Love yourself
For anyone that knows me you probably know how jokingly cocky I am. I’m not rude arrogant , conceited but I’m more of the love yourself kind of cocky. Ok both seem really narcissistic but trust me I think its a good way to build confidence. I always go around hyping myself up and being like oh you look great today, you feel great today look at you and thinking I’m the funniest person alive or that I would be the best person to be friends with. You know those people who are just like”wow i’m so funny more people should get to know me” @ me relatable. (I feel like I probably just quoted myself) I’m cocky in a sense that I’m just happy with who I am and I’m proud of what I’ve become. I’m not being cocky to be mean to anyone it’s more of a hey I’m going to be humorous cocky.
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BECAUSE Why wait for someone to gas you up when you can gas up yourself. YOU KNOW. Sometimes my bf is like damn you’re gassing yourself up and I’m like damn right I am because you should love yourself. I shouldn’t wait for someone to compliment me or make me feel good. Sometimes you just have to be like yeah I’m the sh*t.
I have talks with myself just to boast my confidence and when u live life with confidence the world does become a better place. Happiness has a lot to do with your mindset and by being positive it changes your perspective. Don’t get me wrong I have my days where I feel like I suck. I think my confidence is strong in my personality but not when it comes to my skills. For my skills I am pretty insecure but practice makes improvement right. I’m not perfect, I self doubt a sh*t ton but I know in the back of my mind that I have the potential for so much more. You’re capable of so many things. I think everyone should try hyping themselves up. Look in the mirror and just go you look great, you feel great and you’re going to do well. Even if it seems embarrassing or something you normally do, its still fun to try!!
