Honorary/Emeritus Professor; Medical Doctor | PhD, Internationally recognised multi award winning;Neurodivergent; Founder of tech 4 good neurodiversity profiling and training company
Getting Email Etiquette Right: Clear, Neuroinclusive Communication Email can be a minefield—too short and it seems abrupt, too long and it’s overwhelming. Have you read into an email and thought it was rude, abrupt or said something completely different to what it actually said? Did you find it hard to know what to do next? For some neurodivergent people, unclear language, implied meanings, or hidden expectations can make emails a source of stress. Here’s how to keep communication clear and more neuroinclusive: Be direct, not vague – Say what you mean. Instead of “Let’s catch up soon,” try “Are you free on Thursday at 2 PM for a 15-minute call?” Avoid reading between the lines – Not everyone picks up on subtle cues. If you need something, state it explicitly rather than hinting. Structure matters – Use bullet points, short paragraphs, and clear subject lines to make emails easier to process. Clarity over politeness overload – While greetings and sign-offs are important, excessive niceties (“Just checking in, hope you’re well, no rush but…”) can dilute the key message. Set expectations – If a response is needed, say when: “Please reply by Wednesday.” If not urgent, make that clear to reduce pressure. Neuroinclusive emails benefit everyone—less stress, fewer misunderstandings, and clearer communication. What would you add to the list?