Attachment Styles·May 20The Pursuer Who Secretly Doesn’t Want to Catch ThemSometimes people can have a hard time accepting that the thing they’re grieving isn’t the loss of the person but the loss of the chase…A response icon1A response icon1
Attachment Styles·May 19What Your Nervous System Decided Love Feels Like Before You Were Old Enough to DisagreeYour definition of love was written into your body before you had the words, cognitive architecture to evaluate it, and any basis for…A response icon1A response icon1
Attachment Styles·May 14The Relationship That Exists Only in ConflictSome couples fight constantly and cannot explain why the relationship still feels more alive than anything else they have known. Some…
Attachment Styles·May 12What Therapists Mean When They Say You’re Not Ready for a RelationshipWhen a skilled clinician tells someone they’re not ready for a relationship, they’re making a specific observation about a specific set of…
InMy Avoidant ExbyAttachment Styles·May 11Why Avoidants Pick Anxious Partners on PurposeNobody ends up in this pairing by accident. The dismissive-avoidant and the anxiously attached don’t simply find each other by bad luck or…A response icon5A response icon5
InMy Avoidant ExbyAttachment Styles·May 11What Therapists Call “The Window” and Why Every Relationship Either Expands It or Shrinks ItMost couples think their recurring fights are about the dishes, tone of voice, or the thing that was said last week, but they’re not often…
Attachment Styles·Apr 28Are Dismissive Avoidants Jealous?Dismissive-avoidant jealousy is a misunderstood emotional experience precisely because it tends to wear disguises that look nothing like…A response icon4A response icon4
Attachment Styles·Apr 27Can a Relationship with Dismissive Avoidant and Anxious Attachment Work?There’s no denying that people with anxious attachment and people with dismissive avoidant attachment are initially attracted to each…A response icon6A response icon6
Attachment Styles·Apr 17What Causes Fearful Avoidant AttachmentIt can be quite relieving to understand the origins of a pattern you have lived with for years. Fearful avoidant attachment tends to…A response icon2A response icon2
Attachment Styles·Apr 16I Don’t Want to Leave My Partner, But Interest from Other People Excites Me — What Does It Mean?Does this sound like you: You love your partner and aren’t looking to leave, but when someone else shows interest in you, something lights…
