Alexandra Gulbis, LCSW, LICSW, ABS·5d agoYour Life Is (likely) NOT a Courtroom, and Nobody Asked for Your DefenseSmall-town divorce, unsolicited evidence, and the peculiar expectation that everybody needs to pick a side.
Alexandra Gulbis, LCSW, LICSW, ABS·Nov 4The Whining Epidemic: Not Every Inconvenience Requires an AudienceOn ordinary frustrations, performative suffering, and the increasingly lost art of dealing with your own discomfort.
Alexandra Gulbis, LCSW, LICSW, ABS·Oct 29Nobody Told Her She Could Do ThatOn the strange resentment we sometimes feel toward people who refuse to make the sacrifices we’ve made.A response icon4A response icon4
Alexandra Gulbis, LCSW, LICSW, ABS·Oct 27Some People Don’t Want to Be Understood. They Want to Be Obeyed.On Dr. House, political theater, and the peculiar expectation that authority should come with applause.
Alexandra Gulbis, LCSW, LICSW, ABS·Oct 20Do You Love Luxury, or Do You Love Not Having to Explain Your Disability?On full-service hotels, invisible disabilities, and the peculiar luxury of having your needs met without an interrogation.A response icon5A response icon5
Alexandra Gulbis, LCSW, LICSW, ABS·Oct 9I Strongly Recommend Not Watching a Public ExecutionNot in person. Not on a livestream. Not in a clip someone sends you afterward. A response icon1A response icon1
Alexandra Gulbis, LCSW, LICSW, ABS·Oct 7Have You Heard the Offer?Women can still want men while deciding that what some men are offering isn’t better than being single.A response icon5A response icon5
Alexandra Gulbis, LCSW, LICSW, ABS·Oct 6Parental Enmeshment Was Never an Equal RelationshipAn adult child may participate (or have formerly participated) in the pattern. That does not mean they had equal power in creating it.A response icon5A response icon5
Alexandra Gulbis, LCSW, LICSW, ABS·Sep 27When Unwanted Help Becomes Another TaskThere is a particular kind of help that does not help.A response icon1A response icon1
Alexandra Gulbis, LCSW, LICSW, ABS·Sep 23The Dysfunctional Family’s Favorite Hobby: Blaming the Wrong PersonEvery dysfunctional family has a remarkable talent.A response icon3A response icon3
