You’re the reason we need this flag.

The union jack shows a prime example of the opposite

As a trans person who’s been harassed and excluded at an LGBT event, I don’t feel represented by a rainbow at all anymore. Go do your thing LGB, since I’m not welcome I’m doing mine. If you show me that I’m allowed to be part of you (by putting my thing back into yours) I’m coming back.

There is no racism against whites, idiot. You aren’t being denied jobs, getting houses, being shot by the police for no reason, or being harassed on the streets openly because you’re white.

Stop bitching around and deal with the fact that you’re not a king/queen/monarch anymore you absolute moron.

Sorry for the tone, but this shit pisses me off.

elektronische Tanzmusik. Es kommt von “Hardcore”, der schnelleren Variante des noch etwas bekannteren “Hardstyle”.

Bei Metal isses spezifisch “Harcore Punk”, wovon die ganzen “-core” genres hergeleitet wersen (bei welchen ich auf Teufel komm raus spontan auch nur metalcore und deathcore kenne, könnten die einzigen gängigeren Hardcore Punk Genres sein)

little late but I kinda feel like responding:

The beds are outside in the countryside, usually on fields that are owned by the farmers who offer the “rooms”, so they’re a bit secluded.

You’re brought there by said farmer, he shows you around a bit, shows the fridge, etc. Then he leaves again.

If you need any room service, you just call up the farmer and he comes back to bring it.

No idea about toilets, but I think you’d also have to walk back to the farm. Same if it rains. Pretty much all of those openair hotels are ran by those kinds of farmers anyway, who were used to hotel guests as they’ve been offering “sleeping in the hey” kinda things since years, so for them, it’s pretty much the same, except being a little (sometimes a lot) further away and being logistically a bit more challenging.

Swiss here, no it isn’t. Here’s a (german) overview of a few “openair hotels”: https://www.stilpalast.ch/travel/specials/schlafen-unter-freiem-himmel-7144

I just don’t care about any of that at all. I have around 100TB of seeding accumulated over the years, no VPN, zero security measures, nothing ever happened at all.

Given that it’s Hetzner, there’s not much you can do besides telling them “oops sorry didn’t know this was illegal” and proceed using a VPN on your seedbox, go private tracker or just use a different hoster. Hetzner isn’t a big fan of torrenting since they have the (german) feds in their neck.

yeah, you kinda got one side of it

Even if everyone is perfectly compatible, by going for a triangle you’re also dealing with the dynamic of drastic change to an already existing relationship, which obviously has a stronger bond. Introducing a new person into this dynamic wreaks havoc, since the new person wants to compete, the other two want to spend a lot of time with that new person, overwhelming them, while also sticking to each other at times, essentially third-wheeling the new person.

It never works out. Too many ripples in the pond.

opening an existing mono relationship to become ethically non-monogamous is a very difficult thing

Now to think about, I should probably also put out the warning that triangles are the “extreme” challenge, so to say. Seen it work out once, and only once, and I’ve seen it fail a few dozen of times, including my own attempts at it.

Tringles should reward an irl achievement ngl

That’s poly. There’s many ways on how to deal with these feelings, but acknowledging them and knowing that these aren’t wrong feelings, nor signs of “wanting to cheat” is definitely the first step.

After that, it’s very important to speak about this with your partner, so they too can acknowledge that this is a thing and can understand ehen you talk about such feelings (in order to make sure they don’t think you’re wanting to cheat). Partners sometimes have a hard time dealing with it, been there, it sucks.

Once you’ve built that transparency, there’s many ways to go. Generally, people tend to try out more open ways of relationships, but there is no such thing as “a universal open relationship”, every has to figure things out by themselves, with their partner(s).

As someone who’s poly herself, I can tell you that anything related to relationships has just turned into “hardmode”.

Either you suppress your polyamory and continue staying in a mono relationship. Been there, it didn’t work out for me long-term.

You can try and open the mono relationship up a bit, defining key things you’re (both) allowed to do. This can include flirting, kissing, non-commiting sexual acts (one night stands), non-commited relationships (“dating” but without any commitment, “I might be gone at any time depending on circumstances with my partner”), dating with commitment (having 2 partners at the same time), in which you can also seperate between having a “main partner” and a “side partner”.

Throughout all of this, open, transparent and completely honest communication from everyone involved is mandatory, setting rules and boundaries and accepting them is essential, communicating clearly to new partners where you stand and how those rules are set is paramount.

Love is a strong emotion, it can make you fly over the skies, but it can also pull you into deepest, darkest depths. It’s your responsibility to ensure that the latter is being limited, for you and everyone involved, basically damage control. You will fail often, but that’s just how love is, in mono as well as poly relationships, although such failures hit you harder when in poly relationships.

One of the most important pieces of advice I can give you is to not be ashamed about this, about being poly, about falling in love with people randomly. It’s the same as with any other thing in the LGBTQ+ space, you can’t decide about it, you just are.

Oh right, and one of my biggest points of advice: never commit to more then 3 partners, ever. The time investment is too high to handle it and you will burn yourself out.

There’s a lot more things I could write, but I guess this is the “poly 101”. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out :)

Als Schweizerin fahre ich immer wieder mal durch ganz Deutschland zu meiner Verlobten raus. Bis jetzt bin ich noch nie pünktlich angekommen. Teilweise kommt man auch gar nicht an, weil der Zug aufgrund zu hoher Verspätungen einfach irgendwo die Fahrt beendet.

Ich frage mich bis heute warum die ICEs in jeder Stadt genau 2 Minuten fürs Aus- und Einsteigen einplanen. Die könnten halt auch einfach hingehn und 5 Minuten draus machen, sodass da bisschen Puffer da ist, oder irgendwo mal ne 15min Pause um da wieder was aufholen zu können.

Was ich auch mega schräg finde ist wie die Netze befahren werden. Beispielsweise gibt es 5 verschiedene Verbindungen von Hamburg nach Basel die unterschiedliche Strecken befahren, aber dann häufig wieder auf einer einzelnen Schiene zusammenkommen (beispielsweise die, die durch den Ruhrpott fahren und an random Bahnhöfen halten, aber dann alle in Münster und Düsseldorf halten). Warum kann man da jetzt nicht eine Fernverkehrs-Verbindung machen mit kleineren Verbindungen dazwischen? Sodass man da einfach hingeht und 1x pro Stunde nen Direktzug von Münster nach Düsseldorf durch zieht und dann eine kürzere Verbindung die einfach zwischen Münster und Düsseldorf pendelt und da die ganzen grösseren Ruhrpottstädte zu verbinden?

Aber ja, obviously, sieht halt aufm Papier nich so schön aus. Da steht dann plötzlich dass man von der einen Kleinstadt in die andere 30min länger braucht und 2x Umsteigen muss.

In der Schweiz funktionierts, in Deutschland hat man da wohl zuviel Angst

This guy is creating amazing short videos where he’s debunking UFO sightings with a huge amount of science and simple graphical tools.

Meaning that this is on purpose? If so, who would profit from this? (besides the incompetent CEO themselves)

Aufm Handy brauchste 4G oder 5G damits kommt. Also du musst tatsächlich in nem 4G oder 5G Netz stecken.

I got my ass back into Cyberpunk 2077 of all things.

I recently upgraded my rig with a new GPU + Monitor combo and wanted to check out a more graphic intense game. I somehow got hooked after that, especially since I love the mantis blade combat style (which seems to be unique).

I kinda wanted to just play BG3 since it released, but I guess that can wait for a while, especially since I might have to fully replay CP77 once Phantom Liberty drops lol

If you want to support the creator, spread the word. Paying for things will generally just fill the purses of some rich ass media company execs who sit around all day masturbating on their third yacht.

By spreading the word, the creator is suddenly known for “having created this media that everyone knows”, landing them better deals with media corporations.

This concept applies to pretty much all media in all forms.

Vorurteile bezüglich Meinungen sind nicht gleichzusetzen mit Vorurteilen bezüglich Dingen die nicht von Personen beinflusst werden können.

Du magst den Osten nich? Zieh weg. Du findest Ausländer kacke? Informier dich ma.

Du bist schwarz? Tjoa ne. Du bist Migrant? Blöd ne. Du bist behindert? Joa.

Hab die Notification erst jetz gesehn (Lemmy is da bisschen langsam so wies aussieht), aber japp, bei der aktuellen Lage in Ostdeutschland (mit grossen Nazigruppen die da rausziehn und ner gigantischen AFD Wählerschaft) ist dieses Meme doch schon eine absolute Realität im Osten, und die Vorurteile damit auch definitiv gut begründet.

Ich hau dir hier auch gerne mal noch ein “keine Toleranz gegen Intoleranz”, was in anderen Worten so viel bedeutet wie “Nazis hassen ist absolut gerechtfertigt”.

Fuck Nazis.