's make up to do it, so do it.
01:21:50If this understanding is a girl in a girl,
01:21:53in the details that my husband is so much
01:21:56and we can manage this,
01:21:58so the big things are better.
01:22:00No, the relationship is better.
01:22:02Or the relationship is better.
01:22:04So, there are such big examples in our front.
01:22:07There are many relationships that have been made
01:22:09and I've seen that the girls are so much
01:22:12that I've seen so much.
01:22:15and we have seen that the children have told us that we don't have money, we have taken this
01:22:29and we have taken it to the sale, we have taken it to the sale, we have taken it to the sale, we have taken it to the sale
01:22:35and we have planned our first honeymoon, we have planned the money, because we want to spend time together
01:22:43and we have to be mindful of that, for those two people
01:22:47that give you time to those two people
01:22:49which is the whole show that the two people have spent their lives
01:22:55they need to give a little time, they need to give a little time
01:22:59to both of the parents
01:23:01and both of the girls have asked what their life aspirations are
01:23:05it doesn't matter if you love me, then you sacrifice it
01:23:09it's very important
01:23:11so in the end
01:23:13you have said
01:23:15that the most important thing is
01:23:17that when a relationship is in two houses
01:23:19you need to match values
01:23:21right
01:23:23it's very different
01:23:25so it's difficult
01:23:27it's a little bit
01:23:29it's not like everyone's house
01:23:31it's a little bit
01:23:33it's a little bit
01:23:35it can make a little bit
01:23:37it's a little bit
01:23:39one of the things is the two people have come
01:23:41and what things have come
01:23:43the same thing is the need to give to the child to the child
01:23:45it's very important
01:23:46it's very important
01:23:47it wasn't your age
01:23:49it also didn't have expectations
01:23:51you can talk about the child's consent
01:23:53to the child's consent without family pressure?
01:23:57The child's consent is especially this.
01:24:00Do they have ready to marry for now?
01:24:03Ready.
01:24:04He wants to learn, he wants to sit in their arms
01:24:06and he wants to wear everything at home.
01:24:08It will come to the side of the house.
01:24:10It will come out of the hand.
01:24:12It will come out of the side of the child's engagement.
01:24:14You will get upset.
01:24:16It is very difficult after marriage.
01:24:18After the child, to continue with learning.
01:24:20This is not a common thing.
01:24:23After marriage, you don't have to move on to a lot of things.
01:24:28So, the big points, please keep it in mind.
01:24:33And just look at the face of the whole life.
01:24:38Oh, what a beautiful child.
01:24:40And then the face of the face is not like that.
01:24:44A little research with this.
01:24:47Gotman Institute says that,
01:24:50when you look at someone's face,
01:24:53you feel easy to trust them.
01:24:56But this is not a parameter.
01:24:59This is not a marriage.
01:25:01In the parameters of marriage,
01:25:03where the life satisfaction comes from,
01:25:05is emotional intelligence.
01:25:08Emotional literacy.
01:25:10Does this girl say something else,
01:25:12in the same way,
01:25:13and in the same way?
01:25:14Yes.
01:25:15So, there is a boundary that understands,
01:25:18and the other's boundaries.
01:25:20Right?
01:25:21Same goes for the boys.
01:25:23It's also this for boys.
01:25:24They know that they need what they need.
01:25:27First of all, self-awareness
01:25:28and emotional regulation.
01:25:30Absolutely, absolutely. So now the topic has been further.
01:25:34It's not just a beautiful measure for finding a good boy,
01:25:38or it's not just a good amount of money for finding a good boy.
01:25:41And there is a lot more than that.
01:25:44Life, if there is an emotional intelligence,
01:25:49it can be a lot better, whether it's a girl or a girl.
01:25:54So what does it matter in today's time?
01:25:57It's a great idea.
01:26:00So, think about it.
01:26:02And if we apply the things we've done today,
01:26:05we can do better.
01:26:10There's a lot of things that we can do.
01:26:13If we take a TV home, please,
01:26:16please, please, please, please, please, please.
01:26:19Please, please, please, please, please.
01:26:22Thank you so much.
01:26:23and share their good tips and experiences.
01:26:26This was our show.
01:26:27We tried to teach you a little bit
01:26:30if you've come in the future,
01:26:32what's your benefit?
01:26:33Good morning.
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