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Danica Lani

Danica Lani

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May 26, 2023

Blinded? How narrative can help you see

Do you remember a moment when you froze in front of a group of people? You might have been standing in front of your classroom as a kid or…

Blinded? How narrative can help you see

Danica Lani

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May 19, 2023

Feeling Stressed and Out of Balance? It Might Be Your Gender Identity

I’m standing in the kitchen, a dropped plate on the floor, staring at my hand. There’s quite a cut on my palm and it’s starting to bleed…

Feeling Stressed and Out of Balance? It Might Be Your Gender Identity

Danica Lani

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Apr 28, 2023

But why Drag? 10 ways exploring Drag has you be a more round

Imagine a place, a safe place, among people who get you on some level, who perhaps have a similar lived experience… imagine gathering…

But why Drag? 10 ways exploring Drag has you be a more round

Danica Lani

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Apr 14, 2023

The Power of Boundaries: Why Saying No Can Feel So

Hey there, breathtaking human! Today, we’re going to talk about something that’s close to my heart — integrity and sex. As part of the…

The Power of Boundaries: Why Saying No Can Feel So

Danica Lani

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Apr 6, 2023

The magic of being a first-time Drag King

Being a first-time Drag King can be a transformative and empowering experience. My first time performing as a Drag King in 2011 in…

The magic of being a first-time Drag King

Danica Lani

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Mar 23, 2023

Staying sane in the face of public hate

First comes the shock — especially when it’s unexpected. You’re scrolling along on socials and boom — there’s a post that shows you…

Staying sane in the face of public hate

Danica Lani

Danica Lani

The King Coach writing about gender, sexuality & performance for LGBTQIA+ people so that we can be 100% at home in our own skin | Kings of Joy + Queer & Tantric

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