PinnedSalem Afangideh·Jan 28, 2018Marriage is not an accomplishment but vulnerability and openness to intimacy is.In the past week it has made my heart happy to see responses written about this cultural burden we put on women to get chosen. Not only do…
Salem Afangideh·Nov 22, 2022On Ageism and being a Black (& African) Girl GeniusI turned 28 a little over a week ago! I’ve often been hesitant to talk about birthdays publicly because ageism.
Salem Afangideh·Apr 8, 2019Integrating the multiple identities of an immigrant.It’s crazy how to survive as a 13 year old when I emigrated to the US, I had to erase so much of my Nigerian life:
Salem Afangideh·May 15, 2018Closing The TabThis is a self care practice that started as an inside joke between my mom and I.
Salem Afangideh·Mar 21, 2018Embodying Bravery: A new way of being brave.Once upon a time, bravery meant ignoring fear.
Salem Afangideh·Mar 9, 2018For when you feel really average and regularFrom the depths of the regular The Truth is born; No one is a regular
Salem Afangideh·Mar 3, 2018On Women’s BodiesI often ask that my Heaven be a place where I can walk around in public shirtless without being subjected to any kind of uncomfortable…
Salem Afangideh·Feb 12, 2018My hope for every black person watching Black Panther this weekMay you begin to dream up worlds where you are free, safe, and powerful beyond measure.
Salem Afangideh·Feb 6, 2018Emotionally Unavailable for Valentine’s Day — AN alternative for the Non partnered.Friend: What are your plans for Valentine’s Day? Me: “Well, I plan to be emotionally unavailable”
Salem Afangideh·Jan 29, 20182018: The Year of Less Self Improvement & More LivingWe began 2018 exactly four weeks ago today and my intention for the year was to stop tinkering with myself and be more focused on showing…A response icon1A response icon1