True men don’t hide from tension — they bring direction to it. 💬 - video Dailymotion

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00:00We've got a large number of men who are ignoring their wives.

00:04I don't even know how, what are you, like seven years old?

00:07That's not how we deal with things.

00:08That's not how we treat our wife.

00:09That's not how we navigate this thing called marriage.

00:12Yeah, you're upset, man.

00:13Yeah, be mad for five minutes.

00:14Now we're good.

00:15Let's get over it.

00:16Let's make up.

00:17You have to drive the makeup.

00:19You cannot be a man who ignores the problem.

00:22That'll never solve anything.

00:23And it makes your wife feel less than it.

00:25It makes her feel like you're not part of the team,

00:27that you're not trying to make this marriage thing work.

00:29You are the man.

00:30We have a better control over our emotions because we feel things one-tenth they do.

00:35And so as soon as we have a fight, we have an argument right away,

00:38five, six, seven minutes.

00:40Okay, now I need to navigate us out of that fight.

00:43I don't ignore her and make her feel less than it.

00:45Absolutely not.

00:46Don't go off in the garage.

00:47Don't come home all pouty.

00:48We're not designed to pout.

00:49You're not seven years old.

00:51But instead, you were designed to conquer your problems,

00:53to overcome your problems.

00:54And how do we do that?

00:55Not ignoring them.

00:57But instead, we go talk.

00:58We apologize.

00:59Well, I wasn't wrong.

01:00Well, you did something wrong.

01:02Obviously, we had a fight argument.

01:03And you could start the apology.

01:05I believe that men, we are the ones that are supposed to be starting that.

01:08We start the apology.

01:10They'll finish the apology.

01:11And we get to the other side of it.

01:13You'll never build something great by simply ignoring the problem,

01:18by getting all pouty and mad.

01:20But instead, drive this marriage towards love.

01:23That's your job.

01:24Drive it.

01:24Drive past the argument.

01:27Drive past the disagreement.

01:29And drive it right to the marriage you're supposed to have.

True men don’t hide from tension — they bring direction to it. 💬

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