KittenBiscuits, kittenbiscuits@lemmy.today

So necromantic!

This thing, right?

And that’s totally ok for both of you to feel that way. It ultimately depends on the chemistry going on in one’s brain. Just because your wife and I are tomboys doesn’t mean we view ourselves as nonbinary, but for my roomie who was also not a girly girl yet also not a tomboy, they decided that nonbinary more accurately described how they thought about themselves. I could have a tomboy identical twin and they could feel like they were more nonbinary or transgendered than I do. Or they could feel like a girl (like me) and be more attracted to girls than I am. It’s up to the individual to determine what seems most right for them.

My hubby isn’t a “manly man” in the sense that he doesn’t religiously follow sports or go hunting or tinker in the garage, but he very much identifies as male, and his coworkers often call him the ‘alpha’ (which I hesitated to mention because we both feel the alpha/beta categorizing culture is pretty cringey, but I went ahead and brought it up to illustrate that others see him as quite assertive). He just has an authority rebelliousness and speaks up for the group and calls people/mgmt on their bullshit.

If 2 people are really alike in terms of hobbies and style and personality, they could still differ in how they perceive their gender. And to make things even more complicated, how one perceives their gender may not match up with the sexual equipment they have. That is a factor in how many trans people experience dysphoria. What they see in the mirror doesn’t match up with how they feel. Imagine if you got Freaky Fridayed into someone else’s body unexpectedly, how you would react to looking in a mirror. That can be how they feel about it every time they look in a mirror.

I will say that I’m proud of you for asking questions and being curious. That’s how we learn. I myself went through the “isn’t gender and sex the same thing??” And once I grasped how it’s not how society labels a person but how that person determines this for themselves, same as how I determine for myself that just because I don’t like makeup doesn’t mean I’m trans, that it kind of clicked that how people present themselves and feel about themselves is a very personal journey, and that two similar people can come to two very different conclusions, both of which are correct. And that was a horribly long run-on sentence, but thank you for sticking with me to the end. 😄✌️

Nonbinary is how they view their own gender. They don’t really see themselves as male or female, or they can identify with elements of both, and anything in between.

Sexual preference in a partner is where you would use the terms hetero, gay, bi, poly, ace…..

Like I identify as female. I was assigned female at birth. But I am by no means a girly girl. I am more comfortable hanging out with fellas. I do like dresses, sometimes. I do like heels, sometimes. I don’t like makeup. I do like jewelry. Most often you will find me barefoot. I like smutty books, and football, and crochet, and power tools, and flowers, and using my truck for truck things like hauling, towing, and pulling my husband’s cute little convertible out of a ditch.

My old college roomie is nonbinary. They kind of have the same dressing and hobby and entertainment preferences as me. We are really compatible. I’ve often thought if I wasn’t with my husband, I could see myself with them. But they made the call that they are more in the middle, and don’t identify female, yet not quite male either. Their term (it may be a loaded term for some folks) for themselves is something other, with ’nonbinary’ being the closest they can come with today’s terminology to describe it. Yet they do have a preference in sexual partner, they are not bi or poly, maybe a little ace.

Tl;dr nonbinary is how some folks see themselves and how they feel in their own skin, not what genitals they prefer on a sexual partner.

Oh my heart!

Lean into the southern-ness and call them Honey, Sugar, or Sweetie?

It gets easier to pull off the older I get.

Make sure the ones that protect against fire also protect against water. The 2 features are not always guaranteed to come together.

I muddled through the 1200s with context clues, and was still catching words in the 1100s, but gave up on the 1000s. It was too brutally yuele.

I would love to find an audio version to see how far I could get on spoken word alone. Being from the Appalachians, I’ve always been told our dialect is older.

My OCD diagnosed hubby self-medicates with sugar and/or naps. Weed does nothing for him. And he can’t have caffeine due to a congenital heart defect.

When we lived there, I took solace that we’d be vaporized early. I lived in the county where the majority of internet traffic flows. The Land of 1,000 Data Centers™️. I assumed it was on multiple target lists.

Now that I don’t live there, I still take solace that we ended up incidentally moving to another high-priority target area. Vaporization is still on the menu. We won’t be alive long enough to know or care what hit us.

Yes! My grandfather (the movies one from my other comment, not the moonshiner) was still leaving his business cards on people’s doors in the 90s when I’d ride around with him trying to collect payments on our customers’ accounts.

Lol, when he was 17, my papaw was transporting moonshine for his uncle.

My other grandfather was spending weekends driving over to Harlan to go to the movies.

“Fun” fact: Syfy originally was spelled correctly. Then they implemented this terrible rebranding. Though now that I think about it, had probably more to do with improving outcomes of trademark protection as Syfy isn’t a regular word. It was probably hard to go after others infringing on “Sci-fi” since that is a common word. Same probably goes for the “Trvl” channel.

I thought the conclusion was gong to be that you’ve lost track of your elephant.

My great uncle did. He survived North Africa, Sicily, and Omaha Beach. So he had some things to say.

Followed by a Triple H spray into the air!

But maybe better done with juice boxes or just plain water, bc dispersed milk mist going rancid would be extra grody.

I love the lighting, the orange-red leaf contrasting with the green algae, and the tree rings of the lumber. So many things to notice in a “simple” composition. Well done!

I give them props for the attempt.

It’s a version of “why do we drive on the parkway and park on the driveway? What’s up with thattttt?”

You can monitor fundraising at the FEC website:
https://www.fec.gov/data/browse-data/

Some PACs file quarterly and some monthly. I think it depends on size & volume. So this site won’t ever have up to the minute data, but you can search out individual contributors. I used to compile filings for my employer’s PAC. It was a tiny PAC comparatively, and it swung one way or the other depending on which candidates were in favor of the PAC’s main issue. But learning the internal machinations was eye opening.