Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers·Jan 10, 2021Unconditional LoveThis came from a conversation I had with my brilliant friend Chelsea.A response icon1A response icon1
Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers·Nov 16, 2020Last night, I had sex. With myself.Some time ago, I attended an event for women wishing to reconnect to their sensuality. The facilitator discussed her self-pleasure…A response icon1A response icon1
Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers·Apr 9, 2020Polyamory Love in the Time of COVID-19Now with most states on lockdown due to social distancing guidelines, nested partners are probably having to interact in ways with their…
Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers·Mar 29, 2020Through the Polyamorous Looking GlassAsk any group of polyamorous people what the prime benefit of polyamory is and you’ll get a variety of answers. More love, freedom…
Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers·Mar 23, 2020Longevity Isn’t the ONLY Measure of Relationship Success: A Personal StoryI met one of my former partners at a meetup for burners at a local bar. I had been curious about Burning Man for a long time and was…
InOur Sensual SelvesbyEvita Lavitaloca Sawyers·Mar 19, 2020Discovering New Insecurities: A Personal Polyamory StoryMy partner and I are in a polyamory dating group on Facebook. One day, someone made a post asking the group members to list which degrees…
InOur Sensual SelvesbyEvita Lavitaloca Sawyers·Mar 17, 2020Performing Bisexuality, A StoryThere’s a heartache when bisexual women encounter straight women pretending to be bi.A response icon1A response icon1
Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers·Feb 26, 2020I’m going to post my tried-and-true method (FOR ME) of dealing with my own jealousies in Polyamory.One: I don’t judge myself for my jealousy, I acknowledge it. It’s just a feeling same like happiness, anger, sadness. I read a book once…
Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers·Feb 8, 2020A personal dating story:I met a new transgender person today. It wasn’t a “date” but we did meet on OkCupid. We just sat by the marina and smoked and talked in the…
Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers·Feb 8, 2020I posted this a few days ago as a Facebook status:“Been having some interesting reflections on my gender identity. Someone recently asked me what my pronouns were and they have been…A response icon1A response icon1
