Discovering the secret bond between humans
Don’t you think that It looks really different when you see humans holding each others hand?In a park or in the middle of a street,its easy to see some people who hold hands just to feel closer or special while they share those moments together.But why do people hold hands when they sit together or even walk from point a to b?
Hands symbolize the relationship between “Give and Take” in the nature of humans life.When you serve something to someone or receive it from somewhere,hands are always in action of giving or taking the things you desire.Hands are also used as one of the most powerful tools in human’s interaction.People use them when there is a need to show one of the most essential feelings we keep deep inside,TRUST.
“I trust you!”
As a baby or a little kid,you always felt like there was always a need to hold your parents’ hand when you were on the street.This seems like a protection for parents since they want to take control over their children.Maybe they want prevent them from falling or getting into trouble in a different environment.But the reason why little kids temp to hold their parents’ hand because they feel secure when they know their parents are close enough to reach any given time.Kids can only trust their parents and by holding hands they basically show that they trust.
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Its easy to see lovers holding each other hands in public.It can be an another example for how people show their trust by using hands.While watching a movie,having dinner or even walking on the street…Lovers have the instinct to hold hands,since they feel comfortable to have a company that they admire and most importantly trust.They share the moments by holding hands and feel appreciated to have someone that they can trust.
When you see same genders hold hands,you probably think that they are not straight.The reason why being gay or lesbian might not be fully accepted by every society,this one might be one of the most power examples we can take.The bonds between partner are so strong that even dough they know that there are people who don’t really accept them the way they are,they choose to be together and hold each others hand to walk together by showing the environment that they full trust each other.
Sometimes,the value of holding someone’s hand means a lot more than many of these examples above.I am sure there are moments in our life we feel like we can go back in time.you might wish that person was there next to you and you can hold his/hands and never let go.In order to not regret in the future,It’s always good to keep our loved ones closer.it’s important to hold their hands and make them feel special.Remember there are not many people left that you can fully trust in 21st century.
